Perfection Outside (The New Breed)

The Paragon Project

The New Breed: Perfection Outside - First Edition -

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Perfection Outside: Table of Contents Part I ~ The System Preface ................................................................................................................................................ 7 Introduction: Inescapable Attraction ...........................................................................................8 The WOW System .................................................................................................................................. 12 Visualization of the WOW .................................................................................................................... 40 Creating Your WOW Styles ................................................................................................................ 43

Part II ~ The Techniques Stage 1 Techniques ........................................................................................................................... 45 Passive Openers ............................................................................................................................. 46 Hybrid Passive Openers ..................................................................................................................56 Playboy Club Photographer ................................................................................................................. 59 The Police Patrol ..............................................................................................................................62 Branding ............................................................................................................................................66 Opener Cloaking ................................................................................................................................ 69 Under the Radar IOI's ....................................................................................................................... 72 The Chessmaster ............................................................................................................................... 75 Dance Floor Seduction .....................................................................................................................80 Circling & Ejecting ............................................................................................................................87 Stage 2 Techniques .......................................................................................................................... 91 The Leech ........................................................................................................................................... 92 The Neg Twins .................................................................................................................................... 98 Forced IOI's ......................................................................................................................................... 103 107 The Sunglasses Neg ........................................................................................................................... 110 She was Born to Add to Your Rapport ............................................................................................ 112 The Mail Slam Cam ............................................................................................................................... 115 Casting Call ........................................................................................................................................ 119 Stage 3 Techniques ...................................................................................................................... The Camera Close .............................................................................................................................120 124 Testing the Waters ............................................................................................................................. 128 Power Pawns ...................................................................................................................................... 132 Stage 4 Techniques ........................................................................................................................ 133 Isolation Reference Points ................................................................................................................ Reverse Storytelling .........................................................................................................................138 142 Games ................................................................................................................................................. The Flea Flicker ...............................................................................................................................146 148 Stage 5 Techniques ........................................................................................................................... Manufactured Mystique ................................................................................................................ 149

Prop, Lock & Drop it ........................................................................................................................153 Social Banishment ............................................................................................................................156 161 Fairy Princess Tele-Tease .................................................................................................................. 164 Blind-Sided Takeaway .......................................................................................................................... Stride Breaking ............................................................................................................................... 169 Stage 6 Techniques .....................................................................................................................172 173 Confessions ......................................................................................................................................... Secret Rapport Agent ......................................................................................................................175 178 Stage 7 Techniques ...................................................................................................................... 179 Reference Leeching .............................................................................................................................. Great Kisser Message .......................................................................................................................182 184 The Misery Test ................................................................................................................................. 187 Reckless Seduction ............................................................................................................................... 190 Trust, Lust & Close ............................................................................................................................. Stage 8 Techniques .....................................................................................................................194 195 Smoke & Mirrors ............................................................................................................................... 198 Stage 9 Techniques ...................................................................................................................... Juggling More Than One Woman .................................................................................................199 202 Stage 10 Techniques .................................................................................................................... Gold in the Closet .............................................................................................................................203 Me Language .....................................................................................................................................207 Status Symbols ..................................................................................................................................212 The Emotional Overflow Connection ............................................................................................217 219 Stage 11 Techniques ...................................................................................................................... 220 The Complete Cycle of Love ............................................................................................................. 223 Universal Techniques ...................................................................................................................... 224 Cherry Picking ..................................................................................................................................... 227 The Beta-fier ........................................................................................................................................ 231 Handling Haters ................................................................................................................................. 234 Wing Signals ......................................................................................................................................... 237 Crowning ............................................................................................................................................ 240 Leading the Target .............................................................................................................................. Tuck and Rolls .................................................................................................................................245 Personal Answering Machine .........................................................................................................248 Rebound Attraction ........................................................................................................................ 251

Part III ~ Closing Content Message from TIC ..............................................................................................................................255 Contributions ...................................................................................................................................256 Glossary: Seduction Terminology .................................................................................................... 259

Special Thanks .................................................................................................................................261 The Inner Circle ................................................................................................................................262

"Think fun, not outcome." - Orlandomac

This book is dedicated to our friend and former TIC member:

Best Lion

Perfection Outside: Preface Before we get to the good stuff, first let me warn you that we are not exaggerating when we say that our outer game material is very advanced, and we are comfortable stating that it is more advanced than anything that you have seen before. With that said, it is important that we make sure you are ready for it before you jump right in. If you do not first have the inner game to reinforce this advanced outer game that we will be teaching you, you will not be able to properly make use of our systems and techniques. It is for this very reason that we have chosen to combine Perfection Inside and Perfection Outside as a package deal. In order to be a very successful pick up artist you need to have both aspects of the game perfected, only one will not suffice. Having one without the other is like planting a seed but not having any rain to make it grow and sustain it. Note: It is highly recommended that you read Perfection Inside before reading this book! Those of you who have either already been in the community for some time or have some natural skill may have purposely skipped Perfection Inside to get to the techniques. If that is the case, you can skip the test below and proceed on to the next section. Those of you who are still unsure of your abilities, please answer the following questions as honestly as possible: On a scale of 1-10, how far do you think you have overcome your fear of approaching and talking to women? 1 being still totally afraid and 10 being not scared at all:

_______ On a scale of 1-10, how confident do you believe you are, not only with women but in all aspects of life? 1 being totally insecure and 10 being almost overconfident:

_______ On a scale of 1-10, how eager are you to get out there and start meeting beautiful women on a regular basis? 1 being very hesitant and 10 being not able to hold yourself back:

_______ On a scale of 1-10, how comfortable are you in social settings, such as packed night clubs and other similar venues? 1 being very nervous and 10 being extremely relaxed:

_______ Total Score_______ After answering those question and then adding up your total score, if your total exceeds 25 you are most likely ready to proceed on and perfect your outer game. However, if you scored below 25 we highly recommend that you read Perfection Inside before plunging any deeper into this book. We can not guarantee any results if you attempt to advance prematurely.

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Introduction: Inescapable Attraction It is highly recommended that you read this before proceeding on to the WOW System!

Mind Over Matter All human beings have a complex network of programming in our minds which serves the purpose of controlling our emotions and subconscious behavior, as well as many other things. This neural network is made up of thousands of "switches", that once flipped will each have a set reaction, thus carrying out its purpose. Each switch also has a "trigger" (some have many triggers, others only one) that is used to initiate the flipping of the switch. Some of these switches are acquired through our experiences in life, while others have been hardwired into us since birth and are given unanimously to all people. The triggers come from the external world around us. The switches are what happens inside of our minds as a result of the trigger. Finally, our emotions are what we project back out into the world around us when this process occurs. The triggers flip the switches, which results in the switches releasing our emotions:

For example, phobias are switches that are acquired by many individuals due to an unfortunate event in their lives, and will have triggers attached to them that are somewhat related to that event. For instance, if a young boy who could not swim fell into the water, he could possibly develop a phobia because of that event. His fear of being in the water would become the switch, and the triggers for this switch would be anything related to swimming. If that boy were to fall into the water again at an older age, the switch would immediately be flipped and he would begin to panic, thus releasing an array of negative emotions. Someone that knows this boy could easily exploit his phobia by purposely putting him into a situation that would flip his switch, but in order to do so they would first need to be aware that his

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unique switch exists. This is why experience-based switches can not be used to your advantage when you are seducing women, because this type of switch varies on an individual basis and everyone's switches will be different. However, this is not the case with the other switches that are pre-programmed into all of us as a result of many years of evolution. It is these switches that play a major role in our daily lives, whether we want them to or not, and since we all have the same switches they can be applied to seduction and manipulated to achieve positive, consistent results. This is done primarily by:

Releasing Emotions The three most important switches in a woman's mind that you must "flip" while courting her are: Interest, Attraction and Trust. These three switches each have vital emotions attached to them, and when you succeed at flipping one of the switches, all of the emotions that are controlled by that switch will begin to turn on. The process of picking up a woman is nothing more than figuring out a way to flip each of these three switches in her mind. Once that is done she will really have little choice when it comes to feeling attracted towards you, she simply will be. However, these three switches must be flipped in the proper order, because if they are triggered out of sequence your interaction with the woman will not seem to be following its natural course, resulting in possible failure. The correct order in which these switches must be flipped is: Interest -> Attraction -> Trust. Before you can understand why these switches must be flipped in this particular order, you must first know the main emotions that they are each attached to. The actual full range of emotions that these three switches control is not known; the emotions listed below are simply those that are the most important and useful to us as pick up artists: The Interest switch controls a woman's: curiosity, expectancy, wonder and excitement. The Attraction switch controls her: desire, lust, passion, infatuation, pleasure and admiration. The Trust switch determines her: comfort, relaxation, calmness and attachment. Now that you know the particular emotions that are controlled by each switch, you should be able to fully understand why the switches must be flipped in the correct order (Interest, Attraction, Trust). Your target must first be curious about you before she will desire you, she must desire you before she will feel an attachment to you and she must feel an attachment to you before she will let you sleep with her. I know that you're just getting started with all of this reading and stuff, but why don't you go practice your skills for a while? Balancing your time between learning and real life experience is what will make you truly successful with women. Get out there! To further your understanding of how these switches work, let me give you a brief analogy:

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Imagine that a large asteroid were to land in the middle of the Pacific Ocean. The impact of an asteroid of this magnitude would surely cause a tidal wave, and that tidal wave would undoubtedly cause destruction on a massive scale. The asteroid is the trigger, the tidal wave is the switch and the destruction is the end result and true purpose of the switch. Once the asteroid makes contact with the ocean, everything else that follows as a result of this trigger is inevitable and can not be stopped. The switches within our minds work in a very similar manner, and once one of the switches has been flipped, the emotions that follow are not within our control. If we had the power necessary to control our emotions, there would no longer be any negative ones, as we would remove them from our minds completely. No matter how much of a mental acrobat someone may be, they still can not defy neural gravity. This is why every man on earth has the ability to attract and seduce the woman of his dreams, he only needs to flip the right switches in her mind that will allow him to do so. Of course, knowing what to do is not nearly as important as knowing how to do it, so in order to achieve all of this he will need to have a tool at his disposal which has been specifically designed to flip these three switches in the proper sequence.

Enter: The Wheel of Wooing The Wheeling of Wooing (aka: the WOW System) has been fully built around the concept of flipping the Interest, Attraction and Trust switches in a woman's mind. Even though the WOW System has the unique feature of allowing users to design their own customized pick up styles when using the system, the goals for each stage of the WOW remain the same. Regardless of the way in which you choose to use the system, you will always succeed in flipping all three of the required switches in their proper order. This is the beauty of the Wheel of Wooing.

Law of Outer Game:

The WOW has been designed based on the way that the female mind works, allowing you to maximize your potential as a pick up artist by not only flipping the Interest, Attraction and Trust switches in her mind, but progressing deeper and unlocking other more potent emotions by continually flipping these important switches multiple times.

Pace Yourself...

This unique process that the WOW System takes you through will guide you progressively through your courtship with a woman until you tap into her most powerful emotion of all: Love.

Seduction is all about escalation. If you hit a woman with your most potent game right away during your opener, you will doom yourself to eventually peak and then fall off within 30-60 minutes. This happens because you did not leave yourself any "head room" for escalation, and thus will have nothing new to woo her with when it is time to escalate since you hit her with everything all at once. It is important to first start off with some light gaming, then escalate to moderate and then heavy as time goes on. This keeps everything fresh and interesting, which also allows the woman to feel as if there is something "more" that has yet to come. This effectively creates anticipation which increases your chance of a positive outcome.

Very soon you will find the Wheel of Wooing itself, but before you dive into all of that...

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Open Your Mind It has been rapidly becoming a popular belief that "PUA tricks" such as techniques, routines and systems such as the Wheel of Wooing are immoral and sleazy. However, this is a common misconception that has been promoted by those that simply do not fully understand what our work is truly all about. The WOW System, as well as all of the other Paragon Project material that you will be learning, is nothing more than an interpretation of the social dynamics that have already been in place long before we arrived. Men who are instinctively skilled at attracting women use the same skills that we will be teaching you, but they do not even know exactly what they are doing because it comes to them naturally and just feels right. All that we at The Inner Circle have done is identified the social skills and processes that these "naturals" use, then compiled them into a flawless system that any man can use in order to be just as successful with women as the men who have the natural gift of game. We are just leveling the playing field. At first glance, some of the skills that you will learn from this book may appear to be mere pick up tricks, while others will seem very natural. However, if you pay close attention and have an open mind, you will begin to notice that men who have no affiliation to the seduction community whatsoever have been using these same "tricks" around you during your entire life, and have had great success with women as a result. Everything that we will teach you has been observed and interpreted from our experiences in the world. We have not invented anything at all, we have simply understood these ideas and put them into writing so that others may understand them as well. In essence, we are more like seduction interpreters than seduction creators. We do not create our material out of thin air, instead we identify the things in the world that women really respond to, then figure out why it works and how we can repeat the same process on a consistent basis.

Kicking the Can Also, you will notice that here at the Paragon Project we do not condone using “canned” linefor-line routines. We do give some examples of how our material can be applied, but instead of telling you to copy our lines into your game, we encourage you to develop your own spontaneously while in the field. Our examples are for demonstration purposes only, they are meant to further your understanding of what we are teaching and nothing more. We strongly believe that when a man only uses the same “cookie-cutter” routines over and over, he isn't developing any real skill and is just some dude with a few good lines. If you were expecting to find some good canned openers and routines in this book, then unfortunately you've bought the wrong product. We are here to teach the stuff that really works and develops you into a seduction superstar, not the quick-fix crap that gets played out after a month and only works on special occasions and with certain types of women. This is the real deal. Now, onward to the Wheel of Wooing:

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The Wheel Of Wooing (WOW System) This system is a documented reflection of the natural behavior of one of the most successful natural seducers of our time. It has been created in an attempt to allow its users the ability to mimic his style of seduction and achieve similar results, while still remaining true to their own personality and within their comfort zone through the customization of the system to meet their specific needs. This system is an interpretation of the game of Paragon himself. The Wheel Of Wooing has proven to be effective for every dedicated user to date. Paragon: “Ok, which one of you just grabbed my ass?” HB: “Why don't you buy us a round of drinks? Then we'll tell you.” Paragon: “Well, there's only one sink in the bathroom, you guys will have to take turns.” HB: Laughs “You're funny.” Paragon: “No, seriously. It's not a big deal, I'll wait.” The moral of the above dialog: Always remain in control of your interactions with women. If they test you, blow it off and hit them with a test of your own. Stand your ground out there, getting the respect of others is simply a matter of demanding it from them.

The System The circle is undoubtedly the most powerful shape in our universe. Some even believe that the universe itself is elliptical, which makes plausible sense given the fact that our solar system, sun and moon all share this simple design. It is in this tradition's footsteps that the Wheel Of Wooing (WOW System) has followed in order to demonstrate its prowess as a system for courtship. The WOW is a very useful tool for generating effective pick up styles on the fly, and it is the foundation on which much of the Paragon Project is being built.

Becoming familiar with the WOW is highly recommended! It's best to think of the WOW system as a pre-structured template, in which the basic working gears and guidelines are set up to tell you what needs to be done during each step of the attraction and seduction process. It also tells you which type of technique should be used at any given time, then you "fill in the blanks" by choosing techniques that fit well with your personal taste and strong points, and avoid those that would exploit your weaknesses. This flexibility that the WOW allows helps you to easily develop completely customized pick up styles that are tailored to your exact specifications. This ensures that you will be totally comfortable when using them in the field, which maximizes your potential and success rate.

The WOW Brings Everything Together It's like the glue that brings all of your favorite techniques and routines together, merging them all into one congruent style, your style. Then it allows everything to flow out of you

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naturally at the right time, eliminating the awkwardness that typically comes along with using structured routines that are not of your own design. Your WOW styles and routines will be your own creations, you simply choose which techniques you want to use and then plug them into the existing system, or even develop your own and apply them as well. Note: If you find that you are good at developing new techniques on your own, you may have what it takes to become a TIC member! If so, contact us for details on how to apply. This unique "plug-and-play" feature of the WOW system also makes it possible for us at The Inner Circle to release much of our latest material to you instantly without the need to write a new book, so you'll always stay in the loop and on top of your game. All that you need to do is simply learn our new material and then add it into your current styles, it's just as easy as upgrading a software program! Following the exact word-for-word routines and openers that a system requires is now a thing of the past. With the WOW system, your game can now be as unique as you are. You can even trade the styles that you build with other Paragon Project students in the private VIP section of our forums, located at http://forums.paragonproject.com. This will be helpful if you prefer to use strategies submitted by others rather than your own, or simply want to show off and prove why your own combination of techniques is superior. It's also a great way to get feedback and constructive criticism on the styles that you create. The process of creating and using a custom WOW style is as simple as this:

Using WOW-generated custom styles will also help you to efficiently navigate around every obstacle that you will encounter between the time that a woman notices your presence until the time that she sleeps with or falls in love with you. This is where the structure of the system comes into play and the stages help to keep you on track regardless of what techniques you've chosen to use during each stage. You can think of it as being similar to the bumpers that they put up on the lanes for children at a bowling alley; no matter which direction they throw the ball, it still hits the pins at the end. The WOW leaves very little room for error. Quick Hint: The WOW system is more tailored towards approaching groups of women rather than single sets. This is because of two reasons: high quality, single women will almost always be found in groups, and when you approach a group you will have more options available to you. Approaching groups instead of solo women will greatly increase your rate of success, and you will also be meeting more women as an additional perk.

Out With the Old Until now there has been a "fork in the road" that every aspiring PUA would eventually come to during his journey of skill development. One road would lead to a skill set based on

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structured, "canned" routines, while the other would lead to a skill set of techniques based on natural, "clean" game. The WOW system bridges this gap because it allows you to "plug in" the techniques of your choice while still following a structured system. Whether you like to follow a well laid out plan or prefer to just "wing it" with basic skills, the end result will always be the same when you follow the stages of this system. For the first time in history, PUA's now have the ability to use techniques from both ends of the spectrum together at the same time without experiencing any contradictions in their game, this allows us to develop new pick up styles that were never before possible and are completely customized for each user. Up until now, the development of unique pick up styles has been a privilege only available to the gurus and master PUA's whom have been discovering new material within the community. Now the average PUA can also enjoy having this level of flexibility in his own game. Everything is changing. It's evolution. In the TNB package that you received when making your purchase, you will find two types of printable WOW style planners that you can use to design your own WOW-based styles. Feel free to have a look at them right now so you can get the general idea of how it works, but before you begin creating your first style you should continue reading and learn about each stage of this system in detail. Let's do that now:

It's Supposed to be Fun! While we were initially designing the WOW System, we made it our goal to not only create a seduction system that was effective, but was also entertaining to use. The way in which the WOW allows you to create your own styles, follow your own rules and even use your own techniques makes it by far the funnest system to use and manipulate. We just wanted to make picking up chicks fun again. After all, seduction should be play time, not work time. It's not called a “game” for nothing.

11 Stages, 5 Types The WOW is divided into 11 major stages that each fall under one of the following 5 different types: Initiation, Reinforcement, Confirmation, Advancement and Perpetual. Each of these types are labeled on the diagram with a unique color to avoid confusion, and understanding the contrast between the 5 types of stages is one of the keys to mastering this system. The Wheel Of Wooing is designed in such a way that it requires each stage to be completed in order for you to progress on to the next, steadily moving you inward toward the stage that you desire. Whether that be: a night of wild sex (Stage 9: Sex), a long fulfilling relationship (Stage 11: Love), her phone number (Stage 3: Selection) or all of the above. This unprecedented level of control that the WOW grants the user is what is rapidly making this system become a favorite within the seduction community. However, the WOW is not without its limitations and restrictions: Each individual stage of the WOW system must be completed in the order that they are set before further advancement can be made to the next stage, and you will soon learn that this rule has been implemented for many good reasons. I've stressed the importance of this rule

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twice so far (if you missed the first you are not paying close enough attention, this is important stuff!) because the system may not function properly if you attempt to complete the stages out of sequence or skip a stage (unless a technique or style allows it). It could, but that depends solely on your level of skill and ability to adapt to unexpected situations. Don't say I didn't warn you! By utilizing the WOW in the way that it was designed, you will move very smoothly through the courtship process with a woman and never miss any crucial feelings of interest, attraction or trust that you must trigger in her mind during your pursuit for her affection. You will also effectively be lowering her "shields" that she has naturally developed to help her mislead and brush off would-be suitors. All high caliber women are equipped with these elaborate social defense systems and use them on a daily basis. If they did not have them, they would (in theory) sleep with every man that approaches them, and you should know by now that they are not going to do that! It would be putting their currently high social status in jeopardy and also run the risk of them acquiring the "slut" label. Not to mention the fact that you would no longer need this book and I'd be out seeking new employment. You'll learn more about how to bypass a woman's barriers and tests throughout the course of this manual, but for now let's have a look at a breakdown of the 11 stages and 5 types that they come in with a detailed explanation for each.

The 5 Types

Below you will find descriptions of the 5 unique types of stages in the WOW system. Each type is identified by it's color on the chart, and while the types of stages are not as important as the actual stages themselves, it is crucial that you know what they are and how they work, not only individually, but when combined together as well. Remember the colors. They are designed to simplify the use of this system, and you will be able to easily refer to the circle graph once you have memorized the colors. The normal stages increase in darkness as they progress, and the “special” stages are bright, bold colors.

Initiation Stages As the name implies, initiation stages are starting points. During these stages you will be laying down the initial foundations for the three main aspects of the system: Interest, Attraction and Trust. Initiation stages are critical due to the fact that everything that follows will be based upon them in some way or another. You should also think of initiation stages as "gateways", simply because they allow you to progress to new realms of opportunity and many

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of the later stages would simply not be possible without them. Even though initiation stages are very important, you can expect to not be spending much of your time using them while you are wooing a women. Most of the game is played during the later stages of the WOW.

Reinforcement Stages During these stages you will be building upon those basic foundations that you laid down during the initiation stages. Many new techniques may come into play while you are reinforcing but you will also be using many of the same tactics as before, just more potent versions of them. In these stages you will unleash many of the "secret weapons" that you will learn throughout this manual and push them to their limits. You will also be spending a considerable amount of time in reinforcement, as these stages tend to be where the majority of the game is played. Learn to love these stages and they will love you back.

Law of Outer Game: Most Powerful Word? Believe it or not, the most powerful word in the English language is “no”. Never be afraid to say no to a woman, because most of the time when your target asks you for something or wants you to do something it is nothing more than a test. You may or may not already be familiar with these tests, but in case you're not, in the seduction community they are commonly referred to as "Shit Tests". To pass her tests, you can simply decline her request, which will display to her that you are a high value man that she does not have the power to manipulate, thus increasing her attraction towards you. To even further the effect of this, you can act as if you are disappointed in her for thinking that you are a low value man that she can control and begin giving her less attention or even eject yourself from the set. This will force her to re-approach you, which is an Extreme Indicator of Interest (XIOI).

Confirmation Stages Confirmation stages are used to confirm the feelings of trust, attraction and interest that you've made a woman feel towards you during the previous stages. They "put the nail in the coffin" so to speak and remove any doubts that she may have, allowing you to progress your relationship with her on to a deeper level. You should only move into the confirmation stages if you are preparing for a long term relationship (LTR) with the woman in question, in all other cases these stages should be completely avoided. The sole purpose of the confirmation stages is to generate feelings related to love.

Advancement Events These unique stages (selection and seduction) are arguably the most important in the WOW system. It is during these advancement events that your game plan will shift focus and become more directed toward exactly what you want at that time (phone number, sex etc.). These stages will also serve as checkpoints, meaning that once you reach an advancement event you can always "rewind" back to it if you need to, but you should never go back past it. Making backward progress past an advancement event is a sure-fire game killer. Advancement events are also milestones, so give yourself a pat on the back each time that you reach one, it means that whatever you have been doing is working and you are getting much closer to your goal.

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Perpetual Events Perpetual events are those that tend to re-occur on a regular basis once you have reached them, and will continue to do so for as long as you wish! The perpetual stages (sex and love) function in a way that is very similar to the advancement events. However, the characteristic that makes them slightly differ is the fact that you can make backward progress outward from these red stages if you feel that the relationship is becoming more intimate than you want it to be. This gives the perpetual events the opportunity to play a major role in many custom routines that are designed to serve a specific purpose. For example, if your goal is to keep a particular girl at "booty call" status without her falling in love with you, you can easily accomplish this by adding the following routine to the end of one of your custom styles:

The "Bottomless" Booty Call (aka The Everlasting Booty Call)

Don't you just love the double meaning in that name? This is a great plug-in routine that is set up to allow you to maintain a sexual based relationship with a woman without her catching strong feelings for you. This is a very effective method, and works so well because you continually "rewind" the relationship. This prevents it from making forward progress while still allowing you to continue having access to sex with the woman. Here is what you do... Advance your relationship with her as normal by using the routines/techniques of your choice (must be designed to lead at least up to stage 9) until you reach stage 9 and succeed at having sex with her. After doing so you then avoid moving on to the black confirmation stages and instead step back to stage 7 and begin to seduce her all over again. Your playful attitude during the seduction stage 7 greatly differs from how it would be if you had continued on into the much more serious confirmation stages that ultimately lead to love, and this display to her will let her know that you are only interested in a purely sexual relationship with her. She will pick up on this fact, if not consciously then subconsciously. However, this will also trigger a defense mechanism in her mind that will attempt to help her avoid getting played, so to counter this you must also progress normally through the trust reinforcing stage 8 before you have sex with her again, which will easily disable the shield (don't worry, it takes minimal effort the second time around). Once that has been done you are free to have sex with her again and repeat this entire process as many times as you desire, which will effectively maintain your purely sexual relationship with her until you choose to move on to "greener pastures". Stage 9, Stage 7, Stage 8, Stage 9, Stage 7, Stage 8, and so on = The Bottomless Booty Call.

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The above was a example of how the perpetual events of the WOW can be used within your routines to produce outstanding results, and given the amazing flexibility of this system, it's no secret that the possibilities are literally endless! However, to truly understand the full potential and capabilities of the WOW System you will first need to learn about each of the 11 stages in detail. Let's begin: Tired of reading? Now might be a good time to get out there and put some of what you've already learned to good use! Having knowledge is pointless if you never use it.

The 11 Stages Stage 1 - Interest I (Initiation) This first stage of the WOW is the point at which the woman first becomes aware of your presence, whether it is because she noticed you from across the room on her own or if you simply approached her to initiate contact. It is very important that you generate interest in her towards you during this stage, because if the interest is not there and you begin to move forward you will be setting yourself up for failure. This interest does not need to be a sexual interest or any form of physical or psychological attraction at this point, that will all be done during later stages. Your sole goal during this beginning stage is to imprint on her mind that you are an interesting, cool guy, that people tend to like, who she should like as well. You need to almost instantly project the image that you are worthy of at least holding a conversation with her, or that conversation will never take place. Hint: Passive Openers work wonders during this stage and allow you to move directly on to stage 2 if you get a woman to approach you by using them. This is because Passive Openers generate immediate interest towards you. She would never have approached if she wasn't already intrigued, so no further interest building is needed at this point. You'll learn all about Passive Openers later on in this manual. For now, continue... I estimate that more than 90% of all rejections occur during the first two stages of the WOW, which makes them very important stages that should be taken seriously. Many AFC's fail during this initial stage because they try to open up with a pick up line (which is a seduction attempt, and would normally be used during stage 7; if pick up lines even worked at all that is) or they immediately attempt to connect with the woman on a logical or intellectual level (telltale signs of nice guys and push-overs) when they should instead be acting playful and carefree. This stage is all about projecting the image that you are interesting in a fun way, not a "smart" or "deep" way. You should also completely avoid trying to generate interest by bragging or trying to impress her in any way, as it is approval seeking behavior that is not attractive to women at all. There are many techniques that can help you fly through this stage with ease, some being: getting her attention by using Passive Openers, wearing interesting and unusual clothing and

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accessories, bringing more positive energy into her space than there was before you arrived, simply having a well planned opener and executing it properly, or by using the "AutoSelection" technique (you'll learn about it soon) that allows you to essentially bypass the first two stages and move directly on to stage 3 with minimal effort. Note: The Auto-Selection technique does not work when you are going for an N-Close! Interest comes before attraction in the WOW System because it is important to develop a certain level of interest before you begin to attract her during the next stage through the use of negs, kino and other more advanced techniques. In many cases, a well placed neg that is based on observation and used as an opener will allow you to bypass this first stage and move right on to stage 2. This is possible because negs tend to generate interest and attraction simultaneously when used as openers, but only when done properly of course. Always remember this about openers: There is no such thing as a “best” opener, there are only those that work and those that do not work. The only thing that matters is that it gets the job done. The job can not be done “better”. With that in mind, choose the opener that you are the most comfortable with and stick with it until you've got it mastered.

Stage 1 Summary: - You notice your target girl or group, or vice versa; they notice you. - Contact is initiated by either you or them. If by them, proceed to stage 2. - If you approached them, begin running your opener immediately. - During opening, interest is generated through a fun, positive attitude. - Once you've gained the acceptance of the group, proceed to stage 2.

Stage 2 - Attraction I (Initiation) Stage 2 will usually be the first time during your routine that you will put Leech, Robin Hood and kino related techniques to good use. If you've completed stage 1 through a non-approach technique such as a Passive Opener, then you will be running your normal opener during this stage. However, if you finished the first stage by cold approaching then you should have already executed an opener and have no need to run another one during stage 2. Note: Openers that should be used during stage 2 differ from those that are typically used during stage 1, as stage 2 is more tailored for late openers called “Hook Openers”. This is necessary because a normal opener would seem awkward at this time. You have already lured them in using a Passive Opener or other form of technique, and now you will use a late opener to “hook” them into staying. You'll learn more about Hook Openers very soon. This stage is unique in that it can be either one of the longest or shortest stages depending on the type of goal that you are trying to accomplish. For example, if your goal is to go for a FClose (fuck close) then your time spent during this stage will be relatively short. You will drop a Leech or two, hit her with a little kino and then quickly be on your way towards your first check point (stage 3 is an advancement event). On the other hand, if you are going for a simple N-Close (number close), then you will alternatively spend a considerable amount of

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time in this stage. The reason being is that you will be attempting to get her number during stage 3, so a relatively high amount of "foreplay" must first be done during stage 2 in order for her to be willing to give her number to you (and a real one at that!). If you are going for a number close, almost all of your gaming will be done during this stage because the set will end during stage 3. After that, you will pick up where you left off and begin stage 4 during your next meeting/date with her that you will set up over the phone. This initial attraction stage is all about building feelings of attraction as well as your social value by getting IOI's (indicators of interest) and SOI's (statements of interest) from the girl or entire group of girls that you've opened. Needless to say, if you are going after a N-Close then you will be using the Neg Twins rigorously during this stage. One of the most crucial parts of this stage is getting and recognizing IOI's, because you need to get at least some IOI's or SOI's from the girls to progress on to stage 3 (three IOI's for N-Close, one IOI for F-Close is a good general rule to follow). If you have been unsuccessful at getting IOI's or SOI's, then you must revise your strategy and try a different set of techniques until something works. This is very important because if you move on to stage 3 without first collecting IOI's then you will run the risk of getting a fake number or even rejected completely. You will also have no way to determine which girl will be the best selection as your main target during stage 3. Many techniques found throughout this guide can help you to get IOI's and build value during this stage, they will clearly state that they are to be used during stage 2 so you can easily identify them and add them to your routines. Some of our more advanced techniques even allow you to force women (indirectly of course) into giving you IOI's.

Stage 2 Summary: - If no opener was used during stage 1, run a Hook Opener during this stage. - Build rapport and your value through the use of social proof and alpha attitude. - Build attraction though neg techniques, kino and overall good game. - Receive and identify the IOI's and SOI's that you will get from the women. - Spend a minimal amount of time during this stage if going for an F-Close. - Spend a considerable amount of time here if going for an N-Close. - Once you've received a fair amount of IOI's and/or SOI's, move on to stage 3.

Stage 3 - Selection (Advancement) The selection stage comes into play when you have generated enough social value, interest and attraction with one, two or all of the women within the set to go for an N-Close. If you are going for more than just a number then this stage will serve as a "bridge" between the first two attraction stages, during which you will determine which girls you have the highest probability of closing based on the IOI's and SOI's you were given during stage two (if its a single-woman set, then you will be deciding whether to continue gaming her or not based on the above). Once you have chosen which girls (could be as many as you think you can handle) to pursue further, you are then allowed to move on to stage 4. Stage 3 is all about you selecting which girl(s) you want to target out of those who have pre-selected you based on the IOI's and SOI's that you have received up until this point. The amount of time spent during this stage should

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only be a few seconds if you are not going for the N-Close, and it serves as a marker during the set and identifies your progression past the first two initiation stages. Once you reach this stage you should never move backwards past it, but you can always choose to step back to it if you will benefit from doing so. For example, you may want to rewind back to this stage if a new girl enters the set that was not present earlier while you were at this stage, and now you want to switch to her as being your main target because she is more appealing than the others. Always remember, the advancement events are checkpoints. If you are going for an N-Close during this stage, then you should initiate your number-getting technique immediately after you complete stage 2. You will find a good selection of N-Close techniques throughout this guide that you can choose from.

Stage 3 Summary: - Based on the IOI's and SOI's that you received during stage 2, choose your main target(s). - If going for an N-Close, begin running your N-Close technique on your target. - If going for an F-Close or more, proceed on to stage 4 after target selection.

Stage 4 - Attraction II (Reinforcement) The fourth stage of the WOW is the first reinforcement stage that you will encounter as you make progress through your WOW style or routine. Now is the time to step up your game and start backing up and building upon those initial feelings of attraction that you have already begun to trigger in the girl(s) during stage 2. With stage 3 being complete, you now know which women you should continue to focus your energy on. However, it is important to remember that everyone within the set still exists and should not be neglected, they can still have an affect on your game in a negative or positive manner depending on how you decide to treat them. Ironically, you should actually be ignoring your target more than the other people in the set for the time being, the only attention given to your target should be through the use of negs, kino and sparse or indirect conversation. Things can quickly change at this point so it is recommended that you always be prepared for the unpredictable to the best of your ability (this means having alternative techniques that you can switch to if need be). IOI's are not as important during this stage as they were when you were back in stage 2. However, it is still a good idea for you to continue to keep an eye out for them because they are still a great way to judge which girl you should attempt to close if you have selected multiple targets. If you've selected only one target then the IOI's received from her will let you know that your game is continuing to work on her. The Leech, traditional neg and TNT combo all play major roles during this stage and should be the backbone of your strategy at this point. You should always be using the neg techniques alongside any other methods that you are using during this stage, this sort of integration is the formula for success. The WOW System is all about escalation, so in turn during this stage you should begin to deliver negs that are more targeted and personal than those you were using

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during stage 2. Hold nothing back, this may be the last stage in which you will be using neg techniques heavily (varies depending on your particular game plan and personal preference). Neg techniques are designed in such a way as to indirectly let a woman know that she may not be living up to your high standards and that she must begin to work harder if she is to be granted your approval, this is what you should have succeeded in doing during stage 2. Now that you have made progress to stage 4, it is time to enforce that foundation by escalating your negs to the point where they would seem to be harsh and improper if you were dealing with a low caliber woman (which you shouldn't be). The desired effect produced by this method will be the girl(s) believing that they are not only failing to win your affection, but are even making backward progress and losing your interest. Don't worry about looking like a jerk at this point, it is only temporary and is the impression you want to be giving during at least part of stage 4. All of this should be done playfully of course, don't take yourself or them too seriously. At no time during this stage should you give any signs to the girls that will hint at you being attracted to them (except for kino), you should seem to be merely interested right now. The general impression that you should be promoting during this stage is that you are "testing" the girls, then weighing their pros and cons to determine if they are worthy to be in your presence. That is why Points Techniques work well during this stage, and you should consider adding one to your routine while you are planning this stage. Kino can make a huge impact on your success during this stage as well, so it is highly recommended that you continue to escalate your kino by touching her in some places that she may not have been comfortable with during stage 2. For example: Her face, hair, stomach, lower back and even legs (in some particular scenarios).

Stage 4 Summary: - Continue negging and using kino on your target(s) to build additional attraction. - Gradually escalate your negs and kino, making them progressively more potent. - Treat your target negatively to build rapport and gain status with the rest of the group. - Be aware of IOI's and SOI's so you can determine the effectiveness of your game. - Put Points Techniques or other forms of “testing” into effect. - Once attraction levels towards you are beginning to peak, proceed to stage 5.

Stage 5 - Interest II (Reinforcement) Interest reinforcement is a very flexible stage, this is because there is a wide variety of different techniques that you can choose to use at this time. This stage is also a turning point in which you will switch strategies dramatically compared to what you have done up until now. Push/pull techniques particularly shine now, and many of the other methods that also work well during stage 5 require you to ignore your target or even remove yourself from the set entirely (which is only temporary of course). The purpose of this to to get your target to express an Extreme IOI (XIOI) towards you, such as re-opening the set herself once you've left by following you and starting up the conversation again. You'll soon find out that getting XIOI's can be one of the most beneficial things in seduction.

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Apart from getting XIOI's, this stage is also the playing field for shady tactics (Sleeved Techniques) such as those utilized by the Rogue PUA style (included with your purchase), so if you have mastered that style you should take advantage of this opportunity to use those highly advanced skills. Sleeved Techniques do a superb job of generating interest towards you and will easily lead you into stage 6 where some of them are equally effective, so by initiating a Sleeved Technique during this stage you will not need to change all of your strategy again until stage 7 when you begin the seduction process. This is the opportune time to use the Social Banishment sleeved technique, simply because that particular technique can easily turn you into an XIOI magnet. Another major aspect of this stage is storytelling. Telling a good story during this stage will greatly increase interest in you, not only with your target but everyone else within the set as well, especially if it is an exciting story about yourself. There's some great information on being a good storyteller in our free Crash Course e-book (if you're reading this you should have already read the CC), so if you're not very good at telling stories you can use that as a reference. It is in your best interest to lock your target into the set while you are telling a story to the group, this will guarantee that she will remain close and not wander away because you have been ignoring her. This can be accomplished by having her hold something of yours, which can be anything ranging from your drink, your hat or a prop that you've brought along. Stage 5 has one major rule: Verbal neg techniques must all stop! That means no Leech, no TNT and no classic negs. The only negs that should be used during this stage are non-verbal and very indirect negs, such as turning your back on your target, ignoring her or removing yourself from the set. These non-verbal actions can not be directly classified as negs, however they express disinterest on your part so in a sense they technically are somewhat similar to negs. Regardless, they are allowed during this stage, and can work very well. This lack of negs will continue through stage 6, then you will be able to bring back your normal neg mentality once you've reached stage 7 (seduction). It is very important to switch up your game at times, as being too repetitive will make you either seem bland and onedimensional or you will end up over-gaming you target(s). By temporarily dropping negs out of your routine you will be forcing her (or them) to second guess what your true motives are. You will not only be acting as if they do not qualify in your eyes, you will also be treating them as if you are completely uninterested. This lack of interest towards your targets will inadvertently make them increasingly more interested in you (refer to the One Way Street theory and the Opposite Theory for details) and also makes you seem unpredictable. Fact: Unpredictable is attractive. This time lapse between negs also allows them to be more potent when you bring them back during the seduction stage. Your targets will be becoming desensitized to them over time, especially since you relied on using them heavily during stage 4. If you continued using negs throughout your entire routine they could possibly become "watered down" by the time that you reach stage 7, which is not good. The last thing you want is for your target to have built up an "immunity" to your negs prematurely, and removing them from your routine for some time eliminates the risk of that happening.

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The general purpose of this interest reinforcing stage is to change your tactics in an extreme manner so you can give off a mysterious vibe which will make your character seem all the more interesting to the girls in the set. This will make them want to keep you around longer because they have not yet "cracked the code" to figuring out what makes you act so much differently than the AFC's that they are accustomed to snubbing out. This process opens the door to stage 6. You will know that you have completed this stage because your target girls will be giving you their undivided attention and hanging on every word that you say, and possibly even following you around like a group of little ducklings. That is why this stage is the perfect time to turn your current target into a Pivot and use her to open a new set with higher caliber women in it if you want to. This stage is also an opportune time for you to initiate a venue change. Avoid this mistake! Many men will think that during this stage they are not allowed to talk to their target at all and should be completely ignoring her, which is not true. You should be acting uninterested in your target, not flat out ignoring her. One of the best ways to accomplish this is to ask her a question, then when she answers immediately act as if you don't care about hearing what she has to say and change the subject to begin storytelling: PUA: “Sandy, what do you think about meeting guys over the internet.” Sandy: “I'm not really into it, but I've put up my profile on a few sites before.” PUA: Turns his back on Sandy, now facing her friends: PUA: “That reminds me of this one time when I met this really nerdy chick and...” Notice how Sandy is not being ignored, but is instead being treated as if the PUA has no real interest in interacting with her? Also, a very indirect neg was thrown in, did you catch it?

Stage 5 Summary: - Stop the use of all direct neg techniques immediately upon beginning this stage. - Disinterest towards your main target should be brought to a climax until stage 6 begins. - Put any sleeved techniques that you have in your arsenal into effect. - Generate further interest through the use of storytelling, unpredictability and mystique. - Lock your target into the set during storytelling by having her hold something of yours. - Be on the lookout for an XIOI from your target, they typically come during this stage. - If the current set isn't optimal, use your target as a pivot to open a new set. - When you have your target's undivided attention and acceptance, move on to stage 6.

Stage 6 - Trust I (Initiation) Your main goal during this stage should be to create a basic foundation of trust between yourself and your target so you can build upon it during stage 8. This is done partially by creating Reference Points (RP's) that you can refer back to if you need to break down the barriers of resistance that most women like to throw up during your transition from the seduction stage to sexual contact.

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For example, during this stage you should utilize strong trust building techniques such as Confessions. For this demonstration let's assume that you are going to use the following basic confession: "Stop trying to seduce me! I've had a few bad experiences in the past with women who move too fast. Take it easy and get to know me first, jeez!" (all done playfully). This Confession statement is your Reference Point. Note: You may have noticed that the above example contains a very light neg. You should generally not neg women during this stage, but if you do it should be in a manner similar to how it is done in the above example; very playfully. Now that you've laid down that Confession you have successfully created an RP that you can use in the future to break down her barriers and Last Minute Resistance (LMR) just before you initiate foreplay/sex by using the RP to reinforce her trust during the upcoming stages 8 and 9. You accomplish this by using a Refer Back (RB) statement if she resists your advances when things start to get hot and heavy. This could be very useful if she stops you and tells you to slow down while you are kissing and touching her sexually, you can come back at her with something similar to "Hey, you're the one who is moving fast! Remember earlier I told you that I want to take it slow? It's not my fault that you're so good at seducing me!" Mission accomplished. This will effectively break down her barriers because the only reason she told you to slow down is because women never want to feel as if they are being taken advantage of, and now that you have turned the tables and made it appear like she is taking advantage of you, she will allow you to advance. Besides, you even told her that you wanted to take things slow beforehand, and you have legitimate proof. In her mind everything that happens from then on will be completely innocent because you've proven that you did not even want to do it in the first place. She will feel like she is winning and is gaining something instead of feeling like you are taking advantage of her. Life is beautiful, isn't it? However, laying down RP's is not the only thing you will be doing during this stage, you will need to add some "density" to your game by continuing to use the techniques that you initiated during stage 5. Also remember to leave most negs out during this stage as well, trust building and negs do not mix very well unless done extremely carefully. I recommend leaving them out of your game until stage 7 unless you are well experienced. You can also add some additional trust building tactics from this guide into your routine for stage 6 as well, and even basic techniques such as "me too" statements can stand their ground during this stage and will do a great job at backing up your RP foundation. These simple "me too" statements particularly work well at building initial trust because when you make her believe that you have a lot in common with her she will become more open to granting you her trust. After all, she trusts herself so if she is under the impression that you are just like her than she will begin to trust you as well because she can relate to your character. Example: Her: "I always wanted to go on a cruise to Jamaica" You: "Me too! I have plans to go sometime next year. Have you been spying on me?" (smile)

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Note: Notice how all of the dialog examples in this stage have been very playful in nature? That is the type of attitude that you should have during trust building, because it creates a cozy sense of security for your target and will allow her to open up and trust you. One final note on Reference Points: remember that RP's are not limited to being Confessions, there are other techniques that can create RP's that are equally effective and you may even prefer them over Confessions. You will learn about all of the current trust building techniques later on, for now let's move on to the ever important stage 7, Seduction. After this quick warning: Never spend an extended amount of time during this (or any) trust building stage. One of the major pitfalls that AFC's fall into is that they spend too much time building trust and “connecting” with a woman, which always ultimately leads them into the FZ (friends zone). Don't skip the trust stages altogether, simply do what you need to do and then move on. Do not linger here.

Stage 6 Summary: - Continue to shy away from the use of negs, however light negs can be used if needed. - Create Reference Points (RP's) that can be called upon and used to your advantage later on. - Build trust with your target by relating to her with “me too” statements. - Remember that a playful attitude will help you to build trust much more efficiently. - Avoid spending too much time during this stage, keep interaction here to a minimum. - Once you've done what needs to be done during this stage, move on to stage 7.

Stage 7 - Seduction (Advancement) Most average men believe that seducing a woman is all that is needed to be done to successfully pull her, but as you can see here seduction is but only one of 11 stages in the WOW System. Granted, it is still one of the most important stages within this system, but in the overall scheme of things it is just a small part of a much bigger picture. You may also notice that seduction comes fairly late in this system, and this is because it can not be done properly without first having a basic foundation of each of the following elements: interest, attraction and trust. Never forget that. When seduction is done prematurely you will almost always come across as either being sleazy, perverted, overly horny, trying too hard or just flat out weird. For example, if you attempt to seduce a woman without first building some interest they will think that you are weird because normal people don't just walk up and try to sleep with others without first having some type of normal conversation. If you try to seduce a woman without first having some attraction built up then you will appear to be a sleazy horn-ball, simply because normal women do not respond to sexual advances from men whom they are not yet attracted to. If you go and try to seduce a woman without first having some trust between the two of you then she will not allow you to seduce her because either her Anti-Slut Defense

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(ASD) will kick in and make her feel guilty, or she will throw up a wall of LMR that is stronger than the walls surrounding Fort Knox. If you attempt to seduce a woman without first having any of the above then you will always seem to be trying too hard and will get shot down immediately. It is for this very reason that pick up lines have not worked since the 70's. The first thing that you should do during this stage is isolate your target from her group, and if it is a solo set then you can attempt to remove her from the venue completely. Isolation is a very important aspect of seduction because women respond differently to sexual advances when there are observers nearby, and almost all of the time they will be much more open to you if you have them alone with you. In front of others, especially their friends and other people that they know, most women will be reluctant to allow you to seduce them even if they are very sexually attracted to you. This is because their fear of looking "easy" will overpower everything else that they are feeling towards you. Isolation removes this obstacle and puts her into a situation where she will feel much more comfortable with acting upon her impulses and responding positively to your advances. Keep in mind that in order to isolate a woman from her group of friends you do not always need to physically move her away from them and out of their sight. Doing so is ideal of course, but it is not required. In many cases you will need to resort to a partial isolation, which can be accomplished by positioning yourself between your target and the other people within the set, thus making her feel more “disconnected” from them. The best way to explain this is to use your body as a wall that will separate your target from the rest of the group. There are many different forms of isolation. For example, an extreme version of isolation would be to take her back to your place, which you should attempt to do whenever possible if you are going for an F-Close. Another lighter form of isolation would be getting her to step outside of the venue for some fresh air and a private talk with you. After you've either isolated her or have removed her from the venue, you can attempt to kiss her at any time if you have not yet done so during a previous stage. In order to be guaranteed the kiss you should have already built up your kino through escalation during all of the previous stages. If you have not been touching her much up until now then getting a kiss will be much harder and you are not guaranteed that she will give in when you go for it, that is why the progression of kino is very important. There are many "first kiss" techniques and "kiss tests" that you can use to help maximize your chances of success at this time, you will find quite a few in this manual that you can add into your game plan for stage 7. Kino and body language both play majors roles during this stage as well, however they will require a little tweaking to be customized for this stage. The change that you should make to your body language and kino that make them unique during this stage is simple: It needs to be sexual. You body language should display "I'm a man, I'm interested in you sexually and I'm not afraid to show it" while using long, seductive eye contact. Your kino should become much more sexual, and you should begin touching her chest just above her breasts, her stomach, her legs and even her ass (depending on her signals, SOI's, IOI's and XIOI's). The key word during this process is "sexual", but by all means do not just start groping her.

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Your main goal during this stage is getting her to approve of you as someone that she would possibly have sex with, so you must display a sexual interest in everything that you do. You should also try to bring the topic of conversation to a sexual level as well during this stage. Get her talking about sex as much as possible, as this will help to display your status and show her that you're secure with your sexuality by not being afraid to talk about sex as an AFC would. You must be genuinely comfortable with talking openly about sex in order to pull this off. By using sexual body language, advanced sexual kino and talking about sex you will be qualifying yourself to her as a potential sexual partner, and she will approve of you as a result. Neg techniques should also be brought back into the picture during this stage and should be in full effect. This is very important because up until recently you have been displaying to her that you are not interested in her at all, but now that you have begun to convey an “in your face” sexual interest in her she will immediately snub you out thinking that she's succeeded in getting your interest if you don't have something to offset this change in your behavior. Negs accomplish this “balancing act” perfectly. Hold no punches and hit her with the most potent Leeches that you have to dish out, all the while hinting that you are are still testing her. This helps the seduction process along very well because it will make it appear to her that you are qualifying her as a sexual partner, when it is really the other way around. By making it seem as if you are testing her, she will be much less reluctant to dismiss your sexual advances while you are seducing her because she will still be trying to win your approval. This will keep her responding positively to just about anything that you do, and will help you get that kiss if you haven't done so yet. Try to keep the negs sexual as well. Neg her about her tits, ass or something silly that she says during your sex-based conversations. Don't be afraid to use these types of negs, they are completely acceptable when the topic of conversation has been brought to a sexual level.

Stage 7 Summary: - Immediately attempt to fully isolate or partially isolate your target from her group. - Bring negs back into play, and in full force. These negs should be sexual if possible. - Escalate your kino to a highly sexual form, and display sexuality with your body language. - Bring the conversation to a sexual level as well, and be openly comfortable with doing so. - Put your favorite kiss technique into action and use it to get the first kiss. - Once you've gotten a kiss from your target, proceed on to stage 8.

Stage 8 - Trust II (Reinforcement) The overall purpose of the previous seduction stage was to get your target to approve of you as a potential sexual partner and to display that approval with a kiss, the goal of this stage is to make her allow you to actually be her sexual partner. Just because she has now selected you as someone she would have sex with doesn't particularly mean that she will necessarily let you, it just gives you the "go ahead" to try.

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This trust reinforcing stage comes directly before sex because all quality women need to be reassured that they are not going to get played as soon as they let you in their pants. This is because once they do that, then the point of no return has been reached, and if you screw them over they will feel guilty later on for letting you do it. You must effectively show them that your feelings are genuine, and that even though you may be only looking for a sexual relationship with them, you will not mistreat them, belittle them or ditch them right away. Women need to believe that they will at least become a steady booty call once they give it up, which most women will accept because they will feel as if that is a starting point that they can build a future relationship on and eventually become your sole girlfriend. It is for this same reason that many women will date a married man and become his mistress, they believe that it is a starting point from which they can eventually get him to leave his wife. Simply put, a woman needs to be reassured that it will be at least more than a one-time thing. During this stage you will find it very helpful to call upon the RP's that you laid down during stage 6, which is done by using RB comments to disarm her defenses that are designed to ward off your sexual advances. In many cases, all you will need to do is Refer Back to your previous comment in order to have sex with her, however some women will take a little more work, especially those who have been played multiple times in the past. RP's are particularly effective at helping you navigate around a woman's Last Minute Resistance just before you begin to have sex with her, so save them for that. There are many techniques in this book that are tailored to specifically be used during this stage, and they will do a good job at backing up your use of RP's if needed. Even if you are only planning to use RP's to get past this stage you should have at least one backup technique ready to go, since you never know when you'll need it. Try to avoid negging girls during this stage or using shady tactics such as Sleeved Techniques. You must appear to be a complete gentleman while still retaining your alpha status. Do not act needy or allow yourself to give in to any of the normal traps that AFC's fall into once a relationship becomes this advanced. The average man will often say anything or agree totally with a woman as soon as sex is imminent because he just wants some ass, but a true PUA knows how to continue thinking with his head on the top, not his head down below. Since most men act that way, you can expect that women will most certainly test you during this stage in an attempt to make you show unnecessary affection and become submissive to them. You must brush off these tests in a gentlemanly way. Make them trust you, but without giving them control over the situation. You can pass a woman's tests during this stage easily by any normal displays of high value. This will show her that even though you may seem like you are being nice right now because you want to get in her pants, you don't need her and can easily be moving on to the next girl if she does not comply. If all else fails, remind her that you are in control by gently negging her, this will allow you to proceed because she will once again be seeking your approval. If you are using a technique like the "Bottomless Booty Call" that was described earlier, then you will be coming back to this stage multiple times, in which case you can lay down some new RP's that can be used in the future when you come back to this stage again. You will want

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to do this occasionally during a sex-based relationship because your old RP's will only be effective a few times before getting worn out, so some new ones will be necessary.

Stage 8 Summary: - Reassure your target that you are trustworthy by referring back to your RP's from stage 6. - Try to avoid using negs and Sleeved Techniques during this stage if possible. - Never fiend to get into her pants as most AFC's do. Remain calm and collected. - Pass your target's tests by displaying your high value as a man that is in demand. - Once you've broken past her Last Minute Resistance (LMR), move on to stage 9.

Stage 9 - Sex (Perpetual) It's the moment that you've been waiting for. It's finally time for all of your hard work to pay off with some nice, warm, wet stuff! Depending on how you value the particular woman that you have been gaming, it is at this point that your relationship with her will either rewind, end completely or proceed on to the next level. Regardless of these differences, before you make a decision you will first want to enjoy your well deserved reward. Tear it up! Sex is a very in-depth topic that requires targeted attention if one of your problem areas happens to be sexual performance. This is a seduction guide, so you will not find many techniques here that are specifically related to sex. You will however be able to pick up a few tips scattered throughout this book that will help, and a few can be found below here in this section. The majority of the information that you will find in this stage description will deal with how sex plays a role in your overall game and can be used to your benefit when handled correctly, and ultimately provide you with more return sex than you can handle. The nature of teasing allows it to blend very well with dirty talk during sex, and can help to increase your chance of getting return sex from women when used properly during sex. Using simple teasing statements like: “come on girl, I know you can do better than that,” and “take it, show me what you got,” are much more effective than most men believe. When you tease a woman in this manner during sex you will effectively separate yourself from most of the men she has had that did not impress her in the sack and were boring. This is because of the fact that almost all men, not only AFC's, will continue their normal, approval seeking behavior and mentality during sex instead of changing it into something that will turn a women on even more than the actual sexual contact possibly can. To women, the ideal lover will not act “normal” during sex, but instead will show a wild side that will highly excite them and even frighten them a little at times. Common myth: Women like slow, passionate “love making”. Sorry guys, but this is purely a myth that has come about from those soft-core porno flicks that come on the movie channels late at night, and it is not how you should really make love to a woman. The truth is that most women have an unbelievably hard time achieving an orgasm from slow, soft sex. If you want the women that you sleep with to remember you as a great lover and always come

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back for more, then you need to beat that pussy up like it owes you money, fast and vicious. The key ingredient to ensuring that a woman will come back for return sex, or want to pursue a more serious relationship with you after you've already bedded her, is to impress her with your skills during your first sexual encounter. The below check list can help you achieve this when used as a basic set of guidelines. You should always: - Take the initiative and always be the one to escalate the situation to the next level. - Engage in a fair amount of foreplay, as women require some time to “get hot”. - Be creative and unique by being fun, role playing and trying new things. - Avoid asking her to do things. Instead, take charge and tell her what you want her to do. - Talk dirty to her and be comfortable with saying things that would normally be improper. - Make the sex fast, hard, hot and steamy. Never make slow, romantic love to her. - Stay and talk to her for at least a few minutes after you're finished, don't leave immediately. - Wait for her to call you after you've had sex with her, never be the first one to call. Following the above guidelines should ensure that you will be given return sex most of the time, granted that your performance and stamina were both up to par.

Stage 9 Summary: - Take control and escalate the situation to sex, then enjoy the fruits of your labor. - Always remember the myth that I've shown to be false in the “Common Myth” section. - Use teasing combined with dirty talk for a great effect that excites and turns women on. - During sex, follow the above guidelines to guarantee that return sex will be an option. - After you've gotten your rocks off, proceed on to stage 10 (if you want to).

Stage 10 - Attraction III , Interest III & Trust III (Confirmation) This stage is all about building a relationship that will ultimately lead to love. You might be wondering: “Why has sex been put before the relationship in the WOW system? Shouldn't I try to build a relationship with a woman before I have sex with her?” According to our society's traditional standards, the correct answer is yes. However, in the modern world that we live in it has become much more common for couples to have sex before proceeding into any form of a more serious relationship. Women have grown accustomed to this, they will actually expect you to attempt to have sex with them immediately, so if you do not try to, you may lose your alpha status as a result. Alpha males will almost always go for sex as soon as possible, so you should as well if you want women to believe that you are the type of alpha man that they are looking for. Now that we have gotten that out of the way, let's learn about relationship building and the confirmation stages:

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Stage 10 is unique in the fact that it technically contains three different stages all bundled into one, and all of the confirmation stages in the system are found here. This is because all three of the confirmation stages much be done simultaneously along side of each other in order to be effective. You may be working on Attraction Confirmation one day, switch to Trust Confirmation the following day, then be back to Attraction Confirmation the day after that. This fluctuation depends solely upon your gaming style and the particular woman that you are working on, there is not one “perfect pattern” for doing this. The time that it takes to complete this stage also varies, with some women you can complete this process in only a few days, but with others it could take weeks or even months. The ultimate goal of this stage is to make the woman that you are gaming fall in love with you, and only when you have reached that goal can you proceed on to stage 11 and begin the cycle of love that you will learn about in a moment. One major aspect of this stage is the appearance of being unique and unpredictable. When a woman that you have been dating is given the impression that a serious relationship with you will ultimately become repetitive and boring, the chance of her falling in love with you is very limited. However, if you can display to her that being around you will always be spontaneous and exciting, her falling in love with you is almost guaranteed. This is why you should always bounce around between the different types of confirmation during this stage, for example: During Interest Confirmation you will be telling her stories, displaying your value and leading her to believe that there is a lot more to you than she thought she knew. This fun and interesting attitude will make her very comfortable, and she will feel like she is with her best friend when she is with you. While in Attraction Confirmation you will be negging her, amusing yourself and acting as if she means very little to you. She will not be very comfortable around you during this and will never know what you are about to do or say next, but this will be very appealing to her. When you are in Trust Confirmation you will be relating to her, building further trust, telling her secrets that you haven't told many people, showing her why you are the perfect man for her and building a foundation that an LTR can be build upon. During this she will be very comfortable around you, and feel as if she can tell you anything. Notice the differences between these three unique types of approaches? By constantly switching between these you will create an aura of mystique around yourself as well as “touching every base” that is needed, which will lead to the woman falling in love with you. Many AFC's get stuck in only one of these three, and that is why they lose the woman's respect and interest, leading themselves to failure. The worst thing you can do during this stage is to spend too much time in only one type of Confirmation. It does not matter if you are better at one than the other, only that you utilize each of them equally and switch frequently. The techniques that you use during stage 10 should be relatively the same of those you were using during the Reinforcement stages, but you can choose to use others if you wish. The only rule is that you should choose methods that would be effective during Reinforcement. You can also “push the envelope” during confirmation if the situation allow it. For example, at this time you should know more about the woman than you did during Attraction Reinforcement,

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which allows you to deliver much more targeted and personal negs than you could before. This same idea also applies to other techniques such as RP's and “me too” statements, because you will be able to relate to her more effectively and know which Reference Points she will be the most receptive to. Always use your knowledge to your benefit, the more you know about a woman the more potent your game towards her can become if you take advantage of that knowledge. Once you have succeeded in making the woman fall in love with you, you have completed this stage and can move on to stage 11. For a more descriptive explanation of how to know when stage 10 has been completed, read below in the stage 11 description.

Stage 10 Summary: - Only advance into this stage if you are planning to have an LTR with the woman. - Constantly switch between the different types of Confirmation. - Make sure to spend an equal amount of energy on Interest, Attraction and Trust. - Utilize similar techniques to those that you were using during the reinforcement stages. - Use the knowledge that you have about the woman to magnify your overall game. - Once you've been successful in getting her to fall in love with you, move on to stage 11.

Stage 11 - Love (Perpetual) Cupid in our midst! Perhaps you are the romantic type, or maybe you just think that it's time for you to settle down with one woman for a nice LTR. Whatever your reason may be, getting to this stage should be your overall goal if you want a woman to fall in love with you. However, once you get here and have the beautiful woman of your choice hooked, your work is far from over! You will know when you have made it to this stage when your target tells you that she loves you, however it must appear to be genuine. Some women will lie and tell you that they love you, and others will think that they love you when they really don't. Hint: Use their body language and eye movement as a guide to filter out the bullshit from the truth. Once you have reached the love stage with a woman, an ongoing cycle will immediately begin. You will need to keep this cycle going if you are to keep the relationship alive and healthy, and the WOW's way of doing this is the formula for success. The cycle goes like this: Love, Sex, Relationship Building, Love, Sex, Relationship Building, and so on. When using the WOW, this cycle goes: Stage 11, Stage 9, Stage 10, Stage 11, Stage 9, Stage 10, and so on. Remember how the “Bottomless Booty Call” requires you to step backward, then forward, then back again in an ongoing cycle? This works in a similar fashion.

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This is required because you must not only keep the relationship in a dynamic state, but also not allow it to become watered down by having too much of one thing. In addition to this, you should continue to build and strengthen the relationship for it's entire duration. Think of it as if you are blowing on a fire and adding new wood to it in order to keep it alive. For example: If you were to reach stage 11 with a woman, but then only remain within that stage of love from then on, you will quickly ruin the relationship by becoming the submissive party. This will happen because it is normal AFC behavior to get caught up in the whole “I'm in love” idea as soon as they know that a woman loves them, then they immediately begin pedestaling and avoiding things that may upset their woman over fear of losing her. Another example is: If you were to reach stage 11 with a woman, but then quickly backtrack to stage 9 and stay there because you now know that she loves you and will have as much sex with you as you want, this will also ruin the relationship. Women need constant reassurance that your love for them is real, and if you only use them for sex it is only a matter of time before they will catch on and dump you. When you are only looking for a sexual relationship with a particular woman, the proper way to go about this would be to let them know exactly what your intentions are before the relationship reaches the love stage. Many men have the false impression that you need to make a woman love you before you can continually have sex with them. That is not the case, and to do that is a mistake. You'll be surprised by how many women are actually willing to play along if you let them know beforehand that you are only looking for a “fuck buddy”. Always be real and keep the lies to a minimum, there are many alternative ways to getting what you want without becoming an asshole. Telling lies to get into a woman's pants is purely AFC behavior, just like every other “last resort”, barely effective method to picking up women. Back to the cycle: The ongoing cycle that you will go through during your LTR will encompass three parts, and in order to work properly all three should be given equal attention. These three parts are: Sex - Done during stage 9. Relationship Building - Done during stage 10. Love - Done “automatically” between stages 10 and 11. When you first reach stage 11 with a woman and she expresses her love for you, the chances are remarkably high that you will get some ass immediately afterward, and if not then later on in that same day. This process immediately thrusts you back to stage 9 as soon as you reach stage 11, and the cycle begins. After you have sex with her again, you will then move forward into stage 10, in which you will begin to build the relationship up. This is typically done by

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being the cool, fun, cocky guy that she loves during your next date with her. By building the relationship during stage 10 and yet again confirming her feelings of interest, attraction and trust, you will be magnifying the love that she has for you. When that happens, you will be yet again brought forward into stage 11, then you will get some more ass and go back to stage 9. In this fashion the cycle continues. This cycle is important because every relationship needs three main elements in order to remain healthy, just like human beings need food, water and air to stay alive. These elements are: Love, Sex and Companionship. The cycle of love that the WOW utilizes is effective at creating strong LTR's because it caters to all three of these equally. Nobody ever said that love would be easy, but with the WOW's cycle you can be sure that you will not make any mistakes that you would later come to regret.

Stage 11 Summary: - This stage will be triggered by the first time that your target expresses her love for you. - After she tells you of her love, you will have sex with her again. This begins the cycle. - You then continue the cycle for the entire duration of your relationship with her. Had enough yet? Don't try to learn all of this at once, give it some time to “soak in”. Go practice your skills a bit, then come back to your reading feeling refreshed!

Additional Notes Further Customization of the System Stages 1 & 2 and stages 4 & 5 are very closely related to each other and can overlap one another. This means that you can begin stage 2 without first completing stage 1, and the same can be done with stages 4 and 5. You can even choose to begin both of these stage sets at the same time. In theory, an experienced PUA that is very familiar with the WOW system could even completely rearrange all of the stages to suit their specific needs, thus creating an even more exclusive personal style for themselves. This may be possible in the future, but for now I highly recommend using it "as is" until you've mastered the system.

Remember to Rewind! Remember that things don't always go according to plan! It is not very often that you will be able to simply breeze through the WOW system with a woman and not hit any “road blocks”. This is why the advancement events also serve as check points. If at any time you hit a dead end with a woman or lose your place in the system due to a series of events that were not within your control, simply step back to the nearest check point and start again from there.

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It's OK to be Overwhelmed At first the WOW System may seem too complicated or structured for some of you (especially those who have "natural game" skill sets), and until you master it you may have a hard time remembering everything while you are in the field. Give it a chance. You will grow to love it! The WOW was built around clean game and is a reflection of the natural behavior of Paragon, so for men who have a hard time pulling off the "smooth player who always says and does the right thing" image naturally, this will allow you to do so without changing your entire personality, which could take years. For those of you who already have the natural gift of game, this system offers you a way to put it all into perspective and reach your full potential. Just as with everything else worth having in this world, the WOW will take some time to learn and apply to your daily life. The average dedicated PUA can become fluent with this system in less than a month, but if you are having trouble using the system in any way, you can seek personalized help at our forums: http://www.paragonproject.com/forums

Start with the Basics The WOW system also functions properly if you use it in it's “bare” form described above. This means that you can follow each stage and be successful by only using the basic techniques required by each (those that were discussed in the stage descriptions) without adding any additional techniques of your own. This is recommended if you are experiencing problems remembering everything in your own custom routine or style. The most common problems that men encounter when using this system are usually a result of them attempting to add too much customization to it at first. You can avoid this by using the system in it's base form until you've mastered the basics and are fully comfortable with using the WOW. Even once you are ready to use your own custom styles, remember that sometimes adding too little may be better than adding too much.

Law of Outer Game: Seeking Attention... Most people want to wear cool stuff so they “look attractive”, but the true power in doing this is to create interactions... You should always be wearing or carrying at least one genuinely interesting item at all times, regardless of where you may be going. Even if you are just going to the supermarket to grab your food for the week, you should still be prepared to be around beautiful women. You do not need to be out sarging on a Saturday night to meet new women! By wearing something that is interesting you will be boosting your chances of being approached by women, and be giving them a reason to approach you because they will feel inclined to ask you about your item. This could be a unique shirt, belt buckle, hat or just about anything else. Doing this would be considered as a Passive Opener, and the key word is "passive", meaning that simply by wearing your item sets will simply open on their own without any work on your part.

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You Choose the Time Frame There are no time restrictions attached to the stages of the WOW system, meaning that you can move along through each stage at your own pace. For example, if you are gaming a girl at your workplace whom you get to see every day, you can move slowly and take each stage a day, or even a week at a time. On the other hand, if your target is a random HB you've met at a bar/club that you will most likely never see again unless you close her, you can then choose to breeze through stages 1-3 or 1-9 all in that same night. That is yet another demonstration of the flexibility of this unique system.

Recommended, Not Required You are not required to use the WOW System when using the various techniques found in this guide, you can be successful with women when using the techniques by themselves as well. The WOW is simply a proven system that brings everything together nicely, but if you happen to be more comfortable with putting everything together on your own then we encourage that as well. You can also change the WOW System to your liking if you are experienced enough, as sometimes that will make the system work even better for the most advanced users.

Further Your Understanding Now that you've read the WOW System, you are probably a little overwhelmed by the sheer amount of information that you've just been presented with. To help you put all of this into perspective, we have created an 18-minute WOW introduction audio clip to accompany this text. The audio will surely help you get started with the WOW, so make sure to listen to it. The WOW introduction audio clip can be found in your TNB package.

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Visualization of the WOW The WOW may be daunting to some when first read. This is because it is so unorthodox, yet that is the same reason why it is so effective. This section will explain a way to visualize the system which will help you to understand the principles behind it and why it works.

Starting Values When you enter any given set, the values of it's members will have a predetermined level. Simply put, everyone in the set will have a “starting value”. You can find these out by either observing the set before approaching or by interacting with the set for a few minutes in "neutral" mode (see my article "Value Approximation"). Once you appraise the set, you should have a rough idea of the values of each member. If we assume that you estimate the values before you approach, then we can represent it like this (remember that at this point your own value is in limbo, although you will have some value in their minds for just approaching):

In each set that you enter you will have some or all of the above archetypes, which can be broken down into two main groups: the target and the obstacles.

The Target (1) The TOI (usually the hottest girl in the set)

The Obstacles (1) HB Obstacles (2) DUFF Obstacles (3) AMOG Obstacles (4) Beta Male Obstacles

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Value Manipulation When you are interacting with the group (in stages 1-2 and 4-6), try to imagine that each person has a "value meter" which is symbolically represented by a jug of water, with the volume and height of the water in the jug representing the amount of value each person has in relation to the others in the group (remember that value is all relative!). Normally, the only value manipulation you would attempt is: (a) pushing your value up (filling up your jug) through storytelling, social proof and qualification; and (b) pushing your TOI's value down (pouring water out of her jug) by negging her. You would also attempt to befriend the obstacles (but not alter their value levels). Through this common strategy for value manipulation, the optimal value setting that you can achieve would look something like this:

When you use the different techniques of the WOW, you will see how more effective it is than just using the simple orthodox techniques of the community. Not only do you fill up your jug and pour out your TOI's, you pour value from the TOI's jug into yours and the DUFF's, and pour value from the AMOG's jug into yours and the DUFF's. This is done through Leeches and the Robin Hood. So that the optimal value levels end up looking something like this:

Now things get technical. In this case, you still have the highest value and your TOI still has the lowest. However, you have also altered the values of the obstacles. The DUFF and the Beta have had their values raised. The HB's and the AMOG have had their value lowered, but nowhere near as far as the TOI's. The AMOG and the DUFF are the main obstacles and will be happy that they have a value closer to yours than the TOI. The Beta's are not much of a problem but should still have a value higher than the TOI and at least equal to the other HB's. It is very important for the DUFF to have the highest value out of all the set members apart from yourself.

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The HB's will most likely now be trying to hook you up with their friend, assuming that you have displayed interest in her by this point, which you must do while still lowering her value. The AMOG and the DUFF will not interfere, and the Beta's will not bring everyone down. Mission accomplished! Note: The starting value of the AMOG may be the highest in the group if he already has a particularly high value in relation to his group. That would require a different approach, but the values given here are more typical, many AMOG's are semi-AFC. To learn more about value manipulation and how it plays a major role in the WOW system, listen to the "Social Value" audio lesson that was included with your purchase.

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Creating Your WOW Styles Now that you are generally familiar with the WOW System, it is time to begin developing your first personal style. However, in order to fully understand the Wheel of Wooing you will most likely need to go back and read it over again, even many advanced PUA's had to read the system multiple times before they could grasp the overall idea behind it. You can also listen to the “WOW Introduction” audio file that came along with your purchase, it should help you get a much better understanding of the system in general. If you are still unsure about a few things, then go back right now and re-read the system. You will be able to produce a much more effective style once you are very familiar with it. If you are positive that you are ready to proceed, then let's get this show on the road:

It's All About YOU The most important factor to consider when creating a WOW style is your own personality. The main reason why most seduction guides and systems in the past have not worked unanimously for everyone that has tried them is because of the fact that they were created by someone who has a set personality type. If your own personality does not match the type of the creator of the system, then the material may not work for you because it was not designed with you in mind. Everyone is different, so our methods for pick up should be as well. The WOW system is the solution to this problem, as it lets you create your own system for seduction by choosing techniques that match your personality, highlight your strong points and reinforce your weak areas. However, in order for the WOW system to do this effectively you must first have a greater understanding of your own being and be truthful with yourself. When you are choosing which techniques to add to your personal WOW style, you must always ask yourself these three questions: "Will this technique utilize my strong points?" "Can I really picture myself doing this?" "Would I feel comfortable while doing this?" If you can not answer yes to those questions, then that specific technique would not be a good choice for your style. Granted, just approaching and speaking to women may make you feel uncomfortable, so do not base your answers on that alone. Instead, ask yourself if that particular technique itself is something that would make you feel uncomfortable. Choosing the right techniques can make all of the difference in the world! You may at first be inclined to only add techniques to your style that seem to be those that would work the best. However, your goal should not be to find the best techniques, it should be to find the right techniques. If you can do that, you will truly be successful. Everyone is different, so don't expect every single technique to work perfectly for you. Your goal should be to identify your own strong points and use them to your advantage.

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Your Creations All great accomplishments begin as ideas, and this is how your WOW style should begin as well. While reading the rest of this book, you will be learning many advanced techniques that you can combine together in order to create your WOW styles. While browsing through these techniques, think about how you can compile them in a way that would suit you as well as merge well with each other, thus creating a congruent style that can be used in the field. The WOW style planners that have come packaged along with your purchase are great tools for creating styles effortlessly, so make sure that you print a few copies of them out. When using a style planner, don't be scared to get it all messy. Jot down as many additional notes as you possibly can, because the more you know and understand your style the more efficiently you will be able to use it out in the world, and the better others will understand it if you are planning to share it with your peers at the Paragon Project forums. Also, don't forget to give your style a cool name!

Getting Started Before you start jotting down notes on your style planner and choosing techniques for your first style, we recommend that you read through all of the techniques in this book so that you know all of the options that are available to you. Doing this will save you the time and effort of learning and practicing a technique only to find something better later on and replacing it. If you need a visual example of how a WOW style should be properly set up and formatted by using the style planners, just have a look at the free bonus styles that have been included with your purchase (the Rogue and the Rock Star), they should give you a few ideas. Tip: Before creating your first style, make sure that you listen to the "Creating WOW Styles" audio file that came with TNB, it will help you to speed things up a bit. The rest of this book contains all of the WOW-specific techniques that we have chosen to include with The New Breed, you will find many of them to be very unique and revolutionary. The techniques are ordered by the stages that they are to be used in, followed by the universal techniques at the end. Universal techniques are those that can be used during any stage of the WOW system or are to be used in a specific situation that can occur during any random stage. That's it. You're ready to get started, so flip the page and immerse yourself in the vast selection of Paragon Project techniques that are now at your disposal. Good luck!

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Stage 1 Techniques

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Stage 1

Passive Openers Random Occurrences

Have you ever had a woman approach you out of the blue simply because she seemed to be interested in you and wasn't afraid to act on the urge to talk with you? If you have, then you should know just how unbelievably easy it is to run your game on a woman in that type of a situation. You are basically guaranteed a smooth and almost effortless close. Who doesn't like that? Sets progress extremely well when they are opened by the woman instead of the PUA, and the reason why is a simple one: When it is all her idea, none of her natural defenses (shields) will be up, leaving you in a position where failure is almost non-existent. When this happens it is a beautiful thing. However, opportunities like this may only come along once in a blue moon for the average man, occurring seemingly based upon sheer luck. In their current state, these lovely meetings are much too rare to make any real impact on your overall dating life, but what if there were a way to dramatically increase the frequency at which women would take it upon themselves to approach you? Life would be all the more easy, and full of pleasant surprises as well! I'm happy to inform you that we have found a way (a few, actually) to do this with amazing consistency. We call them Passive Openers, remember that name. Passive Openers make more women want to approach you, and succeed at doing this by either giving them an obvious reason to want to talk with you or make them feel the need to meet you because your social displays have deemed you as someone of some importance. When you begin to do this to women on a regular basis, you will rarely ever need to use a cold approach technique, simply because there is no reason to chase what is already coming straight to you.

Law of Outer Game: Pump Your Brakes... Walk the walk and talk the talk. Both of these aspects of your physical behavior should be slowed down considerably. When you are walking, you should be moving at a slow, steady pace that conveys the impression that you know exactly where you are going but are in no rush to get there. Slowing down your walk can substantially increase the amount of women that will approach you because women tend to never approach a fast-moving man that they will need to "chase". Also, slowing down the rate at which you speak and adding many short pauses to your dialog will make you appear to be much more confident and in demand. When you are speaking to a woman at a fast pace, you are displaying too much excitement and she will interpret that as an IOI and begin to believe that she is of higher value than you are since she is able to excite you so much.

Women Need Validation Even if a woman is attracted to you physically and really does want to get to know you, the

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chance of her actually stepping outside of her comfort zone to approach you will be slim to none if she can not think of an obvious reason for her doing so. This is natural behavior and it is part of an internal validation system that everyone battles with in their minds while making choices to do things that may require them to put themselves into an awkward position. Men commonly refer to this phenomenon as the fear of rejection, and for women it is somewhat similar, yet more complex. This is because even though women are generally more proficient than we are when it comes to raw social skills, men have evolved throughout the ages to take upon the role of dominance within the species. This means that men have grown to be the natural leaders and are expected to be the ones who will initiate verbal contact, regardless of the fact that we are less savvy socially. That is why the fear of rejection is much more complex from a woman's perspective, because men have been dealing with it for thousands of years, while women have only just taken the first step down that path. This inexperience often results in women becoming confused and “over thinking” things when they are toying with the notion of approaching a man, which ultimately makes them face an array of mental roadblocks that prohibit them from doing so. For example: “Will he think that I'm a slut if I just go up and talk to him?” “Will my friends think that I'm a slut?” “If he's a take charge guy and likes me, he'll just approach me soon anyway.” “What if he thinks I'm weird for just trying to talk to him for no reason?” “He might notice if my makeup got ruined from all that dancing I was doing.” “What if his girlfriend is here but I just haven't seen her yet?” As men we can all totally agree that every one of the thoughts that I mentioned above are simply ridiculous, because if a HB approaches us we could care less about any of that petty crap, we will be too distracted with positive thoughts like: “Oh yeah, I'm getting some tonight!” However, the reality of that does not change the fact that women will still think those types of thoughts, and without a legitimate reason to offset them within their minds, will most likely decide not to take it upon themselves to initiate any type of conversation. If she can not validate her urge to approach you with a solid reason, 90 times out of 100 she simply will not approach you at all, because the risks will appear to outweigh the gains. Passive Openers bridge this gap by giving her an “in your face” ice breaker to use or an obvious reason for approaching, which in turn provides her with focus and validation. Most of the time these signs are so easy to pick up on that almost all of the women around you will notice them and feel as if they are being provoked into starting a conversation with you.

You're Missing Out! How many times have you been in a position where you wanted to approach a HB but never did because you could not think of anything relevant to say? Don't lie, it's probably been over hundreds of times, as is the case for most of us. Now what if every one of those women that you never approached had been wearing a t-shirt that had “Do my boobs look real?” printed

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on the front of it? Would you have approached them then? Of course! Why? Simply because they had given you an obvious reason to approach them without even saying a word in advance, which is called a Passive Opener. By giving you this reason they would have made it ridiculously easy for you to validate your approach within your own mind, which takes a huge amount of social strain off of you and increases the chance of you attempting to open a set with them. This works both ways, if you give a woman a good reason to approach and talk with you, they will be much more inclined to actually do it. How many of these wonderful opportunities do you think that you miss out on each month simply because the women that notice you feel as if they have no legitimate reason to start a conversation? Ten? Twenty? Forty or more? It's probably more than you think. The good news is that once you start putting Passive Openers into action and using them to your advantage, you will soon find out just how many women you've been missing out on!

Passive Opener Types Below you will find a few different Passive Openers that have been proven to work very well. You can use each of these examples individually or all at the same time to further increase your chances of being approached. One of the first things that you may notice while reading these examples is that while some Passive Openers can be done immediately in the field to yield instant results, others require much more planning and will give you a lasting effect over a long period of time. Those that work over an extended period tend to increase progressively as time goes on, in a snowballing manner. Also, it would be wise to note that Passive Openers work much better when you use more than one of them at a time.

Direct Peacocking By now you should already be somewhat familiar with the term “peacocking” and it's meaning within the seduction community, but just in case you aren't, here is a quick description: Peacocking is the art of flaunting yourself in an outrageous manner using unusual and eye catching clothing, accessories, props, hair styles or even makeup (very extreme). This is done in order to attract attention to yourself, particularly attention from the opposite sex, similar to the way that a peacock does during mating season with it's colorful and elaborately designed set of feathers. Direct peacocking is similar in the fact that it works through something that you wear in an attempt to be noticed, but it is much more focused by also giving a sort of “invitation” to

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spectators, thus “asking” them to approach you. This invitation often includes an ice breaker for them to use when opening a conversation with you, making it very easy for them to do so and alleviating much of the social pressure that they would normally face when opening to a perfect stranger. By using a Direct Peacocking Passive Opener, the women that approach you will feel as if you have already “put yourself out there” and that by approaching they are simply joining you instead of going out on a limb alone by themselves. It creates comfort, and gives you an approachable aura that is hard to miss. This strategy has already been unintentionally discovered by clothing companies, and many people are walking around right now advertising themselves using a Direct Peacocking approach without even knowing it. However, the results are mostly random and inconsistent if this is not done intentionally with purpose and direction, as the overall outcome can either be good or bad depending on what the particular “invitation” is. To put this all into simple terms, Direct Peacocking is typically done by wearing a shirt or hat that has either a phrase or image printed on it that entices people into inquiring about or commenting on it. We've all seen shirts with provocative phrases printed on them, ranging from silly stuff like “I'm with stupid” and “He likes the dick” with an arrow pointing to the side, all the way to dark, disturbing comments like “The voices told me to do it” and “I cut myself”. Believe it or not, all of these are primitive forms of Passive Openers, however not all of them are very effective. In order for a Direct Passive Opener to work properly, it must: - Say something alluring and genuinely interesting or funny. - Not be unnerving, strange or be designed to frighten people. - Show that you are a fun guy and welcome new people with open arms. - Either display that you have a huge ego, or sarcastically make fun of yourself. The last item on that list is by far the most important, because it is the “hook” that really makes women feel like they need to approach you and ask about what you have printed on your shirt. This happens because of the fact that women absolutely love to use shit tests on men, and by either displaying that you have a huge ego or sarcastically making fun of yourself (which is also displaying your big ego if the sarcasm is interpreted properly) you will be essentially openly inviting the women to test you. Women love to try to knock a guy down when he thinks that he is, as they would say “God's gift to women”, so giving them a reason to try knocking you down is a great way to get random conversations going because they will rarely let that opportunity pass them by. Of course you will need to be prepared to handle these tests that they will throw at you, which is a topic covered elsewhere in this guide. Here are some basic examples: “Five dollar licky licky!” - Ego (Women love this one and it makes them laugh every time) “I have absolutely NO GAME, whatsoever. Go ahead, find out for yourself.” - Sarcastic “Ask me about the pick up line!” - Ego (Follow it up with whatever you want) “I'm here to get my first kiss from a girl... ever!” - Sarcastic (Can you say, K-Close?) “Seriously. I'm waaay too cool to talk to you.” - Ego “I love gold diggers!” - Sarcastic/Ego (Use with caution)

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“Twelve inches. Enough said.” - Ego “I'm too scared to talk to girls.” - Sarcastic (This one is surprisingly powerful) Try to picture yourself wearing a t-shirt with one of the above phrases printed on the front of it. Now pretend that you are in a crowded area with women all over the place, then try to imagine that not even one woman has approached you. Doesn't seem possible does it? That's because it isn't! This form of peacocking is so powerful that women will not only want to approach you because of it, they will actually be so enticed that they will feel as if they need to talk to you, if not for any other reason than to simply satisfy their own curiosity. That is exactly what you will be doing, using the women's own curiosity against them to lure them in. "It doesn't matter how you got the woman to approach you, the only thing that is important is that she did approach you. From there, it's a piece of cake." - Paragon We've all heard the old saying “curiosity killed the cat”, but when it comes to Direct Peacocking Passive Openers, the saying should go “curiosity got you the pussy!” By now you are probably at the point where you just want a damn shirt and are asking yourself “Where am I supposed to find a shirt like those?” It's actually a lot easier than you may think. You have two options: Make one by yourself at a local t-shirt business that does screen printing, or order some official Paragon Project Passive Openers shirts from our online store at http://www.cafepress.com/paragonproject. At our store, you'll find a wide selection of t-shirts that include the phrases listed above among many others. Note: Do not wear your Direct Peacocking Passive Opener attire all of the time. For example, when you are on your second date with a woman or are meeting her for a sexual encounter, it's simply not necessary. You should only wear this stuff when you are out for the sole purpose of meeting new women.

Man of the Hour Even if you are the best looking man in the bar, the chance of you being approached by a multitude of women is relatively small if you do nothing more than sit in your chair looking pretty. However, even if you are just an average looking man, you will be approached by women very consistently if you are viewed as being the “man of the hour”. The Man of the Hour is the guy who is the center of attention, he is always in the “lime light”. This guy works hard to make himself noticed and even harder to keep himself fresh in your mind when you are around him. He seems like the most extroverted person you've ever laid eyes on, even if that is far from the truth. Most of this is fake of course, since all of the public displays done by the Man of the Hour are typically nothing more than gimmicks designed to draw attention to himself. However, there is nothing wrong with this “faking” process at all.

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Why? Because it works. That also makes this type of strategy very potent as a Passive Opener. Whenever there is an opportunity to participate in an activity that will draw a large crowd of a lot of attention, you should always go out of your way to get involved and be at the center of it. If it is any sort of competition, that is even better, because you can win and thus amplify the effect of this method. You can also create these situations yourself very easily by suggesting that you and a few friends play some sort of game that other people around you will find interesting and end up becoming spectators. This will put you in the spotlight and greatly increase your chances of random approaches occurring from then on for the duration of the night. In most cases, being the Man of the Hour will also give women an ice breaker to use on you, as they have been watching you and will know enough to be able to make a comment based on what you've been doing or ask you a question about it.

Love the Hate This technique walks hand in hand with peacocking, extreme peacocking to be exact. Love the Hate works great when you are at a venue in which there are many mixed sets that contain potential targets (by mixed sets I am referring to groups that contain both men and women).

Think Fun, Not Outcome... A quote that has been rammed down the throat of the seduction community since the Paragon Project first launched is: "Think fun, not outcome." But how is that possible? If you don't think about the outcome, then nothing will happen, right? The outcome you think about is “I will be getting laid tonight,” but what the quote actually means is to not let the thought of sex with the girl play on your mind. You will only come off as needy and attention seeking, which are not attractive traits. You don't even need to get a female perspective on this. Girls want a fun guy who is always having a good time no matter what. Concentrate on having fun and don't ever over analyze every little action and statement.

When a man in a mixed set notices you on his own and attempts to belittle you to the rest of his group by making a witty/rude comment based on your appearance, it actually raises attraction levels towards you in the women that he is with. This is inevitable. This happens because deep down women know that men will typically only do that when they either feel threatened by eminent competition or are jealous of the other guy. It shows the women that the man criticizing you must view you as being of more valuable than himself, because if he had nothing to worry about he would simply pay you no mind at all.

Women have a sixth sense to detect and “see through” this form of behavior, and as a result will end up wanting to ditch the guy that they are with and pursue you instead. Unfortunately, this doesn't generally work on women that are with their LTR boyfriend, so please don't misinterpret this as being a “girlfriend stealing” technique. Another additional perk that is gained through this technique is the fact that these “haters” are unintentionally pointing you out to the women. It's like free advertising!

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The most basic example of this in action is the way that many men will say “He's gay” when they notice another man who is obviously attractive based on looks alone. You've probably even done that yourself a few times, I'm not scared to admit that I myself would do it quite a bit back in my AFC days. Ah, the bad old days. Now that I'm experienced in the art of seduction, I'm on the receiving end of this social exchange, and I'm proud to say that I absolutely love the hate. Once you plug this into your own arsenal, you will be able to increase your approaches from women as well through this very powerful Passive Opener. This can easily be used to your advantage if you go out of your way to provoke other guys into making negative comments about your appearance while they are in the presence of potential targets. This is accomplished by: - Excessive peacocking; wearing provocative clothing and accessories that other men would normally be afraid to go out in public wearing. Sporting pink shirts, strange hats, over-the-top jewelry, sunglasses at night, colorful/shiny clothing and unusual props are all great examples. - Major displays of social proof. Having many pivots/pawns can easily achieve this because you will easily make other men jealous. The same can be said for using the Houdini Sets Passive Opener (found below), as this typically comes about as a byproduct of that method. Ironically, this is a byproduct of the Word of Mouth Passive Opener (found below also) as well, because having a favorable reputation with women will spawn hate from other men.

Houdini Sets This is the pinnacle of the “instant gratification” class of Passive Openers. As the name implies, Houdini Sets are an illusion created for the sole purpose of raising your social value within a venue and generating social proof that will ultimately lead to more women feeling inclined to approach you. Most PUA's will only open a set if they have something to gain directly from doing so, for example if there is a HB in the group that they want to target. This is a mistake, because the truth is that when it comes to opening sets, more is always better, regardless of the quality of women within those sets. It's true that opening sets with high caliber women will grab you more social value than opening those containing FUG's, but a common misconception is that opening sets with below par women will demonstrate that you do not value yourself highly. In reality, there is literally no set that could hurt you by opening it, even though the boost in social proof may be increased from opening a high status set as opposed to a low status one. It doesn't matter if you are completely uninterested in all of the women in your Houdini Sets, they are simply “stepping stones” that you will use to get better looking women to approach you later on that night, and will serve that purpose only. All of this means that it is in your best interest to open as many sets as possible in order to draw attention to yourself and create social proof. When you do this, you will increase your chances of random approaches occurring with each additional set that you open. By circling the venue and talking to as many people as possible, you will be showing everyone else in the

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area that you are a social, important person that is commonly accepted by others. One major thing that holds women back from approaching men is the fact that they are uncertain if they will be looked upon poorly if they make a mistake and approach a man whom is not viewed highly by others. By opening numerous Houdini Sets you will be showing them that they have nothing to worry about when approaching you, because you have already demonstrated that you are in demand and are very popular, even if you aren't. It's all an illusion. In addition to all of that, Houdini Sets are also a great way to train your social skills and allow them to improve very quickly. This strategy also helps you to immediately get “in the zone” and feel comfortable with your surroundings when you are in an unfamiliar environment. You can also collect Pivots and Pawns with ease by using Houdini Sets, which can be used to open new sets during that same night and in the future.

Word of Mouth Many other strategies in “Perfection Outside” describe aspects of this in greater detail, so I'll keep this short and sweet: One of the greatest “use over time” Passive Openers is when your reputation begins to precede you. When others constantly speak about you positively while you are not present, it makes those whom have never met you very eager to do so, and actually anticipate that meeting. To use this knowledge to your advantage you can make it a goal to do and say things that are interesting and impressive that will make others want to tell people about what they saw you doing. When you are always the topic of conversation, your social value will be astronomically high in just about every situation that you are put into. Knowing some magic or other forms of entertaining tricks can help you accomplish this very easily, because those are things that are easily repeatable and will ensure that others will tell stories about what you did. Try to think of things that you yourself would want to tell a story about if you saw something doing them, and then proceed to do those things yourself when you are around people who will notice. This method is also a great way to build your social value and increase your social circle, since it has very obvious popularity boosts attached to it.

The Newton Effect Newton's First Law: “An object at rest tends to stay at rest and an object in motion tends to stay in motion with the same speed and in the same direction unless acted upon by an unbalanced force.” When you first read that, what comes to mind is probably a ball rolling along the ground or some other material thing that can be put into motion. However, if you read between the lines and think outside of the box, you'll notice that Newton's law applies to many other aspects of life as well, seduction included.

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After a tremendous amount of time in the field, I have come to the conclusion that this is a solid fact: If a woman sees another woman approach you, the chances of her approaching you as well are increased ten fold. She will most likely wait until you are alone and she has a window of opportunity, but the fact remains that she will feel more comfortable with approaching you if she first knows that you will respond positively and that other women are interested in you as well. In this aspect women are sort of like small children; they may not be interested in a particular toy at first, but once they see some other kids playing with it, they will immediately become fully determined to claim it as their own. With that in mind, in order to greatly increase the amount of women that approach you, you should always do the following: 1) Never immediately reject a woman that approaches you, no matter how ugly she may be. If a HB sees you reject someone, she will be very hesitant about approaching you herself, and probably never will. When a below average woman approaches you, simply humor her for a while and possibly try to befriend her. Never underestimate the power of having an army of FUG's at your disposal, they can come in handy and will always have HB friends to introduce. 2) Try to encourage random women into approaching you by giving them winks and smiles, especially women that are just average. At any venue you will want to have as many women approaching you as possible, even ugly ones. Give them the go-ahead and get the ball rolling. After you've had a few average women approach, the HB's will always become curious. 3) When you are at a venue where the women are abundant, don't unnecessarily prolong a set just because the woman approached you and closing her will be easy. Eject from that set and leave yourself open to be approached by other women for a while, you can always re-open the set later on and close it. If there are 100 women in the club, that means that you have 100 opportunities. Don't waste all of your time on something just because it may be a sure thing. 4) If you are approached by more than one woman at once (two/three/four set) you can attempt to immediately isolate one of them. When you do this, simply game your isolated girl until the others return. This will provide an illusion to the rest of the people in the crowd, making it appear as if you are being approached by multiple women rather than a group. However, never try to immediately isolate a women if you approached them, only if they approached you. This is a luxury that you can only enjoy when you do not cold approach. Remember: Once you set all of this in motion it can not be stopped unless you halt it's momentum yourself, and the longer you keep each set open the slower your progress will become. When using the Newton Effect Passive Opener, keep the sets short and sweet.

Passive Paranoia Paranoia is a fun element to play around with. When using this Passive Opener, it is necessary to either have a wing or a pawn with you. Once you have that prerequisite in order, head the the venue of your choice. After scanning

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the area and selecting a target, sit back with your wing and lean into his ear. While looking at your target, say something funny so that your wing/pawn laughs while looking at your target. After this initial lure has been cast, frequently look back at your target and continue to talk. She will naturally begin to think that you are talking about her or are making fun of her. Do not over due this or she may think that you are an asshole. The trick is to make her not be too sure if you are talking about her or not. As a result she will either come within your proximity to try to overhear your conversation or even decide to just approach you straight up. In general, the shy people will tend to draw there bodies closer to you while the more outgoing will simply approach. Either way, this is an IOI. Opening her will be really easy if she has come into your vicinity. Something simple such as "Hey, what's up?" will be sufficient. Don't try anything fancy in this situation, you don't want to impress her, just get a conversation going. She will probably respond by saying that she thought you were talking about her, but even if she doesn't you should still bring it up. Whether she approached you right away or came into your area and you made the opening comment, the rest should follow suit accordingly. You should then say something such as: “My friend here thinks that you look just like my ex-girlfriend, but I'm not so sure he/she is right.” This comment will be interpreted by the woman as a neg, because she will suspect that you are trying to say that she isn't up to your standards. Usually ex-girlfriends should be completely left out of the conversation with a new woman, but in this case the neg overpowers it and the ex comment will be forgotten quickly. After allowing her to respond, you should quickly change the subject: “Oh well, forget it. So you looked kind of bored before you came over here, blah blah”. Game as usual. This strategy is great for forcing a particular woman to approach you. Most Passive Openers do not allow you to be this selective as random women will approach you and you will have little choice as to which of them do. With Passive Paranoia, you have the power of choice.

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Stage 1

Hybrid Passive Openers

This technique is for use in stage 1 (Interest Initiation) and stage 5 (Interest Reinforcement) of the WOW system. The idea is that you are combining a passive approach with a cold approach, thus the "hybrid" aspect. This technique is best suited for night game. We will go into more detail in a moment, but the basics of the technique are these: you initiate a cold approach on the TOI and then eject from the set prematurely. You partially complete an opener regarding the TOI's appearance or "aura", then your wing requests your presence somewhere else. When the TOI reopens (and she will most of the time) she will essentially be giving you an XIOI by auto-selecting you. This is good in many ways, as we shall see below.

Good Wingmen: Where There's a Wing, There's a Way While this technique can be executed solo (with the aid of an experienced pawn), there will be far fewer opportunities to do so. So get a wing, and make sure he's on point! Your wingman needs to have impeccable timing in order to pull this off. If he is a few seconds too early or too late, the follow up will fall flat on it's face. This is because your wingman's job is to pull you out of the set just as you are about to complete your opener.

Example 1: You: "(Opener)" Then: "Hey, I just wanted to say that there is something interesting about you, it's too bad that..." Wing: "Hey, come over here man, these people want to meet you!" (You walk out of the set in mid-sentence)

Example 2: You: "Hey, I know you from somewhere, didn't we..." Wing: "Hey man you've got to see this!"

Example 3: You: "I like that (insert clothing/jewelery) you're wearing, but it doesn't go well with your..." Wing: "Hey Dude, come check this out!"

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The Produced Effect: By leaving the set you are doing three things: (1) Displaying non-neediness. (2) Displaying high social value because (a) your time is precious, and (b) you are in demand. (3) Leaving her hanging for the answer to the burning questions: "What was he going to say? What's wrong/good about me?” You have successfully perked her interest in you. Whether or not she is attracted to you at this point is irrelevant, since you are laying the foundations on which to build it in successive Stages. Although this technique is primarily useful during stages 1 and 5, it can also be employed during Stage 4 to amplify attraction. For example, you eject from the set just as you are about to finish reading her palm. The technique also helps maneuver around any potential cockblockers, your TOI may leave her group to reopen you. Her friends will then see that it is she who is interest in you, not necessarily vice versa. Thus they won't feel the need to protect her from a potential threat.

Be Wary of Your Emotions... Now that you have finished the Crash Course In Seduction and have begun to read this book, you should already have some sort of social value and are now taking your pick of the hot babes in your local area and beyond. You've come a long way from those AFC days and are not settling (and maybe even falling in love) with the first girl you lay eyes on due to the fact that you couldn't get any ass. You've realized what you deserve and are well on the way to getting it, but you're really only half of the way there. There is still some room for some slip-ups where you could end up back in the AFC mentality that you've managed to crawl away from. You'll see a HB9, in your eyes she's perfect and she seems to be walking in slow motion down the street while cheesy music plays in the background. *Scratch noise* STOP! Get a grip will you? You're supposed to be an alpha male. Sure she's hot, but she hasn't qualified herself to you yet. You've nothing to prove, you're the man. She isn't. What makes her so perfect? Nothing, yet.

By leaving her hanging you are creating the circumstances by which she will reopen you, thus setting up the following conversation in much less of a "pick up" Being in a relationship with you is like a high-flying business job. She context. The "he's hitting on me" circuit has to prove she has what it takes. can't be turned on if she is the one who starts the conversation, can it?

This technique can easily be used to create an army of Pawns. Imagine doing this to 4 or 5 sets in a night, and having these women following you around, trying to get a word in to find out the answer to that burning question. This screams value to everyone in the room. However, make sure that your wing is not pulling you away from the set like he's in charge, rather he is requesting that you, a high value person, join him somewhere else. If it appears as if your wingman is the Alpha male in your group it will considerably lower the Roaming value that you have created up until that point. This technique can also be used in conjunction with "Opener Cloaking". For example, you

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walk up to the bar, and say "Hi". You say nothing else, but proceed to order your drink. Then as you are leaving you deliver the Hybrid opener. Don't try to learn it all at once! This stuff is only good if you put it to use. Go out and get some numbers or something, this book will still be here when you get back. If you execute this technique correctly but she doesn't re-open you straight up, she will still most likely begin dropping heavy IOI's in your direction, thus allowing you to reopen the set yourself with ease. If she doesn't re-open and does not give you any IOI's at all, then you know the drill. Move on to the next target.

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Playboy Club Photographer

Stage 1

Introduction Ever wonder how some guys have a crazy photo collection and how they got it? I know personally I have lost more erotic photos through hard drive failures and lost discs of one weekend’s action then most guys collect in their entire lifetime. So how did I get all of those people to pose and add some needed sensuality to those bland landscapes or club scenes? How do I consistently create photo collections that can make anyone jealous and want to have a life like mine? Well I am going to share one of my favorite Peacocking Passive Openers which helps you WOW in stage 1 of the interaction.

SCAT No, I don’t want you to learn how to freestyle sing or to scurry along. This simple word will instead help you to build your personal collection of tasty erotica and fun pictures. SCAT stands for:

Shirt Camera Attitude Tempest So what does this all mean? Let me explain: One of my favorite ways to dress up to guarantee a night of fun frolicking and general mayhem, was to borrow one of my favorite buddy's shirts. You don’t really need the shirt but it just added to the state that we created, and increased the results.

The Shirt He had this killer black mechanic’s button down shirt with white piping and a Playboy Logo on the left chest and the word “Photographer” on the right chest. He used to get pulled by HB after HB asking about it’s authenticity. This shirt was really a chick magnet, and well worth the $39.99 that he had paid for it. I am thinking of custom making my own, just to preserve my friendship (the stains alone that he can’t see and I won’t tell him about might end our bond). Let’s just say that I occasionally borrowed it from him without his knowledge.

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The Camera What is the point of going out and having a great time if you can’t preserve the memories? In my case I needed it because usually through my partying haze I could barely recollect one quarter of what I was up to the prior night, not to mention last weekend's festivities. Circling clubs and knowing so many people can induce this haze, not to mention intoxicants, as well as free flowing material instead of canned lines. Most of my best material has been left in the field and is forever lost. However, upon the release of the digital camera some of that haze can be regurgitated and recalled at a later date, of course not in it’s entirety but at least partially. So for the sake of my own sanity, the camera goes just about everywhere with me.

The Attitude

Law of Outer Game:

We have talked a lot about the mental state: Think Fun, Not Outcome. This truly is the frame that you have to be in, to go out and fearlessly engage the world (especially in club land). People are so bored with their mundane lives that they are looking for a release, so when they go out they are attracted to people who demonstrate an energy level as high as or higher then their own. This doesn’t mean that you are to act like a powdered up, red-bulled energizer bunny, but you have to be energetic.

Like School Kids... During a new set, your initial attitude towards your TOI should be very negative, yet playful. Above all else, beautiful women respond positively to verbal conflict, which is why teasing and negs should be integrated into your game regardless of your personal style or preference. Any man who can make a woman love him one minute and hate him the next, then keep her cycling through those emotions is surely going to succeed. The more you push a woman away from you, the faster she will come running back towards you. This is what flirting is all about.

This electric attitude will have you moving from person to person, lighting the path as you go along and bringing the fun with you. You should make an impact on the level of partying that is going on around you. You are a cool alpha party conductor.

The Tempest Have you ever noticed how people in “club land”, especially the intoxicated ones, are easily corrupted into dares. Well intoxicants have a way of providing liquid courage and disabling normal social conventions. As the cool alpha party conductor, it is your job to get people out of their boring mundane shell and into their euphoric “I only live once” mode. So tease them and pull them and prod them at will. Even laugh at them or ridicule them playfully. It is for their own good, remember. That is what they wanted in the first place, it's what they came for. So how do you put the SCAT to use during an evening out? Let me roll out the way I combined these elements in order to add to my personal library:

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SCAT Erotica Enter the club at peak time, full alpha stride with a mixed group in tow and the Playboy shirt on my back. Order up my first beverage and begin my initial walk through. The Playboy shirt gets great attention, and I open sets left and right. At this point you could tell these people that you truly are a Playboy photographer, but I prefer to work clean game, so instead I wink and tell them that I am in training. I tease my targets, they usually will ask something like “Do you think I am Playboy material?” I then pause and use a whole assortment of teases or negs depending on the target, but then break into playful mode and say “Well it is hard to tell if people are photogenic until you see them behind the lenses.” I run a story about the hottest girls that turn out to be dogs in print, then I whip out my camera and say, “Let’s find out, pose for me girls!” The key to this is that you are the Tempest, you are in control. All women have fantasies of being models, and all have this hidden porn star inside of them that you can release. So it is your job to frown and show displeasure, shake your head, encourage them through selective wording such as: “Come on girls, that is so boring! I got more excitement from the two nuns I took pictures of last week. Kiss her at least, you know she wants too”, or “Girls I’m sure you can take sexier pictures then that!” Also use their catty nature to make them compete against each other, “See how she is doing that, I know you can do it better!” It's truly surprising what you can get away with in this frame as long as you tell them what to do (don't ask). Boobs out, anything and everything licked, elicit scenes all for your own amusement. You are the Tempest and everyone can see that even though you are not the center of attention you are the conductor, and everyone is looking forward to meeting you. Build your own hype wherever you go by leaving the place a bigger party then when you arrived. This good will generates lots of friends and many fringe benefits, including VIP invites and many private parties with many more photographs to take. Remember though, a good photographer always asks to take a photo. Some people have things to hide, and their privacy is what creates the trust that allows you to photograph some of the craziest things you have ever seen. Besides for the normal batch, I rarely ever show my pictures to anyone, which is probably the reason why I have so many. No need for the shirt but you too can be the Playboy Club Photographer, if you bring your SCAT out with this technique.

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Stage 1

The Police Patrol When you go out on the town do you think fun or think outcome? Do you role-play your way to new acquaintances?

Does the use of positive mental states and frames of mind attracting people to your exciting little bubble of reality sound appealing to you? If you answered yes to any of the above, then you will most likely be interested in one of my many club circling techniques which fall into stage 1 of the WOW System. Read on.

We Have the Place Surrounded! Club circling techniques are important because they establish your identity (to your soon to be adoring fans), they also allow you to see who is in attendance, and establish some TOI's (Targets of Interest). Not to mention, because you are fluid in motion they establish a infectious sense of energy in your flow. Circling techniques range from the basic age-old ideas such as just going around greeting people and saying hello, to much more advanced strategies such as The Slam Cam technique (found elsewhere in this guide). There are many reasons that make circle techniques so successful, the main ones being social proof and the Exposure Principle.

Decent Exposure Charges Laid The Exposure Principle is a psychological phenomenon first studied by Robert Zajonc. This effect was proven in interpersonal attractiveness research that, the more you see a person, the more attractive and intelligent that person will appear to be. Just exposing someone briefly to a picture or to a piece of music, led to that person expressing more positivity towards it later, compared to others. The term “familiarity breeds liking” was coined as an effect and is a cognitive bias. One particular example of this that you may be able to relate to is the way in which modern radio stations continuously play the same songs repetitively all day long. They pound these songs into your head so much, that eventually you will begin liking them and singing along even if you had no interest in the song the first time that you heard it. Many records are sold this way by purposely exploiting this phenomenon. Circle techniques help to familiarize yourself with as many potential TOI's as possible, and make use of the Exposure Principle to your benefit through a feel good vibe.

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Calling all Cars One of my favorite circling techniques is what I like to call “The Police Patrol” or to be more exact, “The Party Police Patrol”. This is an opposite circle technique that I like to use to establish a “Think Fun, Not Outcome” mentality early on in a night at a club. It involves role-playing and a fun state to entice TOI's into joining this fun reality that you have created. To pull it off more effectively I purchased some inexpensive props in order to cement the character. You can also share this with your wingmen to add further social proof and value.

Impersonating an Officer is an Offense Unless you Role-Play Here are the ingredients: 1) Fake police wallet badge. 2) Keyring with blinking red/blue light. You can also add other accessories like cuffs, but I prefer to minimize and maximize my props to good effect. Sometimes taking it too far can ruin the effect.

Inciting a Riot As you are making your first circle of the club, begin approach groups or singles while you are in this frame of role-playing: Always approach with the opposite: if their energy levels are high, open with: “Excuse me, the owner of this club wants everyone to have a good time, so I am here as part of the Party Police Patrol (flash badge and blinking light). It seems like you people aren’t having a good enough time. You aren’t making enough noise! Please, I don’t want to make any arrests so early in the night, go out there and make some noise! We want to hear you scream!”

Make the Move... Guys too often complain about not being able to “read women.” This is their excuse for not making moves, for not closing, and for not advancing things on a physical level or towards a relationship. Every guy that is successful with women knows not to place any weight on what a woman says or doesn’t say! Women are purely emotional creatures and they react to true men. Attempting to “read women” does not even enter the mind of a true man. He simply acknowledges that he wants to attain something and takes the necessary steps to accomplish that. He doesn’t worry about making a mistake or coming on too strong, because he knows that hesitation is death. Remember, if you’re going to a mistake, make it going 100%. Don’t ever fail because you didn’t make a move or because you were unsure of your actions. Be the man that girls respond to; be a man that gets what he wants!

We inserted some truisms in with the line about the owner (always add truisms), it also lends to your credibility through the use of social proof, and you can add teases to incite a playful tone with the TOI's in the group.

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With a low energy set you go in with the opposite as well, insert a truism such as the club owner start, then end with: “Excuse me, we’re with the Party Police Patrol, it seems you are making too much noise over here, we are going to have to ask you to keep it down. There have been some complaints coming from your neighbors. Now I know you are just getting the party started, but please we ask you that you consider the noise levels and the people around you.”

Further Lines of Questioning As you circle you can then employ this anchor with recall humor, pretend to point a gun at them with your finger, switching from serious to fun mode and vice versa. There are many additions to this line of humor and many avenues for you to explore. Playful cuff innuendo such as: “Keep misbehaving missy and I will be forced to handcuff you and take you down to the station.” You can always inquisition them for information and details, in a third party role-playing mode the beauty is you can be more direct and it works like a charm. “Excuse me miss, but I am going to need your telephone number, because later I may need to ask you some more questions concerning this incident.”

You Have the Right Of course you have to create you own set of rights: “You have the right not to be silent, the right to cause a scene, to be wild and adventurous, and anything you say and do will not be held against you on the dance floor.” In my past experience I have found that the Police Patrol can be used to incite a lot of fun and mayhem. It will also attract people to your infectious fun, and it will induce many good moments of rapport. Not to mention that you will be the most memorable person that night.

Police Called into Action Keep it short and minimal first time through, to emphasize the challenge and get them thinking about you. As you generate the initial stir in the crowd, the continued laughter and smiles along the path will add to your social proof, as well as your status to the groups you have just left. You also have amplified your attraction with the Exposure Principle, so your next few cycles should develop your TOI status. As part of the Party Police Patrol it is your job to incite parties wherever you go, make sure you leave them more electric then when you came. Warning: Please note you are using humor and are making it clear that you are joking, impersonating an officer of the law is illegal in every country that I have heard of. The point

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is not to be convincing, it is a role-play not an true impersonation. It is meant to be fun, not serious. Use at your own risk! The Paragon Project may not be held responsible for anything stupid that you do when using this technique, the disclaimer can be found on the copyright page.

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Stages 1, 2, 3 & 4

Branding

Branding is the art of purposely labeling a girl with a unique nickname during your set in a strategic manner. Simply put, the nickname that you give her must be based on something and have meaning, as well as be exclusive to her. When you properly brand a woman, you will effectively build trust, comfort and attraction, as well as a sense of bonding between her and yourself. This not only creates a sort of locking connection with her, but also gives you a way to "place your mark" on her in an obvious way, which will help you to fend off nearby competition if need be. It's much harder for a possible competitor to ruin your set once you are already on a pet names basis with the girl, especially when he doesn't even know her real name yet. There are five different types of brands at your disposal, and while no one type is generally any better than the others, it is important to note that since a successful brand requires the name to have real meaning behind it, many situations will force you into using a certain type of brand. This is why it is crucial that you familiarize yourself with all five types. Note: The following descriptions contain basic examples of brands. These are meant for demonstration purposes only and are not meant to be "copied & pasted" into your sets. In order for a brand to be very successful it must have meaning, so in turn it should always be original and thought of impromptu in the field, customized to each woman. The 5 types of brands are:

The Physical Brand In this type of brand you will give the girl a nickname based on her physical appearance in some way or another. Everything from her facial features to her body type, and even the clothes that she is wearing all fall into this category. Some examples of a physical brand are: calling her "booty girl" because she has a nice ass, naming her "trendy" if she has good fashion sense or giving her the name "goldie" because she has blond hair.

The Personality Brand This type of brand is used based on something unique or obvious about the particular woman’s personality or the way in which she behaves. Only use this type if you are positive that the name fits her properly and will be accepted by her, as a wrong guess can easily make you look bad. Some examples of personality brands are: nicknaming a girl "cowgirl" because of her southern heritage or accent, calling her "groupie" if she is really into a particular genre of music or naming her "bossy" if she is the obvious leader in her circle of friends. Personality brands can be very effective when they are well chosen.

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The Look-Alike Brand The look-alike brand should be used whenever you have the opportunity to relate the woman to a well known person, such as a celebrity. This type is only recommended for use if the woman genuinely resembles the person whom you are going to nickname her after; she must look like the celebrity in some sort of way. It is also very important for the celebrity you are going to use to be an attractive one, otherwise the brand will be viewed as an insult and would instead fall under the neg type which you will learn about in a moment. Examples of this type are not needed. You can simply call her by the first name of the celebrity that she resembles.

Sweat the Small Stuff... It goes against conventional wisdom, but then again so does pretty much everything else when it comes to dealing with women. Women pay attention to the smallest of details and being aware of these small details will surely come in handy. When you are involved in a set, are you conscious of your body language? Do you notice your vocal tonality? Are you making that ever important eye contact? These are not things you would normally think about in a normal conversation, but they are crucial. Women notice these types of things and you should too. Get in the habit of becoming aware of your won actions and behavior in a set. Become comfortable, work on it, and soon enough it will become second nature.

The Neg Brand This is by far the most entertaining of the 5 brand types, and can be a great asset to your game if you are using a heavily neg-based WOW Style, specifically the Bully and Wise Guy styles (in production). The neg brand is a negative nickname given for any reason, it can be based upon the way she looks or behaves, as well as something silly or clumsy that she has done. The easiest way to use a neg brand is to wait for a situation where you would normally deliver a neg or Leech, then simply use the brand in its place. Some basic examples of the neg brand are: calling her "big bird" if she is wearing a bright yellow shirt, sarcastically naming her "miss graceful" if she is clumsy, giving her the name "tipsy" if she is drunk when you first meet her or naming her after a non-attractive or even male celebrity (big chin call her Jay Leno, she looks like a slut call her Madonna, etc.).

The Group Brand This type of brand is done when you want to label an entire group of girls with one consolidated name. The group brand is effective in situations where you want to generate attraction in all of the girls within the group before you select a specific target, which is useful if most of the girls in the set are HB's. Group brands should always be done before you reach the selection stage of the WOW system (stage 3), typically during stage 2 but sometimes in stage 1 depending on when and how you run your opener. Some examples of the group brand are: calling a group of 3 "Charlie’s angels", naming them "the cheerleaders" if they are all 8's and above, or labeling them as "the models" or simply "the hot babes". Some examples of group neg brands are: Calling them "the misfits" if they don't appear to be comfortable with

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their environment, or "the girl scouts" if they are reserved or prudish. Now that you know about the 5 different types of brands you can start experimenting with them in the field. As far as our own research has shown, there are no situations in which branding should not be used, so feel free to brand women as often as you wish. Brands seem to have more of an effect when used earlier on in a set, so we recommend that they be used sometime between stages 1-4, and never after stage 6 unless you absolutely need to. Using a Brand during your initial opener is recommended if the situation permits it.

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Stage 1

Opener Cloaking Could this be... The one of the largest discoveries ever made in the seductive arts?

Ever since the dawn of the seduction community, master PUA's have been constantly developing new, more impressive openers hoping to one day discover one that would seem so natural and unintentional that it would not even appear to be a pick up attempt at all. This search began because of the fact that every true PUA knows that if a woman believes you've approached her for the sole purpose of picking her up, you will be fighting an uphill battle from then on. All of her shields will be up, and you will then spend the majority of your time gaming her by dodging shit tests and trying to trick her into thinking that you really aren't that interested in her. Even though this type of gaming does work, it is not effective 100% of the time because intelligent women will understand that since you approached, you must be interested regardless of what you say trying to prove otherwise. It's just common sense really: If you approach a woman, it means that you are interested in her. It is displaying an IOI (borderline XIOI) and there is no way around it unless you are only dealing with stupid, gullible women. Where's the fun in that? Now that I think about it, that is kind of fun sometimes, but let's get back on track shall we? This is why the quest for the perfect opener began. Every seduction expert and student has been since searching for the magical opener that would not display any immediate interest. It has sort of become a “holy grail” type of crusade within the community, and even though many gurus have come up with increasingly potent, tricky openers that are moderately effective on some women, the fact remains that they still all seem unnatural and it is quite obvious that they are pick up attempts. No matter how many frills an opener has, it will still be nothing more than a shinier version of those that came before it, that is because it has been cut from the same mold as the rest. Instead of trying to do the same thing better, it's time to start doing something different.

Or is it? Let me be the first to tell you that this “holy grail” of openers does not exist. However, just because it is non-existent doesn't mean that you can't have it! Confusing, I know. Please try to bear with me. The problem never was that all of the seduction experts couldn't find the perfect opener, it was that they were looking for the wrong thing entirely. Instead of trying to create the one perfect opener that didn't seem like an opener at all, the real solution was to find a way to

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“cloak” any opener (yes, I said any) in order to give it that ever sought after natural feel. If you can't find the holy grail, why not just find a way to make one yourself out of the raw materials that you've had all along?

Law of Outer Game:

This is exactly what can be done by cloaking your openers, and the result is exactly what everyone has been looking for all along. It just didn't come from where we were all expecting. In fact, it was right under our noses the entire time! In case you are wondering, once again The Inner Circle must take credit for yet another huge discovery and advancement in this art form that we practice. However, it is a bittersweet victory because Opener Cloaking is so remarkably simple that it makes us feel kind of stupid for not thinking of it sooner. Stop biting your nails, I'm going to tell you how to do it in just one second.

Similar Beginnings... There is no such thing as a "best" opener, there are only those that work and those that do not work. Your goal when using an opener is to get a conversation going and gain the acceptance of the group that you are opening to, and if your opener can achieve that, it is all that matters. While some openers can technically be classified as being better in certain situations because they can supply support to other techniques that you will bring into play later on, the fact remains that there is really no "best" opener for every possible scenario. With that in mind, it is recommended that you choose your openers based solely upon those that you are the most comfortable with using, because when running an opener your delivery is the key ingredient, and comfort will ensure a decent delivery every time.

But first... Picture this: You walk into a club and see a gorgeous woman sitting at the bar with an open stool next to her. You approach her immediately but instead of running an opener you just nonchalantly say “Excuse me” to alert her of your presence and then sit down next to her. You then proceed to order a drink and wait patiently for 15-30 seconds before saying another word. Once your drink arrives you pay the bartender, take a sip and then tap your target on her shoulder and begin running your opener on her. What did this do? It cloaked your opener by giving her the impression that you did not approach her purposely to pick her up, and now that you actually are opening her she will assume that you must have decided on the spur of the moment to start a conversation with her naturally. It will appear to her as if it is not a premeditated pick up attempt at all, and that your opener is nothing more than normal conversation! As you can see in the above example, the concept behind this Opener Cloaking technique is fairly straightforward: First you use a brief statement to ensure that your target is aware of your presence, then allow a small amount of time to pass before you begin executing your opener. Best of all, there are only two rules that you should follow: - The statement that you choose to use can be almost anything, as long as it is very short. - The time lapse should be at least 15 seconds, but no more than 2 minutes. Note: The initial statement that you make must not give her the impression that you want to

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speak with her, it must be very casual and appear to be only a one-time event in which no conversation intended to precede it. Using “excuse me” is by far the best method, but some situational statements can work just as well, if not better in some cases. Never attempt to use normal intruders like: hi, hello, yo, and what's up. Those all tend to hint at you trying to begin a conversation, and do not effectively cloak your opener. If you follow these two basic rules you will effectively be able to cloak any opener that you want to use, then be able to enjoy gaming in an almost shit test, bitch shield free environment. This varies from woman-to-woman of course, so it is still important for you to be prepared to handle anything that they may throw at you. Regardless, once you've begun to cloak your openers you will immediately notice the way in which everything that follows just flows much more smoothly than it ever has for you in the past. I told you that it was painfully simple. So simple, yet so undeniably powerful. Warning: Once you begin running your cloaked opener, make sure to let your inner aura of confidence shine through as brightly as possible. There is a very thin line between looking like an alpha who just decided to talk to her on the spur of the moment and appearing to be an AFC who hesitated and didn't speak to her right away. This is the only downside to using this technique that we know of, but it can be easily avoided if your presence is powerful.

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Stage 1

Under the Radar IOI's This is a pre-approach technique...

This phenomenon occurs almost solely with the hottest of women who naturally have mega bitch shields, mainly 9's and above. It is also most prevalent during day game, as these women will have such gargantuan shields in a club that they won't even give out these slight IOI's. Either that, or they are already in a relationship but they still like what they see. It also applies mostly to women who are on their own, if they are in a group then peer pressure may be too much, unless their friends are actively helping them to find a man. This behavior applies to a "pre-approach" situation, although it can also apply to Stages 1 and 2 as a subtler version of normal IOI's, thus indicating when to escalate or close.

Approach Invitations Day game is known for being a lot easier than night game because many women will lower their shields; there's no where near as much of a "pick up" vibe in your interactions, and they feel more real. However, super hot, high value women will be getting approached all of the time even during the day. They need extra-effective screening techniques to avoid wasting time on the chumps who might pick up on the more obvious IOI's be chance. So the shield is still there, but it has changed. The average hot woman will sometimes give out what are known as "approach invitations". These include most of the normal IOI's, as well as some others, such as sitting near you with her body oriented towards you. Another gray box, run! Good idea. Why don't you run to your car, get in, drive to a coffee shop and talk to the first woman that you see? You know that you want to! With super hot women, the invitations may still be there, but they are very subtle. They are so subtle that even if her friends were observing she could still claim "plausible deniability" because the IOI's were so indirect. This is yet another reason why these super hot women have developed these more advanced shields: to hide their intentions from their friends. To women, their reputation is everything. Going out of their way to let a man know that they are interested in him would be putting their high status in serious risk. Men on the other hand, typically will get praised by each other just for having the balls to approach a woman even if we fail, so our reputations really aren't in jeopardy when it comes to showing our interest in a woman. Not to mention the fact that men care very little about reputations in contrast to women.

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Body Language Good body language is important in a nighttime environment because it prevents you from being screened, but that's about all it ever does for you. During the day however, things change. Since so many people carry themselves badly, walking through town with great body language puts you up as a candidate for pre-selection. That is why it is so important to incorporate all the right body language mannerisms into your everyday life, not just turn them on like a switch when you go out at night! There are so many quality women walking around during the day!

Navigating the Shield This shield is slightly different than the common bitch shield. It is nowhere near as potent, so tone down the use of your negs during the first 2 Stages of the WOW. Focus on rapport building and qualification before moving on to stage 3.

Examples: These IOI's can be very hard to spot, which makes sense because they were designed to be. They will usually occur after you have established some sort of dominant frame (like forcing her to break eye contact). For example: - She will purposely position herself so that she will walk past you, or that you will end up walking past her. - Following you to a store or some other establishment, but still not necessarily standing close to you. - Very rarely will she give a "hair" IOI, unless it is subconscious.

Learn From the Best... Most people in the world are visual learners. When they see something done, it becomes much easier for them to repeat. The same principle applies to pick up. In order to improve your own game, surround yourself with the best guys you can find. Watch others and pick up on the things they do well. Take the good qualities from your friends and incorporate them into your own game. Fit together and incorporate the bits of information you learn into your own personal style that is unique to you and only you. When you are truly looking to improve yourself, take any opportunity you can to watch others who have the necessary skills that you are looking to gain.

- Saying something loudly to someone near you, which was actually meant to be a message to you (see my article on "Indirect Subcommunication"): e.g. "So then this guy just walked up to me and started talking to me, and we hooked up later on..." - She will likely not show much enthusiasm towards you or break a smile, you are still in Stage 1 (Interest) only. Remember, high value women can have the best, so before even considering you as a mate she has to find out if you are the best! It's basically the first shit test.

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Conclusion As mentioned, run your game as normal, but go easy on the negs until rapport has been established. There's no need to disarm the shield when she will disarm it herself!

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The Chessmaster

Stage 1

This is the fabled “auto-selection” technique. Same strategy, cooler name :) This is a highly advanced pawning technique that has been specifically designed to be used within a social value dependent WOW style, such as the Rock Star. The name Chessmaster has been given to this revolutionary technique because it allows you the gain phenomenally high boosts to your social value by utilizing your pawns to their maximum potential, which is done by placing them into positions (literally) that you can benefit from them being in. The most notable perk that you will receive from using this method is that your pawns will actually be spitting your game for you, without you even being there. In many cases, this is even more beneficial than if you had done it all yourself. The Chessmaster technique is executed by strategically placing your current pawns into brand new sets. Once this is done, your pawn will then naturally (meaning that she does not need to know what is going on) "prepare" this set for you by serving as a massive display of social proof on your part, which will increase your desirability to the women in this new set. Not only will your pawn be an testament to your social standing, but she will also be creating interest and attraction for you, thus progressing you through the first few stages of the WOW System even though you aren't even there! Analogy: Think of it like you are marinating a steak, with your pawn being the marinade and the set being the meat. You do the initial preparation and leave, only to come back later to find that your “steak” is 10 times juicier and ready for you to cook.

Hungry, Anyone? When you use the Chessmaster technique, you will be effectively placing yourself in an apparently non-threatening position. This is because once you have a woman gaming a set for you, no longer will you be viewed as a guy that is just "trying to pick them up". Why? Simply because by all of our modern society's standards you technically aren't trying to pick them up, you aren't even there! To the women in the set it will appear that you are not doing anything at all in direct relation to them, when in reality your absence is one of the key factors in your methodical plan and one of the main reasons why you will be picking them up.

Strategic Moves You begin the Chessmaster by sending your pawn into the desired set. The act of doing this is called Sub-Opening, and it has three main steps: Breaking, Transitioning and Ejecting.

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Breaking During the Breaking phase of Sub-Opening, you will be “breaking the ice” between your pawn and the set that you want her to open. You must do this with your pawn, you can not just point at a group of women and ask her to go talk to them. This is very important, because by being the person to “introduce” everyone you will establish yourself and being in charge of not only your pawn, but of the new social group that will be created through this technique. You will be viewed as the leader, and a high status alpha male to boot. When you break the new set, it should appear as if you and your pawn are approaching the set together and both intend to stay. This is done easily by using an altered version of the age old concept of cold approaching. The approach must be altered because not only must you open the new set, you must also give your pawn a reason why you are about to do so. This is best done in a very vague manner so that your pawn will never know exactly what is going on and will go along with it, if not for any other reason than sheer curiosity. For example: PUA: “Hey Pawn, see those 3 girls over there?” Pawn: “Yeah, what about them?” PUA: “What do you think of them?” Pawn: *Feeling challenged* “They all look pretty fake to me.” PUA: “Are you always that mean and judgmental, jeez.” PUA: “Anyway, let's go over and mess with them a bit, unless you're scared.” If she resists, follow up with: “Oh, so you're just all talk then, figures.” When she agrees: “Ok, follow me and play along. Just do what I say.” Notice how in the above dialog the pawn was never told exactly what she was about to do? This is an important element of the Breaking phase, don't skip it! Once this “pre-breaking” with your pawn has been done, you will then approach the new set (with pawn in tow) and begin running the opener of your choice. The opener that you choose does not matter. Before the set hooks, you will stop opening them and instead switch into the Transitioning phase of Sub-Opening:

Transitioning During this phase you will be transitioning the role of opener to your pawn, in essence “passing the baton” to her and allowing her to finish the opener for you. She will most likely play along because you had told her beforehand to do what you say and go with the flow, plus she still doesn't know what you are up to and will be determined to find out. The transitioning process can be very simple, and all that really needs to be done is to bring up a subject that you are certain your pawn will be able to “finish” for you. For example: PUA: “This is one of the best clubs around, you can meet some cool people here.” Girl: “Oh yeah, like who?” PUA: “Me, silly :)” Girl: “Well aren't you just full of yourself.” PUA: “Don't worry, you're not the coolest person I've met here either.”

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Pause purposely for a second, so she will begin to talk and you can interrupt her with: PUA: “Last week I met Pawn here. Now that was a fun weekend.” Pawn: “Yeah, we had a blast.” PUA: “Hey, why don't you tell them what happened at the party when we left?” Pawn: “Ok, well we left the club when it closed at 2...” Transitioning complete. Once you have transitioned and your pawn has the floor, wait for a minute or two and then move into the Ejecting phase. If your pawn “passes the ball” back to you at any time before you begin ejecting, just toss it right back to keep her in control of the conversation.

Ejecting This phase is simple and pretty self-explanatory. You will eject yourself from the set by making a quick statement to inform everyone that you are leaving but will be back in a moment, then walking away to do something else. What you go to do does not matter: it could be something that only takes a moment, such as using the bathroom or buying a drink, or it could be something that takes much longer, like talking to some people that you know or going to a store across the street to get something. This really all depends on how much time you want to give your pawn to “prepare” your new set for you. Did you know that in most areas there are clubs open and parties going on just about every night of the week? I just thought you'd like to know that there are women out looking for men right now, in case you wanted to do something about it... You will also follow up your statement with another that is directed to your pawn. This is done to ensure that she will not just follow you out of the set, which would probably be her most natural decision in that situation. For example: PUA: “I'm going to grab a drink, you guys don't get into any trouble while I'm gone :)” Say to pawn and then wink: “Keep an eye on them, especially that one (pointing to TOI).” Look back and smirk at your target, then walk away. Ejecting is that simple. After you've ejected, you have successfully Sub-Opened the set for your pawn and have left her there to game those women for you. You are now free to do as you please until you feel like it is time to return to your pawn and her set. You could go and open another set to game yourself, or actually do what you said you were going to do. The choice is yours.

Free WOW Progression After you've ejected and have left your pawn with the new set, she will then unknowingly begin to increase your social value in the eyes of the other women, as well as adding to your

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overall appeal and demand. Simply put, she'll make them want you. Once you are gone, guess what the women's first natural instinct will be? To talk about you of course! They'll ask your pawn questions about you, one of which will definitely be “Are you guys dating?”, in which case she will have to answer no (or lie). This will officially put you “on the market” and qualify you as a potential mate to the other women. They also will most likely discuss how cool you seem to be, wonder where you ran off to and possibly even create an unsaid competition for your affection amongst themselves (women tend to do this very often). All of the above yields huge boosts to your social value, demand and overall attractiveness, and because of this the set will begin to progress through the WOW System without you even being there! Even if your pawn decides to leave the set before you return, this is no problem because the damage will have already been done and you'll have a head start.

The Drinking Alternative... Many guys think that drinking enhances their game and makes them more social, resulting in them feeling like they need to drink in order to have a good time. While it is true that drinking helps to release your inhibitions and can help you mingle with ease, it also provides negative effects as well which will cancel out any of those positive ones. Most pick up gurus know this, and will advise their readers to not drink while they are gaming. However, instead of doing that I want to offer you an easy alternative that will accomplish the same things yet have none of the undesirable side effects. When you are out, instead of drinking suck back a few Red Bulls. Red Bull is a potent energy drink that makes you substantially more outgoing and social, and feel good as well. You will get none of the sloppiness and other adverse effects of alcohol, but all of the positives. Nowadays all respectable bars and clubs carry Red Bull because it is a main ingredient in many of the new popular drinks that people want, so you can just walk up to the bar and order one. This solution is better than not drinking at all because a dude in the bar not drinking anything at all is just weird, and drinking something non-alcoholic like an energy drink will help you to stand out even more from the crowd. That's a good thing.

Return of the Mack When you return to your now “prepared” set, you must then quickly judge how much progress has been made in your absence. This is done by paying attention to the women's body language and orientation, kino given to you, attention given to you, their overall attitude and most importantly the IOI's that are flying in your direction. Another great way for you to appraise how much progress has been made is to find out how much the new women know about you. If they know quite a bit then it's obvious that your pawn did a good job. You should do all of this hastily and then make the best assumption that you possibly can. Unlike most seduction strategies, this process is actually much easier in real life than it sounds on paper, which you'll understand as soon as you try it. In most cases you'll find that the set has been effectively brought up to stage 3 and that enough interest and attraction has been created to allow you to select a main target, but in some rare cases you will need to pick up some slack and finish off stage 2. This all depends fully on the quality of the pawn that you've chosen to use.

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Note: When you use this technique you will always bypass stage 1 of the WOW System, however it can not take you past stage 3. If you're having trouble determining what stage to start off with, the safest choice is to simply assume that the set is at the stage 3 checkpoint and selections are ready to be made, then proceed from there. After you determine the progress that has been made while you were gone, you should then immediately begin gaming as usual by following your WOW Style from that point forward.

Warning! Not all pawns are considered as being good candidates for using with this technique. Since your pawn will essentially be doing most of the grunt work for you, it would be a wise decision to choose a pawn that has a high chance of doing the job properly. The good news is that the type of women who serve as perfect pawns in these situations are easy to identify. The pawn that you choose to use for the Chessmaster should be very outgoing and social by nature, because a shy pawn would not participate in the interaction enough to make much of an impact, or even eject herself prematurely and ruin your entire plan. With that in mind, always try to pick a fun, talkative pawn for the Chessmaster. The pawn that you choose to use should also think very highly of you, or even better yet, have a crush on you.

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Stages 1, 2 & 3

Dance Floor Seduction

It should not be underestimated how effective you can seduce on the dance floor. You don’t even need to say a lot, it’s all about body language and fun. Master this technique, become a Casanova on the dance floor and get all the hot women.

Preparation Of course you can’t just go into the field without preparation. It will take you a few days and a short process of trial and error to begin getting good at this art. First of all, you must learn to dance. Do whatever it takes to get there; learn from others, watch dance videos or take lessons. Also, you must get the basic dance club music and listen to it so you can dance better to the particular songs that will be playing in the clubs. Some easy ways to get this music is to ask your DJ friends or my preferred way which is simply writing down a part of the lyrics of a popular song when I’m in a club. When I get home I Google the lyrics followed by the word “lyrics” and quickly find the song. Continue this process until you have a large selection of music that plays at your local club. Besides that, you will have to be aware of your sweating. If possible, bring at least a small towel, some deodorant and an extra shirt to be left in the car. You'd even be surprised how cool and unique you can be just by having a small towel hanging out of your back pocket, ever notice how rap artists sometimes have a towel with them on stage during a performance? It's cooler than you might think! The best way to get around sweating though is to simply prevent it. Meaning that when you start to get warm, go somewhere cooler or stop dancing for a bit and do some normal gaming.

Status Building Same old basics: Be alpha and have fun. You should be in this “fun bubble” that everyone wants to join. Everybody is attracted to fun. An easy way of gaining status on the dance floor is to simply know a lot of people, therefore it would be handy if you befriend the outgoing people, both male and females. Befriend others that dance and try to go out with your dancing friends since it is less fun to go out and be the only one in your group that dances while the others just stand on the wall. Another effective way is arriving and dancing rather early, when the dance floor is still quite

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empty. This shows a very high level of confidence and everyone knows from the start who you are, as most eyes will be on you during the early hours. Also if you start early, you will usually find only women on the dance floor since most men will need some more alcohol to start dancing and have a few other confidence issues that can stop them as well. Starting to dance when the dance floor is already filled makes your journey harder since the competition will be stronger and you have to work much harder to stand out from the crowd. Dancing with different girls as always will get your status up since others notice that your presence is wanted by many women. However, by all means you should avoid dancing too sexually suggestive with many girls, save the real heavy kino for one or two girls a night, those that you really want. If you dance sexually suggestive with, for example, ten girls in one night, they will think that a piece of ass is the only thing you’re after. Their illusion of having you as a boyfriend will then be immediately shattered.

Law of Outer Game: Save the Night... Have you ever been at a club the entire night until the lights come on and the club is about to close? If you have, then you'd know that as soon as the flicker of the lights begin to shine, the entire mood is completely killed off. All of a sudden it feels like the fun is over and the night has ended. You then begin to notice that everyone doesn't look as good as they did in the dark, and most likely they are thinking the same thing about you. With that in mind, we highly recommend that if you are trying to take your target from the club with you and move her to a different venue or even to your place, that you do it before the lights come on. This will not only help you avoid getting into a situation where she will feel reluctant to come with you, it will also allow you to maintain the illusion that the night has not ended and that the fun will continue.

Don’t get drunk since this will only lower your status on the dance floor. The more sober you are while dancing the more confident you will appear. Also, when doing something other then dancing (going to the bar, talking to people) do it as sober as possible so people know that you are not drunk and will be thinking: “Wow this guy does all that stuff without a drop of alcohol, he has some guts.” Just as in other aspects of seduction, it will definitely be to your advantage to give the DUFF (Designated Ugly Fat Friend) in a group attention and dance with her a little. The reason for this is the same as in the other situations: You will get the hot girls in her group jealous. They will feel challenged by their ugly friend that they are not used to being challenged by, and will do whatever it take to rectify that problem, including getting all over you. You must also stand your ground; find a place that you and your crew can stay all night when you’re not dancing (for example a comfortable couch). In most clubs there will always be an unsaid battle for space, so stake your claim and defend it. Besides for that, when dancing in a group, it’s favorable to stand your ground and make a part of the dance floor yours and remain there. You personal space is just that, and the only people coming into it should be the women that you allow to. All the approaches you will do (going outside of your main area) will eventually end in you getting back to your spot, with a girl in tow. Bring her into your element in order to isolate her from her own group, because only once she is isolated will she release her inhibitions.

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Smile a lot and give smiles to girls frequently. Then make a mental note and remember the girls who smiled back at you so you can approach them later. The ones that did not smile back can be approached by simply asking them while they did not smile back. Tease and neg them if you have to (playfully or course): “What's wrong, is your face stuck that way?”

Seduction Now that you have a decent amount of status, you can move on into the seduction process. During the status building stage you would have noticed which girls are displaying interest towards you (a simple example would be the girls that smiled at you or by heavy kino when dancing) and based on this information, you can choose a target.

The Approach If you are good enough, girls will often approach you on the dance floor by either dancing very close to you or start talking to you. However, it’s often best to take action yourself. In a night club, the conditions of an approach are slightly different than usual. In general, there is less talk involved and more body language and kino. There are two major approach styles on the dance floor:

The Non-Verbal Approach The non-verbal approach is done by showing interest by only using your body. You can simply ask someone to dance (but only when it’s a partner dance that is not to sexually suggestive), or walk up to someone and dance close to them. Another way is if a woman approaches you. The first one that involved you asking someone to dance should only be applied during dances where it’s accepted to ask (R&B and Trance thus, are not), for example Salsa. The second one is used during typical disco dances (for example R&B or Hip Hop). Don’t just walk up to a girl and start to grind her, that is the least effective way to do this and is what all of the other guys will be trying to do. One of the most effective methods is to simply move towards your target on the dance floor and smile at them, then either go dance in front of them while maintaining eye contact or moving to their side and bumping your hips into hers to the rhythm. This is simple, yet very effective. If you then want to grind the girl from behind, do as follows: Break apart from each other but hold both the girl’s hands. Your left hand will hold her right hand and your right hand will hold her left hand. Remember to continue smiling.

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Now go with your right hand to the high left and let the girl turn around. Normally she would turn 360 degrees but since you are holding her right hand with your left hand, she can only get as far as 180 degrees. Now she has her hands crossed and her back to you and you can start grinding. Don’t keep her hands crosses too long though, when the move is finished you can let them go and put your hands on her waist instead. Remember that grinding most definitely falls under the “sexually suggestive” category, so don’t do it with too many girls in one night, if you even do it at all. The third way of approach is when a girl approaches you. If this happens keep in mind that most girls are much more sensitive when it comes to rejection then men are, so only the really confident (or drunk) women will come up to you. If you have followed the status building steps closely, it will be more likely that a girl will approach you. However, never count on this third way, follow the first and second approach to guarantee your success. If you get rejected in the first two approaches, just smile and go dance somewhere else. If you get rejected during the grinding part, then the girl has just raised her Anti-Slut Defense or perhaps just doesn’t like you enough to be seen dancing with you in that manner. This is why grinding should be done very sparingly, and is best avoided if you are unsure of the outcome. If you get rejected by a girl who approached you she is probably a teaser out to get men horny and then walk away from them (these women are very prominent in the club scene). These kinds of girls should be completely ignored. They want what they can’t have.

The Conversational Approach This approach is usually less effective in a nightclub since beautiful women will be approached in this way by many men every night and will automatically reject you faster. The best way to do this approach is to use the status you have gained from the dance floor. The girl you will approach should have noticed you on the dance floor by now and perhaps you already smiled at each other. You can simply walk up to one of the girls you have previously made eye-contact with and make a comment about the dancing. For example, asking them why they are not dancing. You can easily get them back to the body language field if they feel inclined or challenged to dance by your comment. If not, you can simply continue making superficial talk with them, you don't need to get them on the dance floor to get their number! If they reject your dance request they may have done so just because they are afraid to dance themselves, but may be more than happy to talk with you for a while and give you their digits. Remember to leave the conversation in its peak and to talk to different girls in one night. Also, your body language during all stages must remain fun, confident and slightly sexually suggestive. Show them that you're a man in demand that has sex appeal, they'll notice. Your conversations should be kept short and must appear slightly uninterested in the female.

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Number Closing By now you should have found out which girls are more interested in you then others. Soon it will be time to make the number closing round through the club. Go to your target that you have already opened with and engage in a small conversation with her. The best way to get her number during this kind of strategy is to talk about dancing and other dance clubs. Ask them where they go out to dance and make plans to meet up in another dance club on some other night. During the making of the plans you will have to take the number since you will need to confirm the meeting later on in the week. This way of getting the number is much easier than simply asking for it, because you will now have a legitimate reason to be asking for it. Conversation example: PUA: “So I never noticed you here before, where do you usually go out?” Girl: “Well actually this is my third time here but I prefer Disco X.” PUA: “Yeah I haven’t been there for a while, it is better then here?” Girl: “Yeah it is.” PUA: “Cool, maybe I'll go sometime, when are you going over there again?” Girl: “Next week if my cousin wants to go.” PUA: “Ah, I’ll check if I can go next week, give me your number and I'll let you know.” Notice how in the above example you told her to give you her number instead of actually asking for it? When getting numbers your rate of success will be much higher when you do it like that in a more demanding way. The age old “Can I have your number?” line is played out, doesn't work well and displays insecurity and neediness. Don't use it. After having gotten the number it is advisable to send a message along the lines of “It was a pleasure to meet you.” So they at least know your number and will know who you are next time you call. This will also partially put the ball into their court and give them the option of calling you at their leisure if they want to hang out. Keep in mind that if you haven’t talked a lot then the next meeting should take place in a similar environment (a night club) since you might not have anything in common outside the club, which can lead to uncomfortable dates that result in failure. Once you are certain that some type of compatibility exists then you can proceed on to a different kind of date.

Kiss Closing This one is rather easy on the dance floor. After having spotted a target for the night, you engage in a little more then usual dancing (the usual would be about 1-2 songs per girl) and start applying more heavy kino. Examples of heavier kino would be to simply place your hands on their behind. By now if she doesn’t like you, she would have left a long time ago. So in other words: she’s all yours (unless she’s a teaser which we already discussed earlier on).

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The best way of getting to the kiss is getting in the “up front grind position” which means that your leg goes between their legs. Make sure your faces are close to each other and if the girl is watching to the left or right constantly, lightly grab her chin and pull it towards you. In both cases you can go in for the kiss. Preferably a light kiss first and if there’s no resistance, go ahead and use a little tongue. By a little, I mean just that, it's quite easy to go overboard with the tongue usage during the first kiss. Always remember that she is not your girlfriend, and you can't kiss her the same way you would if she was. Your kiss must be a little more reserved and non-threatening, don't scare her off! Take note that you can easily lose your concentration when you try to dance and kiss at the same time, avoid falling out of the rhythm at all costs. However, it’s entirely acceptable to stop dancing completely and focus on the kiss once your tongue has met hers.

BYOC: Bring Your Own Chick Usually it’s better to bring along a girl because that guarantees that you'll be building up your status and makes seducing the girl you brought along easier since she will be with you all night. Remember earlier when we talked about getting her number and setting up a next club date? This is how that can come into play. Keep in mind though that you are responsible for her and also for her being entertained. By this I mean that you have to get back to her the same way as you would to your main area every few songs. Jealousy will be created between her and the other girls, which will be in your favor. Also, some dance clubs aren’t really a good place to be when you’re without your own girl. Sometimes its couple’s only night. Don't underestimate a couple's only night, because you'd be surprised how many people will act like they are a couple just to get in, meaning that there will more than likely be many single girls in the building. Keep in mind that after the peak of a party, only the people who have someone will stay. If you haven’t managed to get a girl interested in you by then, better luck next time. There is no use in trying to pick up girls after the peak since their already occupied and don’t want to be interrupted. This will also make you seem like you are just trying to get any woman at the last minute in one final, desperate attempt. For all of these reasons, it’s a good thing if you can bring a girl along. Simply ask someone you know or someone you are dating to come along. Also, the girls you have number closed on the dance floor a previous night can be called and asked to come.

Conclusion After reading this article and a short period of practicing, you can master the art of Dance Floor Seduction. It's a lot easier than it sounds, and once perfected can be an amazingly effective way to get numbers and dates with ease. Keep in mind however that you will often seduce girls by only using body language and kino.

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This means that you don’t really know how she is outside of the club life. Sometimes it can be surprising how these people are and you can easily be disappointed afterwards. The same way she can be disappointed in you, be cautious. If you notice you don’t have anything in common, just keep your interactions primitive and don’t try to escalate the relationship towards a higher level unless she really matches all your qualifications. An easy example would be the following: Imagine a R&B type of dancer that attracts a lot of women on the dance floor through the previous described techniques. Afterwards, in civil life you find out he doesn’t listen to R&B at all in his private time but listens to The Beatles and plays guitar. If a girl was attracted to his R&B persona, chances are she will not be attracted to the other one, the real him. Always keep that in mind when trying to start a relationship on the dance floor. Most importantly: Have Fun!

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Stage 1

Circling & Ejecting (C & E) False Time Constraints evolved and replaced!

The potent combination Circling is the act of strategically moving yourself around a group of women by purposely changing your position in the set. Doing this adds a "dynamic" feel to your presence, which is intriguing to women. Most men (even PUA's) will normally stand relatively still while running their opener on a potential set, even when using a False Time Constraint (FTC) most PUA's will keep their body in the same position relative to the set while doing their "body rocking" and using body language that hints at them being about to leave. This type of behavior gives off a "static" vibe about you. Which would you rather be, dynamic and interesting or static and boring? If you constantly rearrange yourself and change position during the first few critical minutes while you are opening and at the same time ejecting yourself from the set during each move, you will get the same effects that are yielded by using a FTC as well as the added bonus of being more interesting, dynamic and energetic. You will be showing them that you have a great positive energy about you by Circling, and at the same time threatening to remove that positive energy from their area by Ejecting. This creates interest at an astounding rate, and will maximize the chance of your opener being successful.

24/7... You shouldn't treat the material we are teaching you as something which gets "switched on" whenever you go out. Opportunities can present themselves at the most unexpected times (for example, as soon as you walk out the door in the morning!), and it will be much easier to display congruency if you treat this material as a guide to a change in lifestyle; see Perfection Inside for specific guidance on this very important topic. Incorporate the essence of these techniques into your own personality and put your own edge on them. This will make you a unique and interesting person to be around, and will prevent you from "stalling" when and if you run out of canned material (if that's your thing).

Once you've begun to circle a set you are not restricted to continue going in the direction you've first selected, actually you have no restrictions at all when it comes to direction or placement. You can decide to move to the other side of the set, move to the left, move to the right, or even move back to where you started from. Your movements should be completely random, as this technique is most effective when they appear to be. The only constant that you must abide by in order for this to work is that you must move. C & E is not only an alternative to FTC's, it is a complete replacement. By Circling and Ejecting you will be non-verbally displaying that you could possibly be leaving the set at any time. This eliminates the need for you to say "I've only got a minute, but..." or something similar and allows you to focus the dialog on your opener right away at the same time, which is a much

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more efficient method. Once you try C & E you will never use another FTC again. I haven't. Using C & E instead of FTC's also allows you to use much more creative, fun openers. For an example of this, check the demonstration below. Unlike many other advanced techniques, Circling & Ejecting is fairly simple and takes barely any effort to memorize and execute, after only one or two attempts it will begin to feel natural to you and will become almost routine after a week of steady practice. C & E is done in three easy steps, so let's have a look at these in detail:

The Steps This method has three recurring steps: Speak, Eject and Move. Each step must be done in the order that they are given below and the entire set of steps should be repeated at least twice while you are running your opener. As you near the close of your opener you should begin to slow down your C & E process and then stop it completely once the set is hooked.

Step 1 : Speak You walk up to the potential set and position yourself next to one of the girls, then run you opening line (which should be short and as vague as possible).

Step 2 : Eject Immediately as you finish speaking while one of the girls is responding to you, you turn your back on them or turn sideways and act as if you never meant for them to respond at all, then make it appear as if you are about to walk away.

Step 3 : Move Instead of actually walking away you walk around the girl that you were initially standing next to and position yourself on the other side of her between her and one of the other girls, then proceed to acknowledge what the speaking girl said and continue with the next part of your opener. This automatically returns you to step 1, at which time you will repeat the process.

Jack, Erica, Lacey and Claudia Now that you know the steps, for the sake of demonstration let me describe a scenario with all of this in action. The characters in this example will be Jack (the PUA), Erica (girl 1), Lacey (girl 2) and Claudia (girl 3). Erica is the HB within the group, she is the group leader and is Jack's TOI. Lacey is hot as well but is the Duckling, she follows Erica's lead at all times. Claudia is the DUFF, she is not as attractive as the others and all three of them know it.

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Onward. Jack walks up to attempt opening a set with the three girls. He first positions himself next to Lacey and facing the direction of Erica and Claudia, then he says "I've got you guys all figured out.” Upon hearing this, Erica begins to respond with a cocky remark "O-K... then why don't you tell us about us,” but to her surprise Jack turns his back on her as soon as she begins to speak, and acts as if he is not listening. He then circles around Lacey and positions himself between Lacey and Claudia and says "I know you guys get a kick out of turning down all of these losers that have been hitting on you.” Erica, being the obvious group leader, takes it upon herself to respond once again and says "Maybe, and what makes you think you're not next?" The three girls are then shocked as Jack turns his back on her again, and this time even acts as if he is about to walk away from the girls completely. Instead he circles around behind Claudia and positions himself between her and Erica, then says "Because I'm not hitting on you guys, I just want to find out who's the best.” This time Lacey chimes in quickly because she is the Duckling in their group and has the need to establish herself as being second in command, she says "At what? Turning guys down?" Jack then continues his strange behavior and yet again turns away from the girls, but this time only slightly to give the impression that he may now be interested in staying. He walks back around Claudia to his previous spot between her and Lacey and says "Yes, but I think I already know who it is.” By creating this competition Jack now has the three girls extremely interested in his opinion, so they all say in union "Who?" Upon hearing this Jack decides to defer from his previous behavior and stays put, saying "That's a secret, and I'll only tell one of you," he pauses then says "How about..." he looks at all three girls one at a time, pauses for a second at each of them, then stops at Lacey and says "You! But promise that you won't tell the others yet, alright?" Lacey is delighted that she was chosen over Erica who is the leader (Jack's real target) and can't wait to hear his opinion, she says "I promise.” Jack then leans in and touches Lacey in the small of her back (kino), then whispers in her ear "The one on the other side of me (which is now Claudia).” By choosing Claudia, who is the DUFF, Jack has just laid down a well placed Robin Hood which will work in his favor in the future when the secret is revealed and all three girl's learn of who he's chosen. After whispering in Lacey's ear, Jack then speaks to all three girls and says "Now that one of you knows my choice, let's play a game to see if I am right.” Erica, feeling left out and the need to reclaim her usual spotlight says "Ok, I'm in" and the other two girls both agree, if not for any other reason than the natural habit of following whatever their leader decides. Jack then proceeds to explain the game "Ok, I'll hang out here with you guys for a while. Whenever a guy hits on one of you, I want to see your best shoot-down in action, then we'll all decide who's was the best and Lacey will tell you who I picked earlier, alight?" All three girls agree and the game begins, all the while none of the girls are aware that it is all just a premeditated part of Jacks methodical plan. The rest of the night was very fun for Jack :)

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In the above scenario, Jack has successfully: Opened the set, created interest by Circling & Ejecting, made the set hook by the level of interest he created, generated attraction with Lacey by choosing her over Erica, created jealousy in Erica by choosing Lacey over her, used kino on Lacey, laid down a RH that will work soon to put Claudia on his side and create attraction in Erica, made himself a part of their group by using the "turn down game", which gives him a non-threatening presence and a reason to be there, and most of all he has completely eliminated any and all competition from other men because all three girls will be turning down every guy who approaches, leaving him free to run his game on the girls worry free while they think he is only there as a "judge". This should give you a general idea of how powerful C & E can be, especially when combined with other Paragon Project techniques. The above story took Jack through the WOW system up until stage 6 (after the rejection game finished). Of course he would have needed to add at least a few Leeches or negs into the mix during stages 2 and 4, and most likely some other tactics as well. However, none of those were needed for this demonstration and would have made it too lengthy so they were left out. If you choose to use the above routine just add the other necessary elements in yourself and it's good to go, it has been field tested multiple times and is very effective.

Final Note When you are Circling & Ejecting it is very important to do it in a comfortable, nonchalant manner. If you seem like you are really doing it purposely and thinking about it, then it will seem "robotic" and will greatly decrease the chances of this technique working to your benefit. The best way to do this properly is to act as if you really are going to leave after your initial statement, and that you really never even wanted to hear a response from the girls. Then after you've ejected, you seem like you've decided to stay and then bring yourself back into their group in a different position, all the while moving confidently and keeping your body loose and comfortable. Using C & E this way will make it appear to be natural and unplanned, which is how it should be. It should appear as if you are testing the women. Also, your movements while Circling & Ejecting should be slow and smooth. Do not rush it or you will run the risk of appearing to be nervous and fidgety. Move confidently.

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Stage 2 Techniques

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Stages 2, 4 & 7

The Leech The Evolution of the Neg Hit

Ever since it's memorable introduction into the seduction community, the neg hit (or negative hit) has been embraced by every serious PUA in the world, newbies and gurus alike. It has rapidly become one of the cornerstones of this art form that we practice, and could arguably be the single most powerful weapon in our arsenal. The discovery of the neg hit and it's capabilities were similar in contrast to the development of the atomic bomb, whereas we were only previously going into "battle" armed with primitive weapons in comparison, we were now equipped with a much more potent device. However, it wasn't long before the atom bomb was replaced by something much more destructive when nuclear weapons became available. This is the way of the world, and now that the Leech has been born, our underground society of PUA's have unearthed some "nukes" of our own, allowing our game to reach new heights never thought to be possible in the past. Just as our governments shifted tactics in order to keep up with the times during this transition to more powerful weapons, we must also continue moving forward. We must accept positive changes with open arms while giving the neg and other equally effective techniques enough room to grow and reach their full potential. These new discoveries are essential to the progression of our skills. We will never know when the pinnacle of the neg has been reached unless future technological advancements allow us to travel forward in time, but as of right now we do know this: The neg has gone through a period of change, and during this process has grown into an entirely different monster, more complex and much more effective. The original discovery and initial application of the neg hit to the art of seduction is credited to Mystery, one of the most prominent Pick Up Legends (PULs) of our time.

Enter: The Leech The Leech was discovered accidentally in the field through continual application of the neg in various situations, so in turn it is considered to be the direct evolution of its predecessor. While the Leech still follows many of the same basic principals laid down by the original neg hit, it is a more advanced, evolved version of the neg. The Leech is the next level. In order to fully understand the seed you must first become familiar with the sire, so before you begin to learn about the Leech and the new possibilities that it brings to the table, I highly recommend that you first read our free book "A Crash Course In Seduction: The Inner Circle's Guide" if you have not done so already. This Crash Course contains a detailed explanation on the original neg, which will bring you up-to-speed rapidly.

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Alright. Assuming that you already know how the neg works, let's continue:

Social Value Theft The Leech is similar to the neg in the fact that you will be delivering a negative comment or "reverse compliment" to the girl of your choice, however it also possesses a unique trait that makes all of the difference. This special characteristic is a positive statement that relates yourself to the negative comment in a positive way. Don't let me lose you, this will all make sense to you in a moment.

Law of Outer Game: It's a Part of the Game... If you aren't getting rejected by women, then you must not be approaching many women at all! Even the greatest pick up artists on the planet still need to deal with rejection, simply because there are too many factors that are not within our control that govern how each woman responds to our advances. This is a part of the game that will never change, and it is something that you will need to deal with and overcome. Your goal should not be to get rid of rejection, because that is impossible, your goal should be to get over rejection.

By adding this barely noticeable positive statement and delivering it as a complete package along with the negative comment, you will be quickly and effectively building your social value in the minds of anyone that is listening, while also diminishing the social value of your Leech target. This "draining" effect is how the Leech has earned it's name. Talk about killing two birds with one stone! Plus, all of this is done on a relatively subconscious level, meaning that it is almost impossible for these effects to be "blocked" by the target and other girls in her group that are listening. The Leech is quite simply a bulletproof way to display high amounts of social proof by stealing the social value of your target, who will most likely have more than enough to share if she is a top notch woman. The best way to think of it is as if you are decreasing your target's position on the social ladder, while increasing your own. This makes her seem less important, and you more important to those around you. Attraction is then created because women seek men who are higher than themselves in value. By replacing the neg with the Leech in certain situations (described later on), you are essentially opening a wide new spectrum of possibilities that were never previously available to you. One of these new features that is worthy of note, is that you are no longer required to choose a single target girl within a group and then focus all of your negs on that particular woman while demonstrating your higher value (DHV) to the others. The Leech automatically builds your social value with the entire group each time that one is delivered, which eliminates the need to select only one target because you will no longer need to DHV to everyone else. This increased "head room" paired along with the highly accelerated social value gains on your part and losses on their end, will allow you to focus your negs on not just one girl, but up to three or more depending on your skill level. Also keep in mind that each time you properly execute a Leech you will become further apart from the Leech's target on the social ladder. While you are climbing upwards, you are pushing

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her down. This greatly increases your chance of a successful close. You should now have a basic understanding of what the Leech does and how much progress it has made since breaking off from the classic neg hit. Throughout your journey as a student of the Paragon Project you will learn much more about the Leech and it's numerous benefits. One of which being the soon-to-be famous "Two Point Conversion" technique, in which you'll learn how to masterfully utilize the Leech alongside a few other of our new techniques when dealing with a group of girls in a direct attempt to bring two of them home for group sex. That is being saved for later, and for good reason. You have much more to learn before you are ready to tackle that technique, as only those who've fully mastered the WOW System will have the ability to pull off Two Point Conversions consistently. For now, let's take a look at some traditional neg hit examples when compared to their new Leech counterparts so you can get a good idea of how to put the Leech into action: I know this is getting really good and it's hard to stop reading right when you are about to see the Leech in action, but why don't you go hit a club or something?

Leech Examples Neg: "Sure you're pretty, but so are most of the other girls here. What makes you different?" Leech: "Sure you're pretty, but so are most of the other girls here. Why should I pick you?" Neg: "You seem like the nice, innocent type." Leech: "You seem like the nice, innocent type. You could never handle me." Neg: "Don't tell me that's your phone? That kind is like 3 years old!" Leech: "Don't tell me that's your phone? That kind is like 3 years old! Check out my iPhone." Neg: "You don't want to dance? You're just no fun at all, are you?" Leech: "You don't want to dance? You're just no fun at all, are you? I'm about to fall asleep." Neg: "You shop for clothes at Sears? Nobody cool shops for clothes there!" Leech: "You shop for clothes at Sears? No way I'd buy my gear there!" Neg: "What? Are you not allowed to talk to strangers?" Leech: "What? Are you not allowed to talk to strangers? Makes sense, you looked too young and for me anyway." Neg: "You were popular in school right? Figures, most girls like you get by off their looks." Leech: "You were popular in school right? Figures, most girls like you get by off their looks. I was really popular too, but for "other" reasons, like skills and such." Neg: "What was your name again? I forgot it." Leech: "What was your name again? I usually remember names really easily, weird."

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Those were some basic examples of how the neg and the Leech differ. Keep in mind that the Leech is a very versatile tool and it can be applied to many different situations. Be creative with it and experiment with new ideas, you never know what you might uncover. The Leech was discovered by accident, remember? In the examples above, take note of how the Leech always adds a personal, positive comment into the mix that refers to you (the PUA). This is what builds your social value during the interaction and is required in order for the technique to be a success. You accomplish this by relating yourself to the negative comment positively, and in doing so you underhandedly drain some of the Leech target's social value and add it to your own by this discreet display of how you are "better" than her. In simple terms, the Leech is a neg on steroids. Use it wisely. Never Forget: There's a very thin line between negging a woman and being mean to a woman! All neg techniques (including the Leech) are meant to be delivered in a playful and carefree manner. Don't take it so seriously, and don't be an asshole about it. As I stated earlier, the Leech has made many new possibilities available. Here are some more examples of how the Leech can be used:

The Kino Leech Combined Weaponry... During stage two of the WOW you will begin to put techniques such as the Leech into use, and it is also the first stage in which you will begin to focus on heavy kino usage. Stage two is also when you begin collecting IOI's and SOI's from your targets, so you can identify and pick out the best target later on during stage three of the system. Using forms of the Leech and kino are fundamental staples that will generate attraction for you every time, but a new form of the Leech is arguably the most potent when it comes to generating attraction and provoking IOI's directly from your target. This is the Kino Leech. The Leech in its basic form is done by delivering a negative comment or "reverse compliment" to your target but including a positive statement that relates yourself to the negative comment in a positive way. The Kino Leech follows that same pattern, but you use it in a way that also incorporates kino into the Leech. This not only enhances the attraction gains on your part by allowing the Leech and kino to both be involved, it also greatly solicits IOI's from your target by putting her into a confused state. She will be feeling like: “Ok, he just told me that my shirt was ugly, but he touched me nicely on the shoulder while he said it. Does he like me or not? Maybe I'll do something to let him know that I like him too and see how he responds to that.” That “something” that she will do will be an IOI. When combined, kino and the Leech create an amazing rush of confusion and attraction.

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Using The Kino Leech: PUA: “What is that on your shoulder?” *Use kino to rub it off* “Oh, that’s not coming off. That’s kind of nasty, I can’t stand people who don’t wash!” You can also use this for something on her face or hair if you are to the point where that type of kino is appropriate. PUA: *After she says something stupid, pat her on the shoulder or back* “You shouldn’t worry. Not many people are smart like I am.” PUA: *While demonstrating a story* “I don’t usually have to explain stuff like this, but...” *use kino with an acknowledging pat on her back or shoulder* “...you’re a special case” PUA: “Do you guys believe in palm reading?” *Take TOI’s hand and hold it in a sexual manner* “Wow! I don’t see that very often. I’m smart enough to know that that’s an exceptionally large retard line!” Those are just some examples of how to use The Kino Leech. You can do it in any fashion that you like by using the Leech and incorporating kino into it.

The False Flattery Leech Introduction This is a leech that is very advanced. At first, it appears that you are an AFC going nuts over some HB, just like all of the other guys do. What makes this leech so effective is that it does just the opposite of that. When the girl thinks you are predictable, you blow away any doubt in her mind that you are anything but superior to them.

How it Works A commonplace compliment is given to a girl in a serious manner. This may flatter them, but you sure won't seem like much of a challenge. Just as the girl starts to think you are just another average guy, you immediately catch them anticipating the standard response and increase your social value instead by executing a ballsy line with a cocky smile.

Example: PUA: "Has anyone ever told you how sexy your eyes are?" HB: "That was so nice of you." PUA: "No, I mean people tell me that all of the time. I just wanted to see if an average person gets that a lot too."

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Effectiveness This Leech is very successful in not only increasing your social value, but by proving how unique and unlike the other guys you are. Think about how many other guys have been confident enough to wipe that grin right off her face. I'd say next to none. Sometimes being unique and doing the one thing that others guys would never do is all that is required to build heavy attraction. Never underestimate the power of unpredictability.

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Stages 2, 4 & 7

The Neg Twins (TNT) The Dynamic Duo

It's Explosive! Shortly after the discovery and initial application of the Leech, it quickly began to go through yet another period of change. However, rather than developing into an alternative technique, this time it split in two, similar to the way that a single celled organism does when attempting to replicate itself. This resulted in the creation of an all new form of the classic neg which was derived from the Leech rather than the original source itself. This new model also had a much more targeted purpose than that of the others, and did a superb job at accomplishing it. The Leech now had a twin. They were not identical twins of course, as a pair like that would have no legitimate reason for existence. Instead, there was one small yet significant difference between the two that gave them the ability to compliment each other in such a way that would amplify the effects of each when they were used simultaneously together. The end result of the twins being used together as a full package is nothing short of groundbreaking. The traditional neg hit had now not only evolved, but had cloned itself and evolved even further. This entire process is appropriate given the fact that as our game evolves and grows, so should the techniques that we use. Enter: The Robin Hood.

The Robin Hood (RH) The Robin Hood was originally developed to fix a major flaw in the Leech that presented itself and became ever more apparent as we continued to get more accustomed to using it. The Leech had given us the ability to drain the social value of the woman of our choice and add that value to our own, as well as eliminating the need to select a particular target girl within a group. The benefits of this proved to be outstanding; however we encountered one major obstacle along the way: The Leech was not performing well when used alone in a set containing three or more girls. Why? By lowering the social value of all the girls within a set while raising your own value, you are essentially creating attraction towards you within their group as a whole. Simply put, every girl will begin to feel attraction towards you. Now you may be thinking "Well isn't that a good thing?", and the answer is no. Actually that is where the problem lies:

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When you equally lower the value of a group of girls while raising your own, you will inadvertently make the women who began with the lowest value (before you arrived) more attracted to you than the others, which is not a good thing. You see, the girl with the lowest starting value in a group is almost always what we like to call the DUFF (designated ugly fat friend), and is obviously the least attractive woman in the group. The HB's in the group bring their DUFF along for the sole purpose of making themselves look even better. They'll never admit it and if questioned will say something like "She's just cool/fun", but that is an obvious lie. This displays how women can be just as manipulative as men when it comes to dating, and that they have elaborate tactics just like we do and have no problem taking advantage of others to get what they want. The DUFF is completely unaware (in most cases) of the fact that her friends are using her, and as you will learn in a moment, we can use the DUFF's to our advantage as well. In essence, we can give the HB's a dose of their own medicine. What a beautiful thing. Before we get into that, let me first explain how the DUFF's became the problem that would ultimately change into the blessing that we now call the Robin Hood: As you lower the value of the girls within a group set you will begin to create attraction, not only in the hot babes, but in the DUFF as well. Within their social circle the DUFF has the lowest social value, and all of the girls know it, so attraction towards you will develop in her before it does in her friends. This creates a major problem, because once this has happened and you reach stage 3 of the WOW system (the selection stage) and begin to focus more and more of your game on the better looking girls in the group, it will breed jealousy in the DUFF, resulting in an endless array of cock blocking. At first we attempted to "quick fix" this issue by simply directing more Leeches toward the better looking girls in the group early on to stop the DUFF's social value from dropping at the same rate as theirs. However, this only succeeded in making a small, barely noticeable difference. The DUFF's were still hating on us. When that didn't work we decided to try not Leeching the DUFF's at all, and thought that this was surely the answer that we were looking for. However, to our surprise it only led to them feeling "left out" by the lack of attention that they were getting, which meant even more cock blocking than before. It took a fair amount of trial and error before we found a solution to making the Leech effective in group sets, and we even thought about scrapping the whole Leech idea at one point, because if it didn't work perfectly it wasn't worthy of the Paragon Project.

Neg Hit Balancing... If you are unsure of how hard or soft to neg your target, then think of it this way: Treat her how you think that she would treat you. If you think she would be a bit snobby to you, then do the same to her. After all, fair is fair. Also, it is very important that you understand that negs were made to be used specifically on very hot women. Women that are below average or even average will not respond well to negs because of their already present low social status and insecurities. When dealing with lower quality women, it's even better to give then a direct compliment than it is to neg them. Remember that!

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Then we finally figured it out, and the Robin Hood was born. "If ignoring the DUFF's is not working, and they are obviously offended by a lack of attention, then why don't we just give them what they want? The only challenge will be finding a way to give them an equal share of attention in a non-sexual fashion so it does not create attraction. This will need to be completely integrated into the Leech somehow, because switching from a seducer mind-state to a non seducer one mid-set will cause major problems when you reach the seduction stage of the system." - Paragon The Robin Hood was the solution to our problem, and to our surprise the Leech seemed to work even more effectively on a group when combined with it's new twin than it would have alone if this problem had never shown it's ugly (how ironic) face. Maybe we are brilliant or perhaps we just got lucky, but in either case the conclusion was the same. The Robin Hood not only allows you to give a DUFF non-sexual attention, it also generates a feeling of friendship between yourself and her. This automatically grants you her "stamp of approval" and at times she will even be willing to encourage one of her HB friends to get with you simply because the DUFF thinks that you are a cool guy and wants to keep you around. "It's like having a "man" on the inside, your own private spy within the set!" - Paragon But just why does she think you are so cool and want to keep you around? Simply because women are all about feelings, and you are making her feel good. Explanation: "Stealing from the rich and giving to the poor is the basic concept behind the RH" - Paragon The rich are the hot babes and the poor are the DUFF's. See where I'm going with this? The HB's are rich in social value while the DUFF's are lacking, purely because of their natural physical appearances. Now, onward to how the RH works: Once you are familiar with the Leech (and I hope you are by now), understanding the Robin Hood is fairly simple because it follows the same basic principals. Fundamentally the RH is nothing but a Leech with a twist, the twist being the recipient of the value that is drained from the target when the Leech is used. Instead of relating yourself to the neg that is delivered, you relate the DUFF to the neg in a positive way, thus giving her the social gain that would have been yours if you had executed a normal Leech. This "giving" effect is what keeps the DUFF in check by showing her attention and acknowledging her presence, and at the same time it also indirectly compliments her which creates non-sexual, "friendship" type attraction towards you. It's genius. With only a few well-placed RH's you can turn a lifelong DUFF into a valuable ally who will try just as hard to keep the set alive as you are. This becomes possible because you are making the DUFF feel as if she is equal to or even better than her friends in your eyes, giving her "fifteen

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minutes of fame" so to speak. This is something that every DUFF longs for, and when you give it to them they are very grateful. Once the DUFF is on your side the possibilities are endless as to how you can use her to help you close on her friends, and she will be more than willing to help. She'll know that if you leave, her reign over her friends will end, so she'll do just about anything to keep you around. If you are planning to use The Neg Twins (TNT) during a set it is imperative that you get the DUFF's name either during or immediately after your opener, and make sure that you remember what it is! We've found that the RH is much more effective if you use the DUFF's name when referring to her rather than simply pointing and saying "her" or "you". Using her name makes the compliment seem more personal and sincere. Believe it or not, the DUFF's name is more important for you to remember at this point than the names of the HB's that you are really after! You will most likely be Branding (learned elsewhere in this guide) the HB's anyway, so in that case their real names are even less important. You've already seen some examples that showed you how the Leech differs from the original neg, now let's go ahead and compare a few Robin Hoods against their Leeches counterparts:

Robin Hood Examples: For demonstration purposes we will be using the name Emily to identify the DUFF in the following examples. Leech: "Wow! That was really intelligent (loads of sarcasm), you’re almost as smart as me!" Robin Hood: "Wow! That was really intelligent; I guess Emily must be the brains of this operation!" Leech: "Nice shirt, too bad it doesn't look good with those jeans. See the way I match? Maybe I'll have to teach you someday." Robin Hood: "Nice shirt, too bad it doesn't look good with those jeans. You should have let Emily help you pick out your outfit." She asks you to buy her a drink... Leech: "Sorry, you’re cute and all but I'm cuter, and I don't buy drinks for girls." Robin Hood: "Sorry, you’re cute and all but since Emily was nice and didn't ask for one, I'll buy one for her instead." *buy drink for DUFF* Leech: "I hope this isn't what you call a good time. I'm used to having a lot more fun." Robin Hood: "If it wasn't for Emily I'd be thinking that you guys are boring as hell!"

The Heist Leech (HL) Heist Leeches are Leech/Robin Hood hybrids that bridge the gap between the two, giving you the best of both worlds so to speak. This type of Leech allows you to raise both the DUFF's and your own social value at the same time, but does so at a slower rate in most cases. Most Heist

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Leeches are done by accident, and they are fairly rare, this description of them is only here because we identified them and thought they deserved to be recognized and given a name. HL's are usually defined by a "we" or "us" statement that refers to yourself and the DUFF. Quick examples: Heist: HB interrupts you while you are talking to the DUFF: "Wait your turn sweetheart, we are having an important conversation." Heist: "Emily and I know how to have fun, you're lucky that you get to kick it with us."

Final notes on the Leech and Robin Hood Even though The Neg Twins are more advanced models of the technique from which they were derived, it is important to remember that they are not meant to be viewed as complete substitutions for it. The classic neg still holds much value and should continue to be used along side of the twins, a balance between the three can result in a much easier close. Over-use of the Leech can give off the impression that you are arrogant, which is a good thing but only when done in moderation. Over-use of the Robin Hood can make you appear to be fake and/or trying too hard, which of course is not your intention. Also note that once you've begun to Leech a set you are then able to alternate your uses of traditional negs between the different girls in the group because the Leech that you will be using as well will eliminate the need for you to select a specific target. Once you've started Leeching it is important that you continue to do so every-so-often to ensure your further development of social value.

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Forced IOI's, SOI's and XIOI's

Stages 2, 4 & 7

Forcing IOI's (Indicators Of Interest) is a method of getting IOI's from a woman playfully because you are purposely getting them to play along and give them to you. It asserts your dominance over them, increases attraction and makes her jump through hoops for you above all else. This is a very fun and useful way to go about the seduction process. An interesting phenomenon that the concept of this technique plays off of is when you are feeling depressed. It has been proven that one way to break the neurological connections of depression is to laugh and smile. Doing this will break the connections in your mind and ultimately make your depression subside. Just the muscles in your face contracting from smiling will send a signal back to the brain saying "If I am smiling like this then I must be happy, because I only smile when I am happy, therefore I am happy." The concept behind forced IOI's, SOI's and XIOI's is the same. You get your target to display a positive signal of interest and you reward them for it. Then since you forced them to express interest in you, they will actually begin to believe that they are interested in you, even if they weren't before. This happens because by being forced to behave around you as they would around someone that they are interested in, they will think that it is true.

When She Asks For Something If she asks for something, don't be an AFC and just give it to her or do what she wants. Always make sure that you get something in return for it, that way you are both even. Make her jump through a hoop for you and give you an IOI in return for you doing something small for her. The biggest thing is that you must present it playfully so that she will take the bait and want to play along. After all, she wants something from you to begin with or she wouldn't have asked. For example: HB: “Could you get me a drink?” PUA: “Yeah right! Why don't you try batting your eye lashes next time.” HB: *Bats her eye lashes* HB: “Could you reach that for me?” PUA: “Yeah right! Why don't you try working on your flirting skills a little bit.” It does not really matter what IOI that you ask for, just use whatever best fits your situation and interest. For all of these forced IOI's, there is a basic formula that you must follow in all situations to get her to do what you want in return for you doing her a favor. You do not always need to wait for her to ask something of you to get a forced IOI, and in some cases you can just tell her that her flirting skills need some serious work. In which case she will feel the hit to her ego and will be more than happy to prove you wrong! Having a big ego and insecurity generally go hand in hand. Once you have damaged her ego,

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she will feel the need to recuperate it and bring it back to it's original state. She will do this by seeking approval from you by flirting with you. Which of course generally results in her giving you kino and flirting heavily with you. Do you think you have enough IOI's yet?

Forced IOI's are Win-Win Using Forced IOI's is a win-win situation. On one hand, if she choses to give you the IOI that you ask for you win because you got an IOI. If she chooses not to give it to you and not play along, then you have a reason to simply not do what she requested and tease her about it.

Tease Her You can also tease her and punish her undesirable behavior with a neg if you so choose to as well. If she doesn't jump through your hoops then punish her for it with a neg hit, and if she does then reward her with her request. For example: HB: “Would you mind reaching that for me?” PUA: “Yeah right! Why don't you try batting your eye lashes first.” HB: *Doesn't follow through* PUA: “Wow your right, that is pretty high. Too bad I can easily reach it and you can't. Being 2 inches away from being a legal midget must be hard these days huh? I'm still waiting on the eye lashes sweetheart.” HB: *Bats her eye lashes*

Law of Outer Game: The Power of No... Never be afraid to say no to a woman, because most of the time when your target asks you for something or wants you to do something it is nothing more than a test. You may or may not already be familiar with these tests, but in case you're not, in the seduction community they are commonly referred to as "Shit Tests". To pass her tests, you can simply decline her request, which will display to her that you are a high value man that she does not have the power to manipulate, thus increasing her attraction towards you. To even further the effect of this, you can act as if you are disappointed in her for thinking that you are a low value man that she can control and begin giving her less attention or even eject yourself from the set. This will force her to re-approach you, which is an Extreme Indicator of Interest (XIOI).

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Hit Her Ego You can also get forced IOI's out of her without her asking for something directly. You can hit her ego a bit, and give her a chance to "redeem herself". For example, you can make a simple comment about how her flirting skills need some serious work, then sit back and watch her try to prove otherwise.

Forced SOI's Forced SOI's (Statements of Interest) work similarly to Forced IOI's in that they use the same basic formula and concept. They ask for something, then you ask them for something in return

for doing what they asked. First obtain something of value that your target desires. Then tease her with it. Make her jump through your hoops and do tricks for her reward. In this case we want to receive an SOI from her. That is the trick that she must perform. For example: HB: “Can you go get that for me?” PUA: “Yeah right, you need to be way more smooth than that. Why don't you try hitting on me first, warm me up a bit.” HB: “Can you do me a favor?” PUA: “Pfft, your going to have to hit on me first.” OR PUA: “Pfft, why don't you try hitting on me first, you might have better luck.”

Escalating It Sexually In order to escalate things sexually with her, make her say things like she wants your dick. Simply put, instead of talking about how bad she wants what ever you are teasing her with, use a play on words and make sexual innuendos out of it. For example: "Come on girl, tell me how bad you want it!" "How bad do you want it from me girl?" "Tell me how much you want what I got." "I don't cave easy girl, tell me who's the sexiest man alive (said while jingling her treat in front of her).” “I bet you really want me to give it to you!”

Forced XIOI's Forced XIOI's (Extreme Indicators Of Interest) are a step up from regular forced IOI's in the sense that they are so obvious signals of attraction and interest they can't be ignored or go under your radar. An example of an XIOI is when she approaches you to talk or when she makes a move on you. Forcing XIOI's is such an advanced topic that we have developed a few stand-alone techniques to serve that sole purpose. You will find these scattered throughout this book. It is also important to note that TIC alone has identified XIOI's as a part of seduction, so at this time XIOI techniques are exclusive to the Paragon Project and can only be found here.

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Kiss Closes with Forced XIOIs Whenever she asks you for something in a slightly demanding way, try this: Tease her about asking you and that she is not doing enough to get your attention. Then turn it sexual. Push her away, then pull her back. Push again, then pull. Example: She asks you for something: You: “That is some weak ass game, why don't you try warming me up first?" (point to cheek / tap cheek and signal for kiss) HB: (Kisses your cheek and expects you to react like every other guy.) You: "Damn girl, who taught you to kiss?" (Now you kiss her on the cheek) HB: Blah blah blah You: Blah blah blah If the window opens you can kiss her lips, if not then it doesn't matter because you've already somewhat crossed that bridge and the kiss will be really easy later. Her kissing you is an obvious XIOI. When the women is the one chasing after you, then it shows that you are a challenge. In order to play the part of the challenge you need to play the part of the catch. Make her give you IOIs first, then you give them back to her. In this case, you would give her a kiss as a reward for displaying an XIOI to you. If a woman on the dance floor at a club trips and falls, does she make a sound if you aren't there to hear it? I don't know, maybe you should go to a club and find out.

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Stages 2, 4 & 7

The Sunglasses Neg Introduction

Being original, unique and separating yourself from all the other guys is a major plus factor in the game, not to mention that women notice and appreciate it. This technique will show you how hitting the club in sunglasses can work in your favor, get you to approach women easily without the slightest hint of a pickup, and how to get women to approach you. This technique is sort of like a passive opener in disguise, but even more so it is an extremely powerful way to neg beautiful women with ease. You can just go out in your usual club gear along with your shades, or you can fit the shades into a fancy dress outfit. It works both ways.

The Set-Up You're in the club sipping your drink and you notice a HB doing her thing on the dance floor. You see many loser guys approaching and failing. You watch as her ego grows to the size of the Empire State Building and you think she needs to be taught a lesson.

The Execution You slip on your shades, head for the dance floor and start dancing near the hot babe. You make your approach and hit her with your opener, you get her bitch shield lowered and you've bagged her like any other girl in the club.

Rate Yourself... Remember those nights with your friends, sitting around the bar rating every girl you all knew as a group. Well it would have been more productive rating each other instead. Why you might ask? Why would I rate my male friends? Well first off that round table only ended up inflating the value of some normal women into a pedestal because of the hard on equation, only helping to distance those women from you all. Whereas rating each other would have made profound calibrations of each of your ability to game, and confidence level. Most men over an 8 rating have a tendency to overgame whereas the men who are under a 7 have the tendency to under-game. So if you had some objective feedback from a bunch of your buddies on your looks you could have all compensated for the above equation.

Now it's time for the good stuff. You remove your glasses, make eye contact, and as your smirk turns to a disappointing sort of grin you hit her with one of the following lines.

Examples: The Mean Neg Like to treat girls like a trampled flower in your garden? This one is for you:

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You: *take off sunglasses* “Wow, you aren't hot at all without these on.” You then turn your back and continue dancing and watch as she chases you, starts dancing and becomes even more interested in you. She has found her challenge for the night after remembering all of the previous losers who tried it with her. She then battles to once again become queen of her pedestal (but thats not going to happen, is it guys?)

The Cocky/Funny Line Is funny the way you go? Try this one out: You: *take off sunglasses* “Wow, you're nowhere near as hot without these on.” You then smile, put the glasses back on and continue the conversation as if nothing happened. (this was field tested by me before I developed the "walk away" tactic).

The Leech The Paragon Project's very own evolution of the neg works like a charm in this situation: You: *take off sunglasses* “Wow, you're nowhere near as hot as me without these on.” You then put your sunglasses back on and continue the conversation.

Leech & Eject Probably the most effective and daring of any of these examples. This method can be used to elicit an XIOI from your target: You: *take off sunglasses* “Wow, you're no where near as hot as me without these on.” You then put the sunglasses back on, turn your back and walk away.

Leech to Lock In Prop If at any time you need to lock your target into the set, simply use your sunglasses to do so and also throw in a bonus neg to sweeten the deal: You: *take off sunglasses, put them on your target* “Well, you don't look as good as I do in them, but maybe they'll grow on you. Go ahead, wear them for a bit.” Leave sunglasses on her, thus locking her into the set. Another alternative is: “You look kind of funny in them, but at least you're cooler now that you're wearing my glasses.” This is a prime example of the Leech being used perfectly.

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The False Prop Neg This can be a hilarious way to neg your target in a dynamic manner. This is done by pretending to lock her in with a sunglasses prop, only to neg her and take the prop back: You: *take off sunglasses, put them on your target* “Darn, I thought you'd look cute in these, but I guess I can't always be right. You look like a bug, ewww.” Then take the sunglasses back from your target, put them on yourself and continue the conversation.

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She Was Born to Add to Your Rapport

Stage 2

It's important to build rapport as part of your game plan, as it is an essential part of any balanced strategy. Stage 2 allows you to expand and WOW with DHV's, thus generating rapport and even a strong bonding feeling, all in a relatively small amount of time. As I outlined in the 3 Main Objectives (which can be found in the Crash Course), Test 2 is humor. Some guys confuse this as only implying comedy, but what I'm really talking about is that the use of humor is a positive role application. This means demonstrating that you have higher qualities, such as being playful, generally fun to be with and using comedy. These are all about the humor equation in Test 2. Do you like to hang out with low status people who are boring? Of course not, and she doesn't either. We all have tools at our disposal that we can better use as part of our seduction game plan. For example, your cell phone and it's calculator function. Here is how you add to your rapport with this simple tool: You can use this a few minutes into your interaction, after you have locked her in. Tell her that for the purpose of age verification, you need to do a fun test on her. Then tell her to whip out her cell phone. If she doesn't have one then let her use yours or if you are in class a simple calculator will work just as well.

Tell Her To: Add 18 to her birth month because we all wish we were 18 for life. Then multiply by 25 which is the age she can rent a car. Subtract 333 which is half of 666 because she is only half bad. Multiply by 8 because she has the figure of a snow man. Subtract 554 because you want to. Divide by 2 to represent her and you. Add her birth date day # because she thinks she is special, neg her that she is not. Multiply by 5 because she saw too many episodes of Party of 5. Add 692 if she is lucky (69 with the 2 of you). Multiply by 20 (Multiple 2 of you orgasms). Add only the last two digits of her birth year because that year sucked. Then Subtract 32940 because that is what you charge by the hour for this consultation. The final number that you'll see will be her birthday! The answer's format is: month/day/year. As an example, an answer of 112390 means that she was born on November 23rd, 1990. If the answer is not right, then you either followed the

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directions incorrectly or she lied about her age. She may think that you did some “magic”, but in reality it's really all just simple mathematics, meaning that this will never be wrong if done properly. I use an internal script to make it easier to remember the equation (mental mapping). I suggest you create your own because by being able to do this from memory alone you will also demonstrate higher values such as: confidence (Test 1 by teasing her) and also alpha status by demonstrating intelligence (it's a math equation after all). So here is that equation without the filler: Add 18 to her birth month Multiply by 25 Subtract 333 Multiply by 8 Subtract 554 Divide by 2 Add her birth date day # Multiply by 5 Add 692 Multiply by 20 Add only the last two digits of her birth year Subtract 32940 to get her Date of Birth Remember, don't turn yourself into a dancing monkey by repeating it 100 times for all her friends, or else you won't be Test 3 (The Challenge). Tease her instead. See how she's born to add to your rapport now! Note: This is an example of how rapport can be added on the fly, but it is far from being the only method of achieving this goal. Any brain twisting, fun tricks like this can potentially be great rapport building tools. If you learn something like this and think that it's cool, chances are that everyone else will think it's cool too. Don't be afraid to experiment!

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Stage 2

The Mail Slam Cam The Hype

This field tested super technique has never failed me. It has a 100% success rate. I have taught this to my students for years. It gives you a reason to approach and open singles and groups of any size and hook them easily. It is greeted with smiles, you are left in control of the group, people go crazy for you, the whole group including guys appreciate it, and your perceived value skyrockets. Guaranteed no cock blocks and no mother hens. Open to close in about 30 seconds, your choice of length and opportunities to tease and neg your targets. As many emails as there are hotties, this is a chance to open and close the entire bar or nightclub. No kidding. Before I tell you what the technique is, I want you to imagine how much that would be worth to you, to be able to get any and every girl's email in the club? Well fortunately for you, I owe The Player for having given me the opportunity to help so many guys out who were in need of help over the last 5 years. So I will give you one of my top 5 Techniques which fits nicely as a DHV or Hook Opener for Stage 2 of the WOW system.

The Technique The Mail Slam Cam Here are the ingredients for the recipe: 1) One Digital Camera 2) One Notebook & Pen 3) One Photographer (you) Once you have those, the steps of the actual technique are: Approach, Open, Tease and Close. Begin by approaching a mixed group with hotties in the club with a simple, straightforward, non-threatening opening statement: “Hey guys, I'm taking pictures of all the party people in the house, and you all look like a fun bunch. Ready?” Direct them to get together for a picture.

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The Smack Talk Said to Target of Interest: "Sorry, not you sweetie. Well ok, but only because I am feeling generous today, but you have to look like you are having fun. Can you do that for me?" "Ok, get crazy for me folks! (snap picture) That was boring, come on you guys are party people remember! Give it to us!!! (snap picture) Cool!" "Before you all run off, let me get your email addresses and names on this sheet of paper (headed picture one), so that I can email you all a copy of the picture." As they are filling out the emails, ask the group how they all know each other to ascertain eligibility of target(s), if that matters to you or not. You also have the time to tease your possible targets further. Whatever you choose, make sure that you keep the interaction going while they are jotting down their e-mails for you, because in this situation an AFC would normally just stand there watching them, thus creating an unnecessary awkward situation. Your high value alphaness will be mentally recorded by the group for your ability to control the situation and maintain fun, playful leadership. You now have the prize so you eject and move on to the next group. This tour will take you around the whole club and to every receptive group containing hot girls. Simply repeat this process until you're tired of getting women's emails. I would usually get 30 or more before I got tired or bored.

The Bonus The most noticeable bonus that you receive by using this technique is the ability to effectively close multiple hotties within the same group. Theoretically you can @-Close every single woman in a club by using this strategy. You can approach every good set in that club, and emails are safe so everyone that has one will give it to you without putting up much of a fight. Tease the hotties that don't have an e-mail address about “living in the stone age” or not knowing how to use a computer, then while you have their defenses down get their phone numbers instead so you can hook up and give it to her (literally). I bet you think I'm about to say something slick in this box to get you to go out and talk to some women, right? You guessed it! Get out there and go get 'em, slick. You can get contact info from all of the women, so that you can work on them at your own leisure. This also gives you the power to be selective, because instead of simply trying to close 1-3 women per night the old fashioned way, you can now close 20 or more women and then choose the 1-3 that you find the most appealing and follow up with them. The majority of women are closet porn stars, you will see that in your digital images. Don't be

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afraid to move people around physically, telling them to hike stuff up, pull stuff in and out. You are the boss, tell them how to be crazy! Guys and girls will even drag their hot friends to you to take pictures too, which is yet another added bonus. This strategy is a social value building machine. After one tour of the club everyone will know you and be your friend, you can then relax and tease all of your new friends for the rest of the night. Since you have established incredibly high roaming value and are projecting the trophy mentality, the chances of a takeout that night increases drastically, not to mention the fact that offers for parties will more than likely be coming your way from your new friends. Your digital camera will come in real handy for those special occasions as well. The only difficult part is deciding on which ones (TOI's) to follow up on later since there are so many to choose from. At least you won't forget what they look like, you have their pictures! I always make sure that I actually send everyone their pictures as promised, this keeps you in everybody’s good graces and at the front of their minds. They'll also love to see you around town, because they associate you with good times.

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Stages 2, 4 & 6

Casting Call

Use this technique during stages 2-4 and stage 6 of the WOW system. The essence of this technique is to compare members of the set to different characters on a TV show. A primitive form of this is the old "you remind me of a Powerpuff girl" routine. However, this technique goes further by allocating to each person in the set a member of the cast of a show, and which member you allocate to each person is very important. This technique can lead off into other routines, such as role playing and storytelling. Choose shows which were popular during your TOI's childhood, and stick to family or school sitcoms. No Star Trek please, and if possible, imitate the voice of the character used to add another dimension to the interaction. An optional addition is that you also allocate a cast member of the show to yourself. This has many benefits, for example it can act as a Leech. Usage in stages 2-4 is primarily through traditional Negs, Robin Hoods and Leeches. Usage in stage 6 is primarily for the creation of Reference Points.

Stages 2-4: Your TOI Your TOI should be the person on the show who is funny, witty or intelligent, but who either (a) lacks physical beauty, or (b) is a man. Depending on your TOI's upbringing, you can choose different shows which she will be familiar with. For example, I doubt that an upper class, white American would have seen Chico and the Man. An especially potent ability of this technique is, if you are familiar with the show, to transition to a story about a particular episode which will further manipulate the value levels of the members of the group. You would choose an episode where something good happened to the DUFF's (and/or your) character. Try not to use an episode where something really bad happens to your TOI's character, as it may become obvious what you are trying to do. Rather you should focus on increasing the value of the other members of the group rather than decreasing hers, since her value will already be lowered by her allocated character anyway.

Obstacles Which characters you use depends on the type of obstacle: DUFF's: You want to increase the DUFF's value by giving her the hot girl(s) of the show. AMOG's: The AMOG's should get the cool dude or the male star of the show.

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Examples and sample conversations The Simpsons One really good show to use is the Simpsons. Everyone knows the characters and there are so many characters that you can choose the ones which will best fit the situation. Some characters can be used differently. For example, Mayor Quimby could be used for the TOI or an AMOG or for yourself. This is because, even though Quimby is an authority figure, he is a notorious womanizer. TOI: Groundskeeper Willie Mayor Quimby Montgomery Burns Principal Skinner Patti or Selma Sideshow Bob Krusty the Clown Comic Book guy Moe That Nerdy Scientist Guy DUFF: Marge AMOG: Rainier Wolfcastle (Aka McBain) Mayor Quimby Troy Maclure "Haha you (TOI) are so like the nerdy scientist guy from the Simpsons! Isn't it weird that nobody knows what his name is?" This is an indirect neg because nobody knows the name of your TOI's character, so the character (thus your TOI) must be of less importance.

Friends This works best for a 6-set obviously, but can be used on smaller sets also. "Haha that's funny, you (TOI) act just like Chandler (funny guy of the show, but a guy), and

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you (DUFF) act just like Monica/Rachel, and I can tell that you'd be Phoebe (HB Obstacle), but who's going to be Ross and Joey? Do you guys remember the episode where..."

Boston Legal If your TOI happens to be a lawyer or a law student, they will definitely be familiar with Boston Legal. "Wow, you seem to really know your law stuff. You (TOI) remind me of Denny Crane (cool guy of the show yet played by an old, hammy William Shatner), and you (AMOG) can be that other dude played by the guy from that movie Stargate (the other cool guy yet younger and more appealing). I can tell you (DUFF) would be that chick who is a partner and who takes charge. Ok, tell you what, when me and (DUFF) open our law firm you guys can come down and you can take on cases for me. If you're lucky and always win your cases I might even consider making one of you a partner."

What Friends are For... A major mistake that I see a lot of men making is ignoring everyone but the girl they are gaming. An example of this would be if you were out on the town with a friend, and he hits it off with a chick, but when you tap him on the shoulder to say something, he ignores you. What does this communicate to the chick? Hint: it's not good... It says that he is willing to ignore a guy who he is friends with in order to talk to a girl he just met. In other words: it telegraphs interest, which is something you do not want. What you should do is the opposite. Be even more jovial and friendly than normal, waving to people you know as they walk past and even engaging them in idle chit-chat. Apart from the social status that this conveys, it shows that you aren't too heavily invested in the conversation.

In this case an artificial hierarchy has been set up in the set's mind with you and the DUFF at the top, followed by the AMOG and finally by the TOI. You have Leeched value from the TOI and given it to both yourself and the DUFF, while the AMOG is kept in check because he will be glad that he gets to be the cool star of the show who gets all the action.

Saved by the Bell "Wow, do you (TOI) always act like Screech?"

Family Matters "Has anyone ever told you that you (TOI) act like Steve Urkel? (Mimic Urkles voice, "Did I do thaaaaaat..."). You're like his female twin!" Later on... "Actually, I've changed my mind. You (DUFF) are more like Steve Urkel. Do you remember that episode where Steve Urkel invented that machine where he went inside and came out all attractive and cool?"

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This operates as a Robin Hood retroactively by altering the value after the character assignment has been shifted to the DUFF. Steve Urkel is now cool, but it is the DUFF who gets the value from it, and this also drains additional value from the TOI simultaneously.

Conclusion This technique is extremely effective for Bridging into other routines or techniques. At the same time it allows for role playing and storytelling to take place simultaneously.

Stage 6 The creation of Reference Points during stage 6 is important for overcoming Last Minute Resistance during stage 8. You can incorporate her character into the RP's you would normally use. For example: "Stop trying to seduce me! Get back to the business of running Springfield! Repeat after me: as Mayor, I promise not to seduce any more hot guys. (Character: Mayor Quimby, the last part said with a Kennedy-esque accent)" "You act just like that Cylon biatch from Battlestar Galactica! Well you won't get me!" "Hey what are you up to? I thought Fred Flintstone was straight!"

Use wisely It is easy to go overboard when using this technique. Try not to maintain it as the only thread of conversation. Rather, use it to transition to whatever routine or technique you wish. Used correctly, it can lead the conversation in practically any direction you choose, depending on the show that you adopt. It is fun and playful, and by attributing things to the characters and not to the people, you are taking an indirect approach while still manipulating the values of everyone in the set substantially.

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Stage 3 Techniques

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Stage 3

The Camera Close *Digital Camera Pre-Requisite*

Post-Camera Prep Have you ever wanted to know or even obsessed over finding the so-called “perfect technique” of seduction? The one thing that you can say that will enable you to get any woman’s phone number instantly with barely any effort on your end? I’m sure that most of you have labored over finding this key to walking up with one thing to say and being guaranteed the digits of any woman that you choose to open. What I am also sure of is that you have been chastised for your “ignorance” many times when looking for this elusive combination of words, especially if you've asked around on some of the more popular seduction forums on the net, asking questions like: “How do I just approach a woman that I see?” “What do I say when I approach a woman?” “How do I get a woman's phone number?” “What is the best thing to say to women?” The responses you received to these questions would probably have been something like: “Use your feet.” “Hi.” “Write it down.” “There isn't.” Not very encouraging is it? Well, it's not that you have been getting the wrong answers, it's that you've been asking the wrong questions. Seduction isn't as simple as knowing a few good lines, and because of this there are no “magic tricks” to getting a woman's number instantly every time. To successfully attract a beautiful woman, you need more than just a nice line, this isn't the 70's. Luckily for you, that’s what the WOW is for!

Law of Outer Game: Equal Rights... When you open a group, you must gain acceptance of the group as a whole. Neglecting the members of the group that are not your target and focusing only on your TOI in an attempt to immediately isolate her from the group is the #1 mistake that men make when opening a group set. When you enter into a group, your initial focus should be to talk to everyone within the group at least once before using any techniques. The worst possible thing that can be done while opening a group is ignoring your TOI's friend, especially when dealing with a two set.

I know what you’re thinking by now: “What’s the point of this? I already know that the WOW is going to help me attract any woman, but I just wish there was some sure-fire way I could walk in, walk out, and then have the digits to continue the WOW another time.”

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This is where the stage three technique, The Camera Close comes into play. Here at TIC, we don’t condone laziness and quitting with just a number but we also understand that there are certain times and situations that simply won’t allow you to progress further in the WOW than Stage Three, be it (real) time constraints, the venue closing or any number of other reasons.

Cameras Rolling When you enter a set, there are two different ways that you can use The Camera Close. Right now, we will begin by focusing on the first of these uses. The first method is used to reach the goal which was described above, which is to get a woman's telephone number. The Camera Close can be used on its own to secure a quick and easy, 100% effective number close on (this is the especially useful part) any number of targets. Enter the set and open with one of these openers, or use one similar to it: “Hey guys! I’ve got to get going, but I’ve got a cool favor to ask of you real quick.” “Hey! I’ve got to get going in just a second, but I could use a quick favor first.” These openers work perfectly because they convey alpha status with the gender-neutral “Hey guys”, denoting that you don’t think they’re anything special because they are female, uses a false-time constraint in the opener and also doesn’t ask for a favor in a needy manner by using a question, it asks for a favor with a statement. With positive body language and a fun frame, the group will always respond positively to these openers. They will do one of two things with it: first, almost always simply ask what it is or just agree to do it before knowing (you guys could take advantage of that situation). Once they do this, ask them to snap a quick picture of you for your new website/myspace. Don’t you love how we added an embedded DHV just to get them wondering about your website? If they ask, tease them about not being able to use the internet to find it, or it having a “cool person” filter, so the website wouldn’t do them much good anyway. This also works well with a wingman, as you can then ask them to snap a picture of you and your buddy if you’d rather not play around with the website thread. If you like, you can include some of the ugly girls as “props” in your picture, to win them over and also as a non-verbal neg to the target (making her take the picture while her friends get to be in the picture). This is a perfect opportunity to showcase your fun and playful side with a creative and humorous pose. No High School yearbook poses or jack-o-lantern grins, please! Spice things up with your pose; if you are terribly white, you can give them a “Westside” gang pose. Opposite humor works very well in this situation and a classic arms folded across your chest with a joking “bad-ass” look on your face can work nicely. Don’t forget to lean back like, excuse the pun, a cholo.

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Take Two The best situation would be to have your main TOI take the picture. When she takes the picture, everyone should be smiling and laughing at your pose and the group should be in a good mood. Once you get your camera back, take a quick glance at the picture that she snapped. Then give a shocked/surprised look, like you’re horrified at her picture-taking skills! Give her a grin and neg/tease with something along the lines of “Jeez, can't you do better than this? You can at least open your eyes (said with a smile).” Another good neg you can use once you get the camera back is to quickly “delete” the picture and say, “Oh my God. Delete! Here, *to ugly girl* you take the picture.” Once you’ve teased the target to your liking and are ready to get the gold and proceed to do it again with another set, you progress into the actual Camera Close.

Alright, Take Five When you’re ready to exit with all of their numbers, run the Camera Close at that point: “I’ve got to get going now to meet some friends, but I'll make sure you get a copy of our picture, just give me your number and I'll let you know once it's developed." Hold on! You’re not done here yet. The Camera Close can also be used if or when you are still unsure if your TOI will give up the number or not in a normal set in which you didn't plan to use this technique initially. If the set is not going perfectly for you or if you want or need out for some reason, along with if you are unsure about getting the number from your TOI, simply transition into The Camera Close routine. “It’s time for me to get back to my friends, but while you guys are here, go ahead and do me a real quick favor.” Then, run the exact version of the Camera Close that was laid-out in full detail above and exit victorious, numbers in hand.

Cut There you have it! The gold that is a guaranteed number close is now in your possession. Be sure to use it with care and precision, but most of all don’t get lazy with this! Don’t use it as simply a crutch for getting numbers left and right, this is designed to be a closing technique but is meant to be accompanied by other gaming as well. If you rely too heavily on only this strategy then you will not be honing your skills, you'll just be good at using a nice trick that you've learned.

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Once you have the number it doesn’t end there! You’re not alone to figure it out though, TIC will be guiding you every step of the way from the number to the destination of your choosing.

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Stage 3

Testing the Waters

All of the time, men have trouble deciding if a woman is interested in them or not. By reading IOI's and SOI's, this is a very simple thing to figure out. In some situations however, this is a much more difficult task. While in stage 3 of the WOW System, if you are not going for a number-close on the spot, you are required to select a target (which can be as many as you think that you can handle) that you feel you have the best chance of picking up. Your decision will be based on the IOI's and SOI's that you have received during the first two stages (mainly stage 2), but sometimes that is either not enough to make a decision, or it is a close call and you need to further determine which girl you have the best chance with. This is one of the only problems that you could possibly face during the very short stage three, but at times it can be a difficult one to figure out. Obviously, you can’t flat out ask the girls which one of them you have the best shot with. Lucky for you, you don’t have to.

PUA Litmus Test This is where the technique of Testing the Waters comes into play. Using Testing the Waters will allow you to determine which target out of the group (you can also select which girls to include in this technique, so that you don’t wind up only getting the results from a DUFF) is most interested in you. The real beauty of Testing the Waters is that it allows you to find out the interested parties without appearing to be doing anything out of the ordinary, or giving them the impression that you are even seeking a mate. Therefore, this is a 100% risk-free technique which should be used anytime that you are unsure of interest and attraction levels when selecting your target(s) during stage three.

Chart Your Progress... In order to improve yourself, you need to hold yourself accountable. No one else will do things for you if you can't first take the initiative. The best way to hold yourself accountable is to keep a daily log of all of your social interactions. Before you fall asleep, write down your field reports from the day. Also, jot down any trends you notice in your game, or any strengths or weaknesses you see in yourself. this log is your very own Self Improvement and Analysis Journal. At the end of each month, go back and re-read your previous entries. Look for the areas of improvement you have seen over the past month and write them down. The idea of a Self Improvement and Analysis Journal does not only apply to beginners. Even advanced PUA's need to strive to improve, and holding yourself accountable by charting your progress is a great way to accomplish this.

Baiting the Hook Testing the Waters relies on putting certain scenarios, chances, questions and more out to the selected group of girls. Due to the selection of these group items, the interest level of the girl will be directly determined by how she and the rest of the group respond to you.

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Think of this like an “experiment” in which you will be strategically doing certain things in order to see what happens, thus gathering information that can be used to select a target. There are many things that you can do to test the waters, and it is only necessary to really do one test, since the time spend in stage three should be short if you are not attempting a number close. It is not necessary to attempt more than one test since you can appraise the information from any test you use, but if you do not gather enough information you can always try another test. There are different types of tests for different situations, and every situation in which you can have a problem has a corresponding test to determine the best selection of girl for it.

Works Like a Charm! The tests that you will be doing are specifically designed to be discreet, but also to get a 100% accurate reading of interest every time. Testing the Waters can also be used on any number of girls in the group, and you also get to select which ones that you include in this group testing. You may also choose to use this on one girl to see if she is indeed interested enough for you to pursue and continue gaming. The types of tests vary from situation to situation, but all share a common theme, which is presenting a situation for the girls to: answer a question, prove and qualify themselves to you, re-open a topic that you were going to discuss, volunteering to do a favor, playfully questioning them along with role-play and also having them prove themselves to be better than one another.

The Magic 8-Ball Says: Proceed Now you will learn the exact tests involved in Testing the Waters, along with when, how and why to use them in the situation that they will be used in. Once you get to stage three, it will be time to select the target(s) that you wish to continue gaming. When you get to this point, run the test that best fits the situation. Keep in mind that each one of these tests can (and should) be modified to accommodate the number of girls you want to include.

Types of Tests: 1) Offering the group (mention the ones that you want to include in the offer) the chance to go with you somewhere later (can also be used as a great Reference Point). Example: “One of you guys is going to get to go with me later and hear that guy with the hyena laugh that I was telling you about earlier. Who’ll be the lucky one?” The girls that respond best to this by saying they want to come with you to hear him will be those with the highest levels of interest and attraction, because if they are interested in you

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they will basically accept any invitation from you. If your potential TOI doesn’t reply, it doesn’t mean that she is definitely not interested, but a reply is a definite sign to continue gaming with her. However, it's always good to keep in mind that sometimes it may be better to select a second-rate target during stage three, because this can lead to creating attraction with your real TOI later on in the game. Jealousy can be a powerful tool when used properly, never forget that. To find out if one certain girl is interested or not, use a modified version: “Jessica, you know that crazy guy with the hyena laugh I was talking about earlier? Well, I’ve got connections and I may let you come listen to him later. You two would be a great match :)” If she responds in a good way, by laughing and giving you IOI's, then you should proceed gaming with her as she will obviously be a good target. To selectively test the interest of certain girls, you can simply include their names at the beginning of the statement. For example: “Amy and Lesli, which one of you is going come with me to see that guy with the hyena laugh that I was telling you about earlier?” 2) Another test of interest and attraction is seeing which girl will re-open a particular thread of conversation that you've dropped, or a story that you decided not to tell. If she re-opens it, this is a very good sign and you should proceed gaming her as usual. The same format for using it with one girl or certain girls applies here too. Simply modify it to include the girls that you want to test, as illustrated in test one. Example: “You guys have to hear about the time that I went ice fishing and the ice… actually forget it, you would have had to been there.” Modified version for testing interest of certain girls: “Amy, you have to hear about the time that I went ice fishing and the ice… actually forget it, you would have had to been there.” By asking what you were going to talk about, you have successfully gotten her to prove her interest and you can now proceed without a doubt with your new target to stage four. 3) Getting them to prove themselves and qualify themselves against each other. The one with the most interest will prove herself with more excitement and fervor in order to meet your lofty standards. This method should always be used if you even only sense a tiny bit of competitiveness or hidden resentment between the girls. Example: “Michelle, you and Kate both seem like you’re pretty crazy! I’ve got to know though, which one of you is the wildest?” Example: “I love to break it down sometimes, which one of you guys is the best dancer?” 4) Playfully accusing them of something, and then seeing who plays along. The one that plays

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along the best will obviously have the highest interest and attraction levels. Example: *Pull out cell phone* “Ah! Which one of you guys keeps texting me these little love notes? This is costing me a fortune!” Modified Example: *Pull out cell phone* “Ah! Why do you keep texting me, Elizabeth? This is costing me a fortune! What’s it going to take to cut this madness out?” If she plays along, pass go and proceed to stage four.

Collect $200 When Passing Stage Three There are many other ways that you can test the water, but these four are great examples of how to test which girls are interested and attracted the most so that you can decide who to proceed to stage four with as your target(s), with the best chance of future success. This discreet method, which has been personally field-tested by me over the past few months, is a great indicator of who the best target to select is, and yields extremely high success rates. It’s like a PUA litmus test!

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Stage 3

The Power Pawn

She's beautiful. When she walks into a room all eyes automatically zoom in on her sexy physique and appealing facial features. She's popular. Having many friends is nothing new to her, she has always been the focal point within her own rather large social circle. She's intimidating. This woman eats AFC's for lunch and still has enough room left to chew up any opposing female competition for dessert. She's in demand. For her, getting a date is only a matter of flashing a smile. Guys want to be with her and other women strive to be like her. She is your worker bee. The ultimate social proofing machine.

Multi-Purpose Beauty It's no secret that the most gorgeous women have always benefited from their own beauty. It plays a major role in every aspect of their lives, and most of them end up being successful in life solely because of the superior combination of genes that they were given at birth. As men, we are magnetically drawn to these women who seem to possess genetic traits that dwarf those found in “average” women, it's our natural behavior. However, we are typically only attracted to this beauty for one reason: We want the woman. Either for sex or as our partner in a relationship. It has only been recently that our modern society and way of life has ushered in new, additional reasons for men to seek out women of beauty. Many savvy businessmen have already figured out that in a world in which sex sells, high quality women can be used as tools to sell products and entertainment. Now with Power Pawns, us PUA's can also benefit from using the beauty of a woman directly to our advantage for alternative reasons. Not to sell products, but to sell ourselves. What better way to display your value to women than to have a beautiful woman as your personal representative and salesperson? Don't you think more women will be inclined to “buy” the game that you are selling if they see that there is already another HB chasing after you trying to put you on lay-away? Don't even answer that. This is exactly what a Power Pawn can do for you, and in this section I will be explaining in full detail just how you can begin to accumulate a sales force of hot women on the fly, everywhere you go, in order to display your social proof and make other women attracted to you by inadvertently setting the example themselves.

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This will all be a result of your clever planning of course.

How You'll Do It If you want to turn a woman into a Power Pawn, you will of course need to begin by opening her, which should be done just as if she were your actual Target of Interest. After hooking the set, you should continue to game her as if she were a normal TOI until your are at the point where selection would occur during stage 3 of the WOW System. This is where the magic happens, because instead of proceeding on as you would during a traditional pick up, you will use an alternative form of gaming called “See-Saw Game” to turn her into a social value generating Power Pawn. This is essentially done by using hit and run negging and/or push and pull tactics in order to “kite” her around the venue, all the while repeatedly giving you XIOI's for all to see. This results in dramatic social value gains on your part. Using Power Pawns is arguably the most potent method for picking up women via direct social proofing. If you are in the process of creating a social value based WOW style, you should definitely consider working this into your repertoire.

Top Shelf Only Before you begin, it is important to note that the women you choose as your Power Pawns must always be some of the best looking women in the current venue that you are attending, or at least close to being in the top tier. They must also have that “in crowd” look to them, because Power Pawns with relatively high social standings are always the ideal candidates. Right now you may be thinking “What's the point in using a beautiful woman to help you get others? If I can successfully open the Power Pawn, why not just close her instead?” I'll tell you why: The Power Pawning process will build a great deal of attraction towards you automatically, so closing your Power Pawn at the end of the night will always be an option if you fail to find a more suitable main target. This allows you to collect numbers from other women in the meantime if you can have enough patience to delay closing your Power Pawn and are willing to risk losing her. I don't know about you, but I think that the risk is worth it when the reward could potentially be having your schedule packed with dates for the next few weeks off of only one night in the field. It takes willpower to handle a high class Power Pawn because in most cases they will be of the quality that you will feel satisfied with just picking her up and calling it a night, but if you have enough self control then the payoff will always be much greater than it would have been if you had given in to that urge. Power Pawns are best described as being like normal pawns, but on steroids and caffeine because they can rapidly catapult you to superstar social status even in an environment that is completely new to you. They accomplish this because: - They are high caliber women that other women are jealous of and intimidated by. - They will continually XIOI you, and others notice it because their beauty draws attention. - You will be openly ignoring them and giving them IOD's, which others will notice as well. Very few other methods of displaying social proof can match the overall effectiveness of a well

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used Power Pawn. This is social dynamics manipulation at it's finest! When used properly, a Power Pawn will continuously supply you with a passive foundation of social proof that can be used to allow sets to open very easily and closes to occur with minimal effort on your part in comparison to most other alternatives. Juggling multiple Power Pawns simultaneously is also possible, but can prove to be extremely difficult for the novice PUA. It is however, phenomenally effective when it can be accomplished. However, keep in mind that handling just one Power Pawn is a difficult task all on it's own, this is highly advanced material that you are reading right now and is not recommended for beginners. Once you have decided to make a woman your Power Pawn for the night and have reached stage 3 of the system, do not continue to game her as you would a normal TOI. She is no longer your direct TOI and you must understand that, as this mentality is essential to have in order to game her in the manner that you will be doing from then on.

Choose Your Attitude... Always go into a set, an approach or an opener with a winning attitude! Better yet, go into life that way. This all starts before you even see the TOI. Listen to positive music that can motivate you, read material that keeps you thinking "of course you can!" and watch movies and shows in which the good guy always wins. Keep a fun, confidant attitude about you, and your outcomes will be reflective of that. In the end, it is the lone guy who thinks he can win that always does win. Belief in ones self is the key ingredient to success. Always remember that attitude is contagious, so make sure she can't get enough of your zest for life, that playful vibe you exude and your overall “everything is always going to be great” attitude. Choose to win and sure enough, you will!

Switching your game up like this is important because it is the only way that you will be able to maintain your Power Pawn for the entire duration of the night. This unique form of gaming is what I like to call “See-Saw Game”.

See-Saw Gaming The idea behind See-Saw Gaming is actually quite simple: It's all about giving and then taking away. This is done by building her up with compliments, positive body language, massive kino and other forms of IOI's, then just as she begins to lose interest in you because that type of behavior is borderline AFC, you start hitting her with negs, avoiding her and using in-yourface IOD's (like pretending to try to get away when you see her coming). You then continue to repeat this process for the rest of the night, switching back and forth as needed. You bring her up and then put her down, hence the See-Saw concept. By using See-Saw game on your Power Pawn, you will be holding her interest and building attraction as well. This attraction is built at a relatively slow pace when compared to how it would be if she was your normal TOI, but that is fine because it is done over an extended period of time and will be quite high once you are finished. This steady increase of interest and attraction paired along with the mixed signals that you will be sending her is the prefect recipe for getting a woman to deliver numerous XIOI's to you.

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This barrage of XIOI's is the main purpose of your Power Pawn. See-Saw game works very well in this aspect because it is a highly advanced form of Push and Pull that prohibits the woman from ever feeling satisfied with her encounter with you. This results in her continuing to throw IOI's, SOI's and XIOI's in your direction in an attempt to make you more attracted to her so she can feel like she is “winning” the social battle. You should really take a break and do something other than reading for a change. What should you do, you say? I don't know, maybe meet some women or something... As a result of getting so many XIOI's from her all at once, your Power Pawn will be supplying you with a steady stream of social value for an extended period of time since others will be noticing her behavior. People are much more inclined to pay attention to what a beautiful woman is doing, that is why it is very important to only use HB's for this technique. The XIOI's will only grant you social proof when others see them happen, and the quality of your Power Pawn will always determine this because more eyes will be on a beautiful woman than on the rest of the crowd. Theoretically, any seduction technique that has an opposite counterpart can be used within See-Saw game, and balancing the use of these negative and positive aspects of the same tactics is the key to this strategy. For Example: SOD's/SOI's: Negs (negative) - Compliments (positive) Kino: Push her back (negative) - Touching her hair (positive) Body Language: Turning your back on her (negative) - Facing towards her (positive) IOD's/IOI's: Walking away (negative) - Approaching (positive) Shit Tests: Make her give you something (negative) - Holding her drink (positive) By far the most important thing to remember is that a Power Pawn needs to be See-Saw gamed, without this type of gaming she will be nothing more than a regular pawn because she will not last throughout the duration of the night. Power Pawns are all about endurance! The longer you can maintain their Power Pawn status, the more social value you can gain and the more sets you can open and close because of them. Warning: As stated earlier, this technique is highly advanced. It is arguably the most advanced of not only the material in this book, but in seduction in it's entirety. Top shelf women always come packaged along with elaborate shields and defensive maneuvers that most men are not accustomed to dealing with. They are also typically very stubborn and harder to control than other women. In order to manipulate women of this caliber and turn them into Power Pawns, your level of experience in the field should be very high and you should already be at the point where pulling 9's and 10's has become routine and easy for you to do. We highly recommend that only advanced PUA's use this technique.

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Stage 4 Techniques

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Stages 4 & 7

Isolation Reference Points (IRP's)

Fully isolating a woman from either her group or the current venue is undoubtedly one of the largest hurdles that a PUA can face during a set. Even though isolation can at times be a very grueling task to accomplish, it is not optional and in most cases it must be addressed before the seduction process can continue moving forward. Chances are, if you do not isolate your target during stage 7 of the WOW System, you will be stuck at a standstill and the set will begin to lose it's excitement at a rapid pace. Eventually your target will become bored with the interaction, resulting in the set ending prematurely because you could not isolate her and continue to escalate the situation. However, even though women really want to be isolated by men whom they are attracted to, their minds remain programmed to fight us off when we attempt to do so. This is not our fault, and is rather a result of outside influences having an affect on women and guiding their judgment. Nearly all women will be hesitant to allow your interaction with them to reach a highly physical or sexual level if their friends are still present or if they are in a very public setting.

Law of Outer Game: Stand Your Ground... When you test a woman (for example, a neg is a test), they will occasionally respond to your test with a test of their own, thus calling your bluff and challenging your alpha attitude to see if you will cave in. In this case the correct course of action is to continue the escalation trend by testing her yet again, whether it be with a neg, kino or just general teasing.

Nothing makes a woman's Anti-Slut Defense kick in faster than when they are put into a situation in which they believe others will think they are being too easy to get, and allowing you to kino them sexually and further seduce them is most This playful continuation of the interaction is a necessary definitely one of those situations. aspect of flirting. When one side fails to have a

"comeback", they lose the game. When the man loses, the interaction usually ends or will continue for a while but eventually lead to nowhere. When the woman loses, she becomes more attracted to the man since he has passed her "screening process" of tests, the man is then in control.

This is exactly why isolation is necessary, as isolation completely (or at least partially) removes these very annoying outside influences that can cloud your Always remember: Women are constantly testing you, target's judgment and make her work always keep this in your mind and you'll be able to against you. You want to make her feel recognize and pass the tests before it's too late! comfortable and worry-free. Basically, no isolation = no seduction, and no seduction = no F-Close. Not good.

With that in mind, you should make sure to have some type of isolation technique within your "bag of tricks" at all times. You're in luck, because in a moment you will be learning one of the greatest methods for isolating women ever designed, but first let's discuss what can happen when you try to isolate a woman by simply asking her to go somewhere else with you: No matter how good you get at isolating women, without a solid technique you will have to...

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Keep Your Fingers Crossed When you attempt to isolate a woman, you are in a sense "flipping a coin" and leaving the conclusion in the hands of fate. Actually, it's even worse than that, you are leaving it in the hands of the woman! This is because without first having some form of advanced isolation strategy to guarantee your success, the outcome is left entirely to chance and the ball is put into your target's court. When this happens, either one of three things can occur:

Full Isolation She may submit to being completely isolated and allow you to take her into an adjacent room, outside of the venue, to a more private venue or even back to your/her place. This is of course the best form of isolation and should be the main goal that you are trying to achieve.

Partial Isolation Your target may be comfortable with being isolated, but only slightly. When this happens you may be able to either separate her from her group by using your own body as a "wall" between them and her, take her across the room but still while keeping her group within her line of sight or even possibly bring her into another set or back to your own group. This type of isolation is far from being ideal, but it's still better than nothing.

Zero Isolation It is also possible that your target will not be comfortable with being isolated at all, in which case she will reject your attempt to isolate her and send you straight back to the drawing board (more accurately, back to stage 3). This is not at all the outcome that you would have hoped for, and since this option is always a possibility it would be wise to have an effective isolation technique at your disposal to ensure that you are never forced to take this route.

Check The References Now that you know what the possible outcomes are, you need to understand that with each and every woman that you game, any of the three above scenarios could possibly happen once you try to isolate her normally. If you simply use a normal isolation line such as "Hey let's go check out what is going on at the other club down the street,” you will be doing nothing more than flipping the isolation coin in the air hoping that it will land on either full or partial isolation. It could also end up not hitting the ground at all resulting in zero isolation, so in order for you to guarantee positive results you will need to put a technique such as Isolation Reference Points into effect. There are two major aspects to becoming a true PUA: Learning the material and using the material. Take a break from learning and go put some of this into action!

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Sticking to the coin analogy, Isolation Reference Points (IRP's) are like having a double-faced coin that allows you to "cheat" and secure a full isolation almost every time. They accomplish this because they validate your isolation attempt by methodically proving that you have a real reason for wanting to isolate them, rather than simply seeming like you want to get them alone. IRP's provide this legitimate proof by giving you a statement to refer back to when it is time to isolate your target, a statement that you will lay down long before it is time for isolation to occur. The mere fact that the statement is given beforehand is the reason why a full isolation will usually occur, because it effectively conceals your true motives. The IRP is your one-way ticket to isolation with your target. This is yet another example as to why Reference Points are so powerful that they should most definitely be incorporated into any aspiring PUA's game plan. Reference Points essentially allow your to create "evidence" out of thin air, then use that evidence to justify and legitimize your actions. This works because the Reference Point that has been laid down beforehand serves as proof that you have a real reason for asking her to do something. Unless your target has an IQ of 150+, chances are she will never be able to put two and two together and realize that your statements and actions were all part of a connected plan.

A Fork In The Road I've decided to reveal one of my personal favorite Isolation Reference Points to serve as an example and give you a general idea of how they work. I call this IRP the "Fork In The Road" because it can either lead you in one of two directions, and once you execute it the "road" that is taken generally is not chosen by you, but by your target. However, both of the possible options will ultimately lead you to the same conclusion, which is the full isolation of your target. This IRP is unique because of this, as it allows you to approach the solution to isolation from two different possible angles, increasing your chance of success. During stage 4 of the WOW system is when you will always make your initial IRP statement, this rule not only goes for this "Fork In The Road" example, but for all IRPs as well. The statement for this particular IRP should be something similar to "I want to show you something in a bit, remind me later and I'll show it to you". Once your statement has been laid down, the IRP technique will lay dormant for a while and you will then wait until stage 7 before you complete this strategy. By asking her to remind you later on, you are ensuring that either one of two different triggers will occur during stage 7 that will allow you to finish this technique and fully isolate your target. One of these triggers will be done by her, and the other will be done by you. However, you will only execute yours if she does not set off her trigger sometime during stage 7. These triggers serve as the Refer Back for this particular IRP.

Her Trigger Is: She will remember to remind you and will ask you to show her what you told her about earlier. By doing this she will essentially be asking you to isolate her and will allow it to happen

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because it will seem to be her idea, not to mention the fact that she will be intrigued and curious to find out what you are going to show her. Even if she doesn't know that you showing her will require her to leave her current setting she will still play along, because she has just asked you to show her and would feel silly declining once she finds out that she will need to leave. It puts her in a tight spot, either she goes with you or makes an ass out of herself. Most women would rather not look stupid. Note: If she tries to remind you before stage 7, simply tell her that it is not time yet and that she will need to wait a bit longer. This is also another opportunity to neg her slightly with a comment such as "Hold your horses cowgirl, you really have no patience at all do you?" Take advantage of that if it is possible.

Your Trigger Is: She forgets to remind you and stage 7 has been active for a fair amount of time. If this happens, you can easily resolve the problem by negging her with a statement such as "You forgot to remind me that I had something to show you silly, do you always have a hard time remembering things?" Doing this will immediately put her into an approval seeking state of mind, which will guarantee her participation when you immediately follow up with an isolation attempt in order to exploit this state that she is now in.

The Isolation After one of the two triggers has been set off, you are now free to isolate you target without worrying about failure since this IRP technique is so powerful that it almost ensures success. To isolate your target you must of course have something to actually show her, so be prepared for this beforehand and make sure that you have something that is genuinely interesting to show her or something fun for the two of you to do. If you don't, she will just assume that everything you said was simply a gimmick to get her alone, and she will be extremely hard to game from that point on. Your "secret thing" can really be anything, it's entirely up to you. It could be: a better bar/club than the one you found her in, something you have in your car, something you have in your house or even a secret that you want to tell her if you change the main IRP statement to something like "I have something secret to tell you, remind me later and I'll tell you,” then when it is time for isolation you can say "I'll tell you, but only somewhere private.” Mission accomplished.

Final Example I'm going to reveal yet another great IRP that I've used successfully numerous times. This example is much more simple than the other one described above, but is at times equally

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effective. However, the "Fork In The Road" has proven to still be the best choice in my own opinion, but some of you guys may like this one better. The first example works slightly better for me, but that in no way means that this one is not phenomenally effective as well. For this IRP, your stage 4 Reference Point should be similar to "I'm going to (insert any activity) in a little while,” and it should be followed by normal conversation that is not related to this statement in any way. This statement should be delivered as if it is a False Time Constraint, because that is basically what it will be until you refer back to it during stage 7. For the time being, you should allow this statement to serve as an FTC in order to increase the positive flow of the set and keep your target hooked in long enough for isolation to occur. The idea behind this IRP is to not initially invite her to come with you, instead you will simply make the statement that you will be doing something later and leave it at that for the time being. Later when you need to isolate her during stage 7, you can refer back to your original statement by saying "I'm about to go to (activity) in a minute, you coming?" The chances of her accepting this invitation are very high when you've used this IRP because it will appear as if you did not necessarily even want her tagging along when you first made your IRP statement. After all, you did not even invite her back then. Your target will assume that you must have changed your mind and decided to invite her at the last second, which will make it seem to her like you could really care less if she came or not and that you are more interested in having fun than you are in getting into her pants. Women like that kind of attitude and will typically always accept your invitation when you've used this IRP, resulting in an almost effortless full isolation.

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Stages 4 & 5

Reverse Storytelling This technique can be used during stage 4 or stage 5 (it can also be used to bridge stage 4 and stage 5) of the WOW System.

Introduction I was gaming one of my girls the other night when I realized that storytelling is a rather untapped area of seduction. Pick-up artists have always been telling stories, but the stories they tell only serve a limited purpose. As you already know, TIC is about evolving techniques and storytelling is definitely one of the most overdue for a major change. Why tell a story to only get some of it's full potential?

Law of Outer Game: Spring Training...

Why not use every technique you know to its maximum?

If you went to the batting cages but never even touched a baseball bat before, would you start out in the fastest cage?

With this Reverse Storytelling technique, you will be able to utilize stories to their If you get extremely nervous when talking to women, then full potential and reap the additional you shouldn't be trying to approach the type of hot women rewards of doing so. that you are attracted to, you need practice first. The best Some of the main staples of the WOW System include negging and generating interest, both of which are among the biggest things needed to create attraction. Storytelling has long been used in creating interest, therefore creating a piece of the attraction puzzle. What everyone has failed to realize is that storytelling can used for either negging, simple interest, or both!

way to practice is with women that you don't really like that much, because you won't care about the outcome and have much less reason to be nervous. If you like slim girls, then go practice gaming some big chicks. If you like pretty faces, then go practice on some women that have nice bodies but only average faces. Doing this will not only help you get used to talking to women in general and get rid of your nervousness, it will also give you some great experience in the field and an opportunity to test out (risk free) all of the cool PP techniques that you are learning.

By now, I’m sure you’re wondering how you can neg a girl by telling a story about yourself. Don’t waste much time on that thought, because it won’t be very easy or work very well. Instead, flip the script on them! Tell a story about a girl in your target’s group, or your target (depending on which stage you intend to use this technique in).

Enough About Me, Let’s Neg You! If you are planning to use this technique solely in stage 4, it should be a more neg related technique. Instead of telling a story about yourself (which would belong in stage 5), you will tell a story about a girl other than your target.

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This technique also works very well with the concept of the Robin Hood technique, since you are going to be telling a fun story about the least attractive girl in the group, while negging and showing disinterest towards your target. This gains the approval of the rest of the group while putting them in a fun mood, but more importantly works perfectly in creating the needed attraction in stage 4 through the use of negs toward the target.

Starting Line For stage 4 use, you already know that you have to tell a fun and interesting story about one of the unattractive girls in the group in order to properly “shut-out” your target. Obviously, you can’t just say, “here’s a funny story about you” to the girl you are going to be telling the story about, as that would make no sense at all. To properly begin this technique, start off by saying something along the lines of: “Don’t you hate it when people simply ask how your day was? That’s so boring, and everyone gets the same questions a million times every day. I’ve got a more fun way of doing this: Instead of asking how your day was, I’m going to make an educated guess and see how close I get.” Now, you will begin telling your story. There are a few guidelines to remember while telling the story, however: • Build your story around observations that you have made about the girl you are telling the story about. A random story isn’t as entertaining and doesn’t get nearly as positive results as a creative one that you have made based on her personality and activities. • Make the story build the girl you are telling it about up. It has to make her seem much more exciting, fun and in general better than your target girl. This will get her in a good mood and make the target jealous (in congruence with the Robin Hood technique). • Be sure to be exciting and use details in the story! If your story is boring you will get absolutely nowhere. Give your story more appeal by being enthusiastic. • While you are telling your story, be sure to include negs toward the target, as that is one of the main goals of this technique: to combine the interest and fun of storytelling with negging the target. The most effective manner of doing this is to include statements like this in your story, “After (ugly girl) finished her skydiving, since she’s so adventurous like that, she would have went to the spa to cool down a bit and relax. Now, if she wanted something boring to do, she could have just went to hang out with (target girl).” After including these negs, immediately continue on with the story; do not wait for her reaction. Doing so will only show her that you were negging her only to draw a reaction from her, which is not alpha and conveys interest and low status. • Extreme exaggeration is something that you can use, and actually works perfectly with this technique. The stories can be exaggerated so much as to almost give off a “Charlie’s Angels” vibe. For example, “Then after she hid her spy equipment in the secret compartment inside her makeup box, she threw on that sexy miniskirt, met up with you guys and here she stands.” Follow that up with a statement that provokes them to IOI you by complimenting on your creativity or fun attitude: "So, how far off was I?” (said sarcastically of course).

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The Fifth Amendment The beauty of this technique is that it can be flipped and used in stage 5 of the WOW also. However, when used in stage 5, this technique has an entirely different purpose and structure. Instead of building up another girl in the group and negging the target, this will be used in place of the storytelling in stage 5. The major difference in the stage 5 usage is that the story will be entirely about your target, but not in a positive way. The main twist in the technique is that there are two ways to use it during Stage 5: The first way is the easiest and is very effective, but can only be used if you also used this technique in stage 4 already. In this method, you actually won’t even be telling any story at all! You won’t be telling any story about your target, that is. Here is an example of how to use this: PUA: “Since we had so much fun with my story game, I think it’s time for a story about (insert target's name)” *Slight pause* PUA: “Actually, now that I think about it, it’d be more fun to tell a story about (insert a different ugly girl).” Then, turn your back slightly from your target, and proceed to tell the story exactly as you would in Stage 4, but without the verbal negs toward your target, as those stop in stage 5. Instead, you can use non-verbal cues to appear uninterested in your target.

Bridge the Gap Don’t worry, I haven’t forgotten about the second way to use this in stage 5. This technique can also be used as a bridge of sorts that you can use to cross between stages 4 and 5. Once you are almost finished with Stage 4, use the technique as described in the stage 4 method. As soon as you finish telling your story about one of the ugly girls in the group, transition into a story about your target. For example, “Wow! (ugly girl) sure had a fun day. Let’s see here, I bet (target girl) didn’t do anything like that today, unless sitting around and being boring counts as fun.” By doing this, you will close out stage 4 effectively and creates a bridge to stage 5, where you can cease the verbal negs toward your target and move on to the storytelling as described in the stage 5 method, with the nonverbal negs.

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potential in stages 4 and 5. If used as described, this will create tremendous interest and attraction with your target, and effectively kill two birds with one stone by including the negging in for an even more potent effect. The basic thing to remember is to always be fun and exciting with your stories, as this is the only way this technique will work. Also, remember to use verbal or nonverbal negs to their full potential while telling your stories depending on which stage you are in.

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Stage 4

Games

What comes to mind when you think of the cheerleaders who always used to have the powderpuff football games every year in a part of the High School homecoming festivities? The guys would always make fun of how badly the girls played and give them a hard time about it (which is actually good game), all the while capitalizing on the benefits of them playing the game (sweaty cheerleaders and bets with each other). The things that were fun in High School and that worked back then also work now too. Using a combination of challenging women to various “games” which involve heavy kino, you can engage in negging her, promote a fun atmosphere, show off your skills in a playful way, as well as raise the stakes of the interaction and also the sexual level with various bets you can place.

Two Birds, One Stone Two of the biggest staples and principles of the WOW System are negs and kino. The concepts of both negging and kino are most heavily incorporated into stage four of the WOW System. Using a new technique which involves playing “games” with your target while also negging her and making it fun at the same time (all without showing any attraction, merely interest), allows you to knock out two of the major stage four “birds” with one stone. Using humor is one of the most attractive things that a guy can do, along with being fun, but these things alone are a sure recipe for failure. Girls don’t want to be dating the clown, they instead want him around for their entertainment. On the other hand, if you become too uptight with negging and don’t have any fun with the girls, they won’t like you as much either. If you combine negs and humor, along with playful fun but don’t include any aspect of sexual attraction or escalation such as kino, you still won’t get very far. The WOW System itself was designed with this very concept in mind, and teaches you step-by-step what elements you must have in your interactions as well as when you should have them. One of the challenges that you may come across is that it would be rather convenient to be able to combine many of the things that you need to accomplish in a certain stage into one compact, useful technique.

Fun, Fun, Fun This is exactly where the “games” technique comes into play. Women are naturally drawn to a guy who involves them in physical interaction, especially if this is taken to a sexual level. Thus one of the main goals of the “games” technique is to take things to a more sexual level. There are many ways that the goal of a sexual escalation will be accomplished. The first is the kino that will be involved in the games. Kino is used very heavily in stage four, and with this technique, it will continue the use of kino in a way that will get the girl accustomed to your escalation of kino that is of a sexual nature. By having the use of kino in a less obvious way, the resistance from cock-blocks and DUFF’s will not kick in, as they will not even realize that you are beginning kino escalation with the target. Kino will be used abundantly with the

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“games” technique, as all of the games that you play with the girl will involve substantial physical interaction with your target. Once the games go on for a little while, they will also advance to a much more sexual nature, by touching places such as her face, hair, lower back, and stomach. This is necessary for the continuation of the interaction.

Law of Outer Game: The Power of Touch... By now you should already know about kino and how imperative it is if you want to achieve great success with beautiful women, however since it is such an important factor it must be addressed in the Laws of Outer Game. Kino is the art of touching someone else while flirting, and it creates comfort and attraction as well as conveys your sexual intent to your target. This is an important step in the game that must never be skipped during a set. During the entire course of your courtship and relationship with a woman kino should play a major role, and as you progress through your interaction with her the kino delivered (on both ends) should seem to be escalating naturally. For example, within the first few minutes of meeting a new woman you should initiate kino in a non-threatening manner by touching her forearm or shoulder, then progressively escalate to more intimate touching as she begins to become more comfortable with you. This escalation is necessary because in this manner foreplay and sex will gradually come into the picture and will be much less stressful because touching will be something that has been already going on.

Find Another Sport, Sugar The use of negs will also begin to be very prevalent in stage four of the WOW. One of the main requirements up to and continuing through stage four (which is the stage that this technique is best used in) is that you do not show any attraction towards your target. If used improperly, this technique could possibly convey attraction towards the TOI, which should be avoided. While using this technique, do not get too carried away with the playfulness and shower her with funny little comments. These must be included, but one of the main parts of stage four is showing that you are not attracted to her yet. By including steady negs about her performance (negs and playful teasing are in fact very different, and should both be used, with negs being used the most) you will continue to convey the absence of attraction.

Throwing in negs, besides keeping you from giving away attraction too soon, will also help you overall in stage four in amplifying her attraction for you. Don’t forget the negs! While negging her about her performance and physical abilities will be the main staple of your interactions in this technique, it is also important that you make the games fun for her and the rest of the group. Without making it fun, you will appear as trying too hard to get her into these games; the group will be much more inclined to cock block as they are not being entertained, and the TOI will still be interested in you, but the attraction will grow much faster and stronger with the fun and negging. Every girl likes a guy who is fun and who makes them laugh. Combine that with solid game, and you will be set every time. Tease her playfully about the way she does certain things, and use the Robin Hood Technique in including her other friends in the fun also. Pretty soon, everyone will be having fun, and your target will have built up immense attraction for you.

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Five Bucks on the Hot One… What fun is any kind of game without something riding on it? No fun at all! The “games” technique works in the exact same way. While you won’t be wagering money or betting on dog matches, you should still put stakes on the game. You should always place a playful bet on the outcome of the game that you choose to play with your target. For example, bet on who will pay when you two go out next week (great idea to secure a date) or bet that you tell her a secret if she wins (perfect opportunity to isolate your target) and that she will tell you a secret if you win. The possibilities are endless! To begin the “games” technique, you should start off by playfully suggesting that you and your target play a game. You may also include a neg or two in your challenge for good effect: PUA: “Everyone likes a strong guy, but I like it when girls are able to pull their on weight in strength too. It’s no fun to always have to be the Popeye in a relationship!” PUA: “Some of you look pretty strong! *Use of Robin Hood* I think Danielle (DUFF) could take you down, Julie (TOI). Actually, with those skinny arms I’m not sure how you even got the door to the club open Julie.” Julie: “I’m pretty strong, for your information!” PUA: “Let’s find out, I bet that I can beat you in a game of ________.” After you challenge her to the game, that is where you must include the stakes. Be sure that the stakes include some benefit for you, win or lose. Examples include the secret telling as mentioned earlier, her buying you lunch sometime next week, or even you getting her number if you feel you have gotten enough IOI’s to successfully close. Side note about the games that you choose: Any game that you can think of will do, there's only one rule to follow: it must involve kino! The kino should advance as you continue in stage four, so select things that involve touching of the face, hair, lower back, etc. if possible. Here are some suggestions for games: Hitting Contest: After you make a comment about her strength, ask her how hard she can hit. Make her hit you on your arm. After she does this, exaggerate the pain of her punch greatly: “Oh my God! You broke my arm! I can’t believe you, you little…” Then, act like you’re going to hit her back, and right before you hit her give her a playful slap on the arm or back (whichever you feel most comfortable with). Staring Contest: Challenge her to a contest of mental strength, since she is so weak physically, then lose on purpose. After losing, give an excuse that will neg her and then lead to further kino “I only lost because you have that thing in your hair that kept distracting me!” She will then ask “What thing?” and start messing with her hair. You can then “help” her get it off. After you do that, joke around by saying “I got it off for you, but now it’s on your face.” As soon as you use more kino on her face, you can turn the whole thing into an even most potent neg with a comment like “Oh wow, I guess that’s not going to come off.”

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Ticklish Challenge: After beating her at a more “physical” game, you can say “I read something interesting on the internet today, did you know that the people who are less strong are actually more ticklish? It has to do with the chemicals released by your muscles. I bet you’re ticklish as hell, Julie.” Once she denies this fact, follow up with something like “Some people are ticklish just on their face and hair! You say you’re not, but we’ll have to prove it!” After kinoing her face and hair for a bit and discovering that she is not in fact ticklish, tie it all together with a neg statement such as “My bad! They say it only works on the smart girls.”

Fourth Quarter Anything that involves kino with the girl is a great choice for a game to play. Make sure that you try to be creative with the stuff that you come up with. It can be anything, even fun games that you and your friends used to do as a kid. Use your imagination and you will be amazed with the positive results that you'll receive!

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Stages 4 & 5

The Flea Flicker

This is another great wingman-based technique that was developed by Paragon and myself in the field. In order to work properly, this tactic requires three things: - You must have a PUA wingman, no AFC's please. - You must be willing to let your target girl "go", if only for a minute. - You must have already generated some attraction with her.

The Flea Flicker Theory In football, the Flea Flicker is a play in which the quarterback hands off to the running back but then before crossing the line of scrimmage the RB pitches it back to the QB at the last second. This method of trickery usually catches the defense off-guard as they will be thinking it is a run play, which typically leaves the receivers wide open. The Flea Flicker seduction technique works in a similar fashion, as you will be "handing off" your target girl to your wingman, and then once she begins to think that you've lost interest in her your wing will pitch her right back to you. It is natural human behavior for a person to feel added attraction towards someone who at first seems interested, but then tries to blow them off as if they mean very little to them. The Flea Flicker allows you to use this knowledge to your advantage through a blatant display of disinterest. Using this technique on a woman is like saying to her "Ok, I tested you and I'm not sure if you are good enough for me, talk to my friend for a bit while I think about it.” This is a great attraction building technique and works well when combined with the Leech and even a points technique. Use this during stage 4 of the WOW system after you have already build the base foundation of attraction during stage 2 and have selected her as your primary target during stage 3.

The Flea Flicker In Action To put the Flea Flicker (FF) into effect you should have already progressed yourself to stage 4 and have your target locked in. You wing should also know who your target is, through either your use of Wing Signals or for obvious reasons. Before initiating the FF you should signal to your wing that you are about to do so, then immediately remove yourself from the set and pawn your target girl off on your wingman, stating that you will be back soon. This can be done many different ways, but for the sake of demonstration I will be showing you the method that we have found to be the most consistent. Here is how it works: You begin by demonstrating an increasing lack of interest in your target immediately after moving into stage 4 by the use of negative body language and a few negs or Leeches. After a few minutes of this you say (speaking to both your target and your wing, but while making eye contact with the girl) "I'm going to the bathroom, talk to (wing's name) for a while, he'll

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entertain you.” Now is where the magic happens: Make your way towards the bathroom, but before you get there open a Houdini Set (explained in detail elsewhere, but this is a fake set used only to create jealousy and display high value) with some new girls. Make sure to do this in plain sight of your real target, as you want her to see what you are doing. You can easily open the Houdini Set with a False Time Constraint like "I'm on my way to the bathroom, but I wanted to say, (insert opener).” Keep the Houdini open for no more than 5 minutes, then proceed to leave the new girls hanging by saying something that you or your wing can use to re-open the Houdini set later, like "You guys won't believe what happened to me and my friend last weekend, it's so funny, but I really have to go now, maybe I'll tell you all about it later.” You head into the bathroom. Meanwhile... Your wing will have been running some game of his own on your target. However it will not be for his own benefit, but for yours. This is all a part of the plan, and your wing will either be telling your target some value building facts about you or using a storytelling technique that will indirectly convey some attractive qualities about you to your target. This entire process will make your target find you to be twice as attractive as before you left the set. You wing must also be watching your target to make sure that she notices you talking to the other girls instead of using the bathroom like you were supposed to, because if she doesn't the Houdini set would be pointless (unless there's a 10 in it). If your target has not seen you, your wing should help her notice by saying something like "Look, he's not even in the bathroom yet!" then reassure that you actually are going to come back by saying something such as "I thought I saw those girls call him over, maybe they just recognized him or something" which is a value building comment all in itself. After you are done in the bathroom, walk right past your Houdini set with nothing more than a smile or a wave, or you can stay something simple like "Talk to you guys later.” When you get back to your original set with your wing and target, act as if the Houdini set never even happened. If she asks about it say something casual that doesn't really answer her question, such as "Oh them? Those girls are so silly" while looking over at them and smiling. You can also wave at your Houdini girls at this time in a fashion that will call them to you, but only if your goal is to merge the two sets. Next your wing will "give back" your target by either removing himself from the set for a while or focusing on his own target if he has one. Viola! Instant attraction. Plus now you have an alternative set for you and your wing to switch to if you lose interest in your initial target or fancy one of the Houdini girls more. Your wing can even head over to the Houdini set himself at this time with a simple statement like "Hey I'm (your name)'s friend, he said you guys are cool and wanted to hear about what happened to us last weekend..." A soothing voice says: You are getting very, very sleepy. You are at ease. The next time you read the word “go” you will go out and meet women, feeling refreshed. GO!

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Stage 5 Techniques

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Stage 5

Manufactured Mystique

During stage 5 of the WOW System, one of the things that you should be doing is creating mystique towards yourself. Women love men of mystique, it’s just that simple. When most men talk to women, they give everything away as soon as the woman shows the slightest hint of interest, which is a major attraction and interest killer, as well as a sure sign that they are definitely not used to receiving attention from the opposite sex. This is the total opposite of being mysterious. Mystique is sometimes a hit or miss game for some men. In certain situations, like when the woman asks specific questions about a man, he can throw in a little teasing and generate additional mystique instead of answering her question and losing mystique. This in turn generates interest, and should never be left up to what the woman may say in the interaction. True PUA's can take any situation that they are faced with and achieve the intended results. Generating mystique is actually not as hard as many make it out to be, all you need is a plan.

Plan for the Future One of the best qualities that a successful PUA can possess is the ability to think ahead and set into motion a sequence of events that will always lead down the path to success. Flying by the seat of your pants will get you absolutely nowhere, whereas having the ability to see the big picture of what you are doing will always allow you to accomplish your goals. The WOW System has been specifically designed to allow you to have a set plan for creating results with women every time. There are many things that the WOW allows you to do, but like anything that is part of a big picture, it has to be broken down into each step in order to work. In stage 5 of the WOW, the main objective is to reinforce the interest that you have already generated. With every move that you make, you will either root the interest further or you will take steps to lose all of the progress you've already made. The farther along you get in the WOW, the more your actions are amplified. This is especially true in the Interest Reinforcement stage.

Versatility... I have men tell me all the time, "I went into a set with a game plan, and I followed it to perfection. What could have gone wrong?" If you have ever experienced this scenario, your problem is that you weren't versatile. There is not one magic technique that will get every woman on the planet to fall in love with you. If there was, everyone would be using it. The key is to be versatile. Being versatile means to be capable of doing many things competently. This relates to social situations especially when it comes to reading your target. I am by no means saying you should go into an interaction with no idea what you are going to do. You should have some sort of a game plan, but you need to be able to make some changes on the fly. Take a look at Peyton Manning, for example. He is a great quarterback because he can quickly recognize what is in front of him and make changes accordingly. A person with one routine or style is like a computer with only one program. It may work for you sometimes, but what happens when you need to do something different? Keep this in mind when entering a social situation and be prepared to adjust and go with the flow.

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If you fail to anchor your target’s interest in you, it will sink like a rock. On the other hand, if you continue to take steps in the right direction and generate more interest, it will snowball in your favor. Some of the main ways to anchor this interest and build it to even greater heights is through storytelling, unpredictability, and being a man of mystique. Side-Note: Don’t lose sight of the rest of stage 5 and forget that you must build your disinterest towards your target to a climax up to stage 6, as well as discontinue the use of all verbal neg techniques. Stage 5 is a very important stage within the system!

Wing It The “Manufactured Mystique” technique ensures that you will always be a man of mystique, and it also incorporates storytelling into this, effectively accomplishing two things at once. Talk about getting bang for your buck! With “Manufactured Mystique” there will be no doubt that you will be in the situation to create mystique, as you are the one that is putting you in the position, not the woman! “Manufactured Mystique” requires only two very simple ingredients: a wingman and a creative story. As stated above, the ability to think ahead is what has spawned the “Manufactured Mystique” technique. You will be using your wingman to simply initiate a series of events, and then you will maintain the mystique that will be created through the use of some fun and creative storytelling, all the while denying the target's plea to know the real deal. When you begin “Manufactured Mystique” it is essential to use a wingman to jump-start the series. You can either have one already in the set, or you can have one come into the set and run the technique when you get ready for it. Your wingman will make a statement that will provoke curiosity and a sure question from the girls within your set.

Scars Wing: “Hey man, did that scar on your arm ever go away?” If you actually have a scar or anything on your body, you can put it to use now! Don’t go cutting yourself or anything crazy if you don’t. Instead, you can always modify it to “Wow dude! That scar on your leg finally went away. You’re crazy dude!” PUA: *If you have a scar, point to it* “Nah, she’s still there! Talk about a battle scar!” Wing: “You’re so crazy dude; you’ve got more balls than me. I remember it like it was yesterday.” By now, the target will be about to burst with curiosity and interest. If you have completed the previous stages of the WOW successfully, she will surely ask about what happened to you that gave you the scar. If she does, it is time to proceed to the real fun! If she is trying to play it cool and not say anything though, your wing can always give her a

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nudge in the right direction. Wing: “Yeah, has he told you guys about how he got that sucker yet?” HB: “No, he hasn’t said anything.” Wing: “Tell them dude!” PUA: “Nah, I don’t know if they could handle it. It’s no biggie anyway.” Wing: “Oh, come on man!” HB: “Tell us! I want to know now.” PUA: *To HB* “Why do you want to know so badly?” HB: “I just do! Come on!” PUA: *To DUFF and the rest of her friends* “Damn, is she always this bossy?” PUA: “It’s really no big deal, but if you insist…”

Twirl the String Now is where the real fun comes into play. The mystique towards you has already been built up to a high amount. The TOI is wondering what kind of adventurous thing you must have done to get that scar, and also why you don’t want to share the story of how it happened. Don’t let her get that satisfaction of knowing! String her along like a cat and watch the interest and mystique towards you grow exponentially. This is where you will begin your storytelling. While you are telling the story of how you got the scar, there are some things that you must remember: It has to be obvious that you’re not being serious. Extreme, funny exaggerations are an absolute must. Also, the story has to be interesting and playful. This is the perfect chance to show off your storytelling skills. To top it off even more, you can incorporate some elements of other techniques in the story that you tell by including her friends in the story and building value for yourself through the extreme exaggerations. This not only appeases the friends and gains their acceptance, but also by not including the target it works perfectly with the climax of disinterest that you are building towards your target by the end of this stage. Here are some examples of how you can tell the story: PUA: “Well then, since you have to know, I think it was four years ago. Me, DUFF One,

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DUFF Two and Annoying Guy Next to Me were having a crazy fun time at this party in Paris. While DUFF One and DUFF Two were off saving the world, Mission Impossible style, Annoying Guy Next to Me decided to have some real fun. He got on the elevator, went to the top, and jumped off the Eiffel Tower! Since we were all having fun and everything, I took it up a notch and climbed the tower then jumped off. I scraped my elbow on one of the beams on the way up, and it never quite healed on me.” HB: “Haha! But for real, how did you get the scar?” The mystique is building, you can tell, but don’t let her off this easy: PUA: “Ok, I’ll stop joking around now. DUFF One, DUFF Two, and Annoying Guy Next to Me were filming the biggest movie of the century, and they needed a guy to do some stunts for the big blockbuster's final scene. I jumped out of a moving truck and saved a little child from a fire. There was a piece of metal in the chair I sat in though, and I got a major cut on my ass. Good things come in twos, so I decided to make a matching one on my arm.” HB: “You’re crazy! Come on though, how did you really get it?” You can either tell another story for more effect, or just conclude now: PUA: “Heck, I just told you twice! You’re not very trusting, are you?” By now, everyone in the set is laughing and having a great time! Your TOI will be absolutely clinging on every word you say from now on, and you now have her full acceptance, as well as a great shroud of mystique. She still doesn’t have a clue how you got the scar, and you will now have her in the perfect position to move on to Stage 6.

Mystique, in a Bottle! There you go! Why bother with silly little teasing comments and sheer luck when a girl asks you where you work in order to create mystique and interest?! With “Manufactured Mystique,” you can always have the target drooling over every word you say, as well as successfully complete many of the goals in stage 5 of the WOW System. Have some fun with this one, but don’t let her in on the party! I met this guy named Brian who knew everything about seduction, but still never got laid. This was because Brian knew everything, but did nothing. Don't be like Brian.

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Stage 5

Prop, Lock and Drop it

Can you think of the last time that you intentionally removed yourself from a set of girls that you were interested in? Chances are, just the thought of removing yourself from a set that includes your target has never even crossed your mind once. Contrary to what you might think, removing yourself from a set can become a very valuable tool used by a master pick up artist. The goal of this action is to receive an Extreme Indicator of Interest, an XIOI. Regular indicators of interest are essential in the early stages of the pick up, but once you reach stage 5 of the WOW system, the time has come to crank it up a notch. One of the main goals of this stage is to receive an XIOI from your target. In short, an XIOI is like an IOI on steroids. After you remove yourself from the set, if she approaches you and reinitiates the interaction, that is the XIOI that you were looking for.

The Chase is On During the course of a pick up, the proper mindset is one in which the PUA views himself as the prize. This attitude of being the prize conveys status and makes the woman feel as though she is fighting for your affection. This turning of the tables is a large breakthrough in the interactions. Without a doubt, the best way to turn the tables and make yourself the prize is by enticing your target to give you the ultimate of interest indicators, an XIOI.

Remove Chance from the Equation In order to receive a typical XIOI, the PUA must at some point or another distance himself from the set. This step is always a risky one to some extent. By leaving the set, you will temporarily be giving your control to the target, who must make the next move or else the interaction could be over for good. Those days of risk are now over. With this stage 5 technique, you can completely remove chance from the equation and be assured that you will receive that ever important XIOI.

The Prop and Lock By stage 5 of the WOW, all verbal negs have stopped, and physical actions become much more important. To be sure that you will receive an XIOI when you eject from the set, a physical bond must begin. During the middle of the conversation, you must lock in your target with what is known as a "lock in prop". For example, placing your hat on your target's head, or putting your sunglasses on your target are simple but effective ways to lock her in. There are truly endless possibilities for lock in props. Some general props could include necklaces, any jewelry, clothing articles, cell phones, car keys, cameras or even pictures.

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Anything that has some value to you will work as a lock in prop. Just don't use your credit card or wallet as a lock in prop, never give a woman your credit card. Once you have successfully given your prop to the target, she is right where you want her.

Drop It Shortly after your target has been locked in, you can remove yourself from the set. Again, there are many different ways to eject from the set. Fake a cell phone call, greet a friend who just arrived, or even just leave the group to socialize with others. The key aspect of the removal from the set is to stay away from your target, and under no circumstances should you be the first one to re-initiate the interaction. If you did that you would essentially be giving her an XIOI, thus demolishing any status that you have built up during the set.

Sit Back and Let the Magic Happen The brunt of the work for this technique is already accomplished. The only thing left to do is sit back and wait. Shortly after you leave the set, your target will realize that she is still holding one of your important items, (the lock in prop) and she will then be compelled to return it to you. She will most likely want to talk to you some more anyway, but this prop of yours guarantees that she will because it gives her an excuse to reopen the set with you. Not only will this excuse work in her own mind, but it will also give her a genuine excuse to tell her friends if she needs to avoid looking needy or slutty.

Lord of Drama... What has drama got to do with attracting women? I'd say a lot more than you think! Why? Well, because there is nothing that women hate than being bored. Women get intolerant and negative because they've grown used to guys saying the same lame pick up lines and even worse: creepy one liners packaged with sexual innuendos. This results in them becoming bored with dealing with men in general, not just sick of the lines. Drama can bring a boring situation to life. It emits energy and with energy comes positive feelings. So next time when you feel the interaction is getting a bit boring, be original. Be dramatic and entertaining. Remember, you're saving her from boredom, you are being different. Note: You don't need to be a drama king but be on the lively side. Be unpredictable and fun.

No matter how long it takes, do not be Be the Lord of Drama! the one who makes the move. That is the most important thing to remember. In order for this technique to work properly, you must be patient and trust that she will reopen the set for you. Remain patient, and before long she will be the one chasing you.

Wingman Variation This technique can also be expanded and used as a very effective wingman routine. Once you have locked in your target, your wing will swoop in and pull you out of the set (for a detailed

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explanation of how this can be done properly, refer to the Hybrid Passive Openers technique). The benefits of your wing pulling you from the set are that you will be viewed as if you are in high demand, resulting in your social value being significantly raised. Be sure to communicate some sort of signal to your wing to let him or her know that it is time to eject from the set (check out the Wing Signals section of this book for ideas).

It's a Guarantee By using a lock in prop and then ejecting from the set, all of the risk in trying to receive an XIOI is basically eliminated. This surefire technique is a very strong asset to any PUA when used at the right time and place. If used correctly, once the target reopens the set, the PUA will often be able to move directly into stage 6 of the WOW. Most things that sound too good to be true end up being wrong. This is one of the rare techniques that actually performs as well and as easily as it sounds. When you have this guaranteed XIOI in your repertoire, be sure to take advantage of it.

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Stage 5

Social Banishment This is a sleeved technique that purposely makes a snobby/egotistical woman feel inferior to you, putting her in a position that allows you to game her the same way that you would any other woman.

Familiar Feelings Can you recall a time in the past when you were either in a set with or near a group of women that were whispering and giggling, which made you feel very uneasy and uncomfortable? It's alright to admit it, we've all been there. It's natural human behavior in those situations to ask ourselves “are they talking about me?” and “are they saying good or bad things about me?” This is something that we all do subconsciously and it can not be controlled. Now that I have you reflecting, try to remember how that made you feel. Did you feel inferior, uncomfortable and less confident than before? Of course you did, because that is another thing that you can not really control, however it is perfectly natural and there is nothing wrong with feeling that way. You felt those range of emotions because your basic human need to be accepted socially was being challenged, and the idea of not being “in the loop” is very undesirable to most people, yourself included. When this happens to someone, they will often go to great lengths to: 1) Find out what the others were talking about. 2) Redeem themselves and reclaim their position in the group. 3) Prove their social standing to the others in the group. 4) Impress the person in the group that they are most attracted to.

Payback Now being the experienced PUA that you are, how can you use this knowledge to your advantage in the field? Easy! You can purposely do it to women in order to get them in a mind state that will have them striving to prove their worth to you and qualify themselves in your eyes! Women have been doing this to us purposely since grade school, I think it's time for them to get a magnified dose of their own medicine, don't you agree? By doing this to a woman that is your target you will immediately knock her down off of any pedestal that she is accustomed to being on and will have her in a vulnerable state. That is good because she will never test you, will put in an extra effort to qualify herself to you and will be in a position where she views you as being of higher social value than herself. You'll have her right where you want her.

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You're Not Cool Like Us This technique obviously will require you to either have a wingman, a pawn or a pivot by your side, because whispering to yourself obviously isn't normal behavior. Once you have mastered this technique you can even use her own friends in the group to pull it off, which is even more effective than any other method because those are her friends. In her mind you will appear to be stealing them and using them against her, which amplifies the effects of this technique. Women are very jealous and emotional creatures by nature, especially when in a social setting with a group of their friends and/or potential sexual partners. Remember the way you felt left out and uncomfortable when some chicks pulled this technique on you? Imagine those feelings being ten times stronger as well as being accompanied by 5-10 other undesirable emotions. That is how a woman will feel when you do this to them. When it happens to a man the worst thing he will feel like is a loser, but a woman will feel as if the sky is falling and the world around them is about to implode, destroying everything they know and love.

The Game is Within You... Sometimes, you are just on! Everyone has those times where they feel like they are on top of the world and everyone in it loves them. There are times where everything you say is hilarious and witty, and you feel like you could take on anything. When it happens, you can feel it; you always know when it is occurring. However, that’s all that most people really understand about this “on top of the world” feeling. Things don’t go well for you because of anything special about the time, things go well because you have a rush of confidence and you’re having fun. Usually this feeling occurs because something does well; a girl compliments you, or you succeed at something in front of your friends. Then it all begins to build and you ride the wave of positive momentum until you’re the center of attention and life of the party! There is nothing special about what you’re doing, except that now you believe in yourself and are just focused on having a good time. Once you realize how simple it is to get into that state by yourself and that you don’t need anything else to show you who amazing you are, you will be able to turn on the charm and fun at any moment!

Sounds a little harsh and improper to make a woman feel like her world is about to end, doesn't it? Well, it's not as bad as you think because in the end you are only going to reassure her that she isn't out of the social loop and you really do think she is “cool”. You'll do that by letting her come home with you at the end of the night, of course.

We Gave it a Makeover You didn't actually expect The Inner Circle to tell you to just whisper to your friend and giggle, did you? Leave that for the women to do. You are going to be using our much more potent, evolved version of this age old technique. Our personal spin on this method is specifically tailored for the purpose of increasing your chances of successfully closing the woman that you use it on and allow you to game her on a much more level playing field. The idea behind this technique is to immediately make your

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target feel inferior to some or all of the other members in the group, then knock her down even further when she finds out what the “big secret” is. This puts her into extreme approval seeking mode because she will feel like an outcast that has been socially banished. It is very easy to game women after you have done this, and closing is usually a piece of cake once their ego has been so rattled.

Down and Dirty So what is this explosive new element that we've added to this technique in order to increase it's potency? It's quite simple actually, we used a neg. By throwing a delayed neg into the mix, you will essentially be “kicking her while she's down” which increases the effectiveness of this tactic. It also prolongs the effects by confirming her fears that were initially spawned when she first became aware that you guys may have been “talking smack” about her, which happens as soon as the third party tells her what your secretive comment was. Here is an example of how this can be done, from start to finish:

Step 1: Make sure that your target is facing you, if she is not then you must do something that will grab her attention and make her face your direction. This is important because the entire technique is ruined if she does not notice what you do during the next step.

Step 2: Tap your third party person either on the arm or the shoulder to get their attention, then signal them with your finger in a manner that will tell them to come closer because you want to tell them something. Then begin to whisper the neg in their ear and tell them not to tell your target what you said until you ask them to. Make direct eye contact with your target while you are whispering to your third party, this is important because it will automatically give her the impression that you are talking about her. Seconds later she will be absolutely positive that you are talking about her because your third party will also look up at her as you begin to speak, it's a natural human reaction that can not be navigated around without being previously prepared for it. For this example we will pretend that your third party is her DUFF friend, and you'll say “Does she always think that she's so much better than everyone else? She acts like a princess or something, but I bet a frog wouldn't even kiss her! Don't tell her that I said that until I say it's alright, it's our little secret for now.” Try to add a splash of humor into the neg that you use, because when you can get your third party to genuinely laugh while you are whispering this technique becomes all the more powerful and your target will become even more intrigued and frustrated.

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Step 3: Wait for a while to let your target ponder what you could have said about her. This step is the most important because it is during this time that all of the negative feelings will be building up within her. While she is in this state of emotional turmoil, you should be going about your usual business as if nothing happened: be social, smile, talk to her friends and entertain them. However, there are two things that you should never do during this step: Never talk to your target directly because you need to allow her mind to come to it's own conclusions at this point without your influence, and never leave the set because you don't want to allow her the opportunity to woo your third party into revealing your secret neg in your absence. It must be revealed with you standing right there, if she learns of it while you are away you will always get a “So you don't have the balls to say something to my face” comment upon your return. I don't care if you need to piss like a race horse, do not leave the group!

Step 4: After a fair amount of time passes (at least 5-10 minutes) you should initiate the end of this technique. It encompasses two parts: The setup and the revealing. The Setup: This is something that you will say in order to prepare your target for the neg. You should say something that will get your target to act like or say something that will confirm your neg to be true. For example, for the neg that we used above I would say something to my target such as “See that guy over there (pointing to an obvious AFC), he looks like your type, why don't you go talk to him?” This would easily get any conceited woman to strike back with a comment related to how she is too good for him, which sets her up for the neg. The Revealing: I would then turn to my third party and say, “See, I told you so, go ahead and tell her what I said earlier.” The third party would then tell my target what the neg was, and since I just made my target display that behavior beforehand, it will hit home, and hit hard.

Step 5: The final step is where everything starts working in your favor. Now that you have revealed the neg to your target and even made her prove it to be true before she knew what it was, she will be working overtime to change your (and everyone else's) mind to show you that she really isn't like that. For this example she will be trying to show that she really doesn't think that she is better than others, especially men. This will make her more inclined to respond positively to men whom she would normally not give the time of day because she thinks that she is too good for everyone. Since you are right there in front of her and are the one who's mind she is trying to change in the first place, she'll naturally start with you and will accept just about all of your advances from then on. Clever isn't it?

Final Notes Do not attempt to use the Leech with this technique, as that is only meant to be given directly

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by you to your target. Including a positive comment about yourself to a third party will seem to be improper and unnecessary if it's not your own wingman, and it will most likely get lost in translation anyway. The only time you should use a Leech during this technique is when you are working with a wingman that you can trust to deliver the message in a way that will seem natural and not appear to be bragging. Remember this: You never know how the third party will relay your message, they may choose to word it completely differently than the way you meant it to be said and it's meaning can become misinterpreted by your target. Make sure to keep your neg as simple as possible to reduce the chance of this happening. Regardless, the overall purpose of this is to lower your target's social value and create negative emotions on her part, not to raise your own value. If you use a Leech, in most cases it will result in overkill and you will look like a complete jerk (not in a good way), so I highly recommend sticking with a traditional neg unless you are in a unique situation in which a Leech will prove to be more beneficial.

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Stage 5

Fairy Princess Tele-Tease Introduction

You met her at a club. It started with a great opener, a coy smile, some flirtatious audacity and of course you teased her senseless. This culminated in a number close and an impromptu make out session on the dance floor. Unfortunately it is now 4am and she needs to be at work at 8am, so the visions of two naked bodies entwined on your (newly installed) mirrored ceiling are out of the question. However all is not lost, for with digits in hand, you've managed to pick up the hottest girl you have seen there in months.

Tele-Trauma On the fourth day you give her a call looking to finalize a get-together, and continue where you left off. Thoughts of her are racing through your mind as you picture her naked in your shower, and just about everywhere else you can imagine. The phone rings and that sudden automated voice message ensues, requesting that you leave a message. Fortunately you used block caller ID when you first dialed, so she is unaware of who is calling. The above scenario leaves you with a few options that can work exceptionally well. Here is one of my favorite proactive approaches to bridging this gap, so that the naked silhouettes can be that much closer to fruition.

The Plot This technique I use to establish test 3 of The Challenge so it fits nicely with stage 5 of the WOW when you can story tell and hook them. I start by leaving a message, not an ordinary one, but a fairy tale message. What does every fairy tale have? A Princess of course. Guess who your target will identify with in this Tele Tale? Of course we will use this to our benefit in our opposite tale. You have approximately 1 minute to tell this story, so off you go.

The Rising Action Once upon a time there was a beautiful Princess who lived in a far away land. She was entrapped by a dark knight who coveted her as his bride. With no one strong enough to defeat him nearby, her father sent for a gallant Prince from the Land of Green to come and

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free his imprisoned daughter. In marched the Green Prince and after a fierce battle that saw him vanquish the dark knight, he climbed the steps to the tower to free the beautiful princess. He picked up the stunning, hazel eyed brunette princess and whisked her down the stairs to freedom. The End

The Climax As told to your blue eyed blond target! I would leave my name at the start of the message, so that you set up the cliff hanger at the end, as it is more explosive that way. This is a great way to demonstrate Test 3: The Challenge, and will motivate her to pick up your call when you dial next.

The Tele-Tease Revealed I have used this technique to great success with HB 9 and 10’s, as they buy in completely with the Princess Tale, and think you are AFC with your tale (although a creative one). Then the twisting punch line hits them and they are infuriated by the opposite. This creates a mind puzzle and has them entertained for days thinking of you. As your relations continue you can alternate little tales on her machine from nice ones that please her to ones that mind puzzle her. Granted, this should not be your only form of communication with her, as it would be creepy to leave a bunch of strange messages for her without having any real contact with her in between. Use wisely.

Be a Model... Just like a model on a runway in Milan who models success, attitude, allure and the challenge, you too should be a model. Now I don't mean for you to take lessons, get a portfolio and join an agency, what I am referring to is visualizing your success. Think in your minds eye how you would act if you had already achieved the success, then model it in the present. You should be a model of success in person so that your results will gravitate to the positive sphere. Would you trust the shady looking character on the corner with your money, then why do you expect women to trust you with their passion and happiness. If you look closely at yourself you will be able to see exactly where you are going wrong. If you have any video of yourself, take a close look to see if you are modeling success, then change whatever needs to be improved. Now what would the successful you do? If you have to visualize others who are successful to start, that is fine but bring the new you in as soon as you have achieved success.

The Grand Conclusion That is how you turn the Fairy Princess into an addict. Use at your own risk.

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You can also identify commonalities with the hero prince and yourself, as well as similarities with her and the princess to add even more pop to the punch line. Come up with your own unique tales and mind puzzles. Just remember, the opposite in the punch line is the only important factor that will guarantee success!

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Stage 5

Blind-Sided Takeaway

In the sport of American football, the quarterback is “blind-sided” when he is hit very hard by an opposing player that he did not see coming. This technique is called the Blind-Sided Takeaway because it hits your TOI like a ton of bricks, and it effectively takes you away from the set and her for a short period of time, with its consequences being far more powerful than you simply being gone for a little while. While extracting yourself from the set you create the impression of disinterest towards the target, but that is not the real punch of this technique. The blind-side hit of this technique is when you isolate a girl other than your TOI and take her to do something that your target had planned to do with you. This will make her think that you like her friend more than her, following with the theme of disinterest, and create extreme jealousy and a challenge when she sees this happening. This will make your re-entrance to the Trust Stage (stage 6) that much easier, since she will already have a very high interest level for you. What kind of man would leave her for her ugly friend? She will wonder what she’s missing and have a high interest level because you'll be utilizing unpredictability. You will have reached the goal of having your target's undivided interest and acceptance when you return to the set.

He’s MINE This technique works best when used in the middle to late points of stage 5. If you have already been working in the Interest II stage, you will have accomplished some of the reinforcement of the interest that you have generated in the Interest I stage. Using this technique in the mid-point of the Interest II stage ensures that her interest for you has already been anchored, and that she will be concerned and upset that you are isolating another girl instead of her. If this technique is used when you have not properly completed the previous attraction and interest stages of the WOW, it will have no effect at all since the entire goal of this technique is to make her crazy about you, and even more interested. If she didn’t care in the first place, it wouldn’t hurt to lose you and she wouldn’t be threatened when the prospect of that showed up.

High School Never Ends Back when you were in high school, I’m sure that you have all had a girl that you liked a lot. Actually, I’m quite certain that liking her “a lot” does not even begin to do it justice. There was that girl that you pined over for constant hours of the day and night, the girl that you would do anything in this world to get, but for some reason she just wasn’t into you! The reason that she wasn’t into you is obvious, but that’s not the point of this story. You still tried and tried to get her, but to no avail. She showed absolutely no interest in you, but you were still convinced that if you just asked her out that she will finally come around, see how much she means to you,

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and then date you. Having convinced yourself that there is a chance that she will say yes, you finally got the courage to ask her out. She says no, but that’s not what hurts you the most. Her reason for not going out with you is that she likes someone else instead, and that someone just happens to be your best friend. It’s a situation that has happened to countless guys all over the world, and is still just as painful each time it happens. It absolutely infuriates you, and makes you want the girl so much more than you even wanted her before, simply because you wonder what he has that you don’t have. It’s also a proven and well-known fact that you want what you can’t have, and don't want what is easily accessible to you. This analogy will help you understand exactly how the Blind-Sided Takeaway technique works. When you couldn’t get the girl and your friend was getting her instead, it drove you absolutely insane! It was all that occupied your mind, and you were totally obsessed with this girl now, even much more so than you already were before.

Act Like You've Been There Before... In sports, coaches always tell their players to “Act like you’ve been there before” after they score or win a big game. In other words, they don’t want their players running around like idiots when they win because it makes them look like they’re not accustomed to winning. Does Tiger Woods come unglued every time he wins a golf tournament? No, because he is so used to winning that it doesn’t come as any shock to him. In fact, he sees it as routine business. The same holds true when it comes to pick-up. Never be the guy who runs to his friends with an ear-to-ear grin and starts high-fiving them after getting a number. When the woman sees this, she’s no doubt going to wonder what kind of a man she just gave her number to. Success should be common for you, and if you’re a man who is good with women, getting a number shouldn’t generate the same reaction as winning the lottery. Don’t be the player that breaks a bone while celebrating; be the winner who continues to the next game, always focused on the task at hand!

When you plant the seeds of attraction and interest with your TOI, she will want to win your approval and be the girl that goes home with you. By stage 5, she will already have feelings of attraction and interest, and you will be further anchoring those feelings of interest in stage 5, along with the use of this technique. When you choose to isolate another girl and do something alone with her instead of with your TOI, it will make you exponentially more interesting to her, with her just having to know what the “it” is about you that drives her insane, and why she apparently can’t have it. When you isolate the other girl, it literally blind-sides her and drives her up a wall. You will now have her on such an unbelievably big hook and wanting you so badly it's not even funny.

Green with Envy Jealousy is the main thing that propels this technique and makes it so very potent. Women are very emotional creatures, and jealousy is one of the most powerful emotions that exist. Jealousy causes her to become that much more interested in you when she sees that you are in-fact “choosing” her friend over her. With an effect similar to catnip on steroids, she will literally be doing anything for your attention and approval, especially if the feelings of attraction and interest were strong before. Take those, and multiply them by twenty times to

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get a feel of how much of an effect that jealousy and her wondering why she isn’t good enough and has to work will have. Part of why this works so well is because many of the hottest women are used to getting everything they want in life. With you actually being a challenge and not going crazy over her like every other guy she's met, it will only amplify this jealousy and interest that much more. Since this could be classified as a “sleeved” technique, and the knowledge of what this technique accomplishes, makes it a perfect candidate to use when you need that “push” over the edge in driving her mad about you and creating additional interest. This technique will be a great addition if you are planning to make a “sneaky” WOW style.

WARNING! It is almost time to finally learn about exactly how you initiate the Blind-Sided Takeaway and execute it properly, but first you must know of a potential situation that you must avoid. It goes like this: You run the Blind-Sided Takeaway technique, but during the isolation between you and one of your target's ugly friends, the ugly girl becomes attracted to you because you were obviously not thinking and gave her the wrong impression by mistake. When you re-enter the set, your TOI will be all over you, but the DUFF will cock block if you have given her a reason to be attracted to you. When you isolate the DUFF, make sure that you give her no reason to be attracted to you at all, and make the reason for isolation very neutral so that once you get there she will not get any sort of wrong ideas about anything. More examples will be given later on how to choose the isolation situation wisely to avoid this major pitfall.

Down, Set, GO At last, the time is here! Now you will learn exactly how to use the Blind-Sided Takeaway technique smoothly and effectively every time. To begin the use of the Blind-Sided Takeaway, you must first plant a seed earlier in the set that you can refer back to later in order to isolate one of your TOI’s DUFFs. If you've already learned the Isolation Refer Back technique that is also in this book, then it would be wise to note that this part of the Blind-Sided Takeaway works in a similar fashion. The seed that you plant must also set the stage for a seemingly neutral location that sounds fun to the entire group. You don’t want to take the DUFF to the dark corner and cuddle, unless you are trying to mess up the entire set and get her attracted to you.

Plan for the Future Examples of setting the stage for DUFF isolation:

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“Hey, don’t let me forget that I have to show some of you guys that bartender with the funky eye later. It’s hilarious, you can’t tell which eye to look at him in!” “My friends (don’t have them in your group, but off to the side if you have buddies there) have to tell you guys the story about when we all went hiking and our tent blew away! I’ll take one of you guys over to meet them in a little while.” “Speaking of that, I just heard the best joke ever the other day! It’s so much funnier when it’s told to only one person though. I’ll tell the luckiest of you all later, don’t let me forget!” “You guys have to hear the story about the time I went to Florida with my friends and we ended up going to the wrong ocean! Don’t let me forget to tell you all later!” Once you have the seed planted for later isolation of the DUFF, you may progress with the gaming of the set as you were previously doing.

Play the Iso When you go to isolate the DUFF, it will greatly benefit you to do it in a manner that is not totally obvious, but that your TOI will definitely notice it so it will begin to take effect even with the statement you use to leave the set for a little while. To accomplish this, refer back to the reference point that you have set and when you do, you also have the option of using a very watered down teasing version of a leech, since all verbal neg techniques stop in stage 5. If you have been following the WOW correctly, the entire set will be interested in you, and isolation with the DUFF will not be a problem. Examples of how to properly isolate the DUFF: *We'll call the DUFF Andrea for purposes of making the conversation easier to understand* “Andrea, I’m going to get myself another drink. Come with me and we can make fun of that bartender I was talking about earlier!” “There’s my friend Max over there! He’s the one that was with us in the woods that time I was telling you about earlier. Come over here with me and I’ll have him tell you the story Andrea. It’s hilarious!” The next examples are ones using a watered down teasing leech to isolate her and also accentuate the overall effect of the technique: “Since *TOI* wouldn’t understand the joke I was going to tell you guys earlier, I’ll have to tell it to you instead, Andrea. Shh, come here and I’ll tell you, it’s a secret!” “Yeah, Andrea appreciates my humor more than *TOI*, so I’ll have to tell you that story I was talking about when we ended up going to the wrong ocean in Florida!”

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Finish Strong By now, you will have the DUFF isolated and your TOI will be eating herself out of her skin with jealousy. When you are isolated with the DUFF, don’t make any stupid mistakes! Make sure you share a little laugh with her about what you meant to show her or tell her about and do not let her get any idea that anything could happen between the two of you. As long as you be careful and do not do anything stupid, you will be fine and she will not think twice about it, since you have not been gaming her at all and you continue not to game her. Basically, get in and get out! Don’t come back too soon though, you want to give the TOI time to think about what is happening and to let it all sink in with her. When it’s been a fair amount of time, then you return to the set, with the TOI’s interest in you out the roof and with her whole attention, acceptance and eagerness to win you over.

Game Over When using the Blind-Sided Takeaway technique, you will be utilizing the most powerful of all emotions, jealousy, in order to amplify interest towards you in an enormous way. In fact, this technique should be used with caution. If having a hot woman go absolutely nuts over you isn’t your cup of tea, then it’s not smart to use this technique. By isolating yourself with the DUFF after you have already created attraction and anchored a little bit of interest is the perfect combination to have the TOI wonder what she doesn’t have, what “it” is about you, why you didn’t choose her and not to mention the extreme jealousy she will have. When all of this is combined, the results are a spectacular increase in interest towards you, while she will also be completely hooked to you from this point, leaving you in the perfect position to continue use of the WOW.

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Stage 5

Stride Breaking

Women by nature are infatuated with just about anything that creates anticipation by keeping something hidden from them for an extended period of time. This could be partly due to the fact that women are natural gossipers and have grown accustomed to knowing things that really are none of their own business, and whenever they feel "out of the loop" they become frustrated and dead-set on finding out the secret that is being kept from them. Regardless of the reasoning behind this idea, the fact remains that women definitely seem to be drawn to and almost hypnotized by the things in life that are suspenseful and keep them guessing.

Law of Outer Game: Selective Dialog... How you say things can be much more important than what you're saying. When you are engaged in a conversation with a woman, it is always better to make statements that elicit a response from her rather than simply asking questions hoping to get a response. In this fashion, well selected statements can even prove to be better than asking open-ended questions, because asking any form of question tends to make it seem as if you are chasing the women and are trying to keep the conversation going. However, by making a simple statement and then allowing her to choose to respond on her own will reverse the interaction and have her chasing after you. For example, instead of asking "Do you go to the nearby university?" you can say "You must go to the college." This statement appears to be a question, but it technically isn't and is much less approval seeking than a direct question.

Even though women at first glance appear to be only interested in the revelation at the end of their treasure hunt for secrets, the truth is that the "build up" is really what they find so intriguing and is much more appealing to them than the actual climax is. Once the mystery and suspense comes to an end and the "big secret" is revealed, a woman's interest will rapidly begin to drop until another mystifying element is brought in as a replacement to keep them further preoccupied. Successful television shows that are designed specifically to appeal to the women demographic sometimes make great use of this phenomenon, which is no mere coincidence, the writers of these shows know exactly what they are doing, and do it well.

These writers fully understand that the absolute best way to keep a woman hooked on their show and interested for an extended period of time is to drag out the mystery for as long as possible in order to maintain the suspense. This is guaranteed to hold the woman's interest and keep her watching. In some cases they will even take this one step further by deciding to never even reveal the mystery at all, and instead continually replace the "secrets" with new ones so rapidly that the viewers will forever be trapped in a whirlwind of suspense that is never fully satisfying, yet highly addictive. This clever concept was the inspiration behind the Stride Breaking technique, because something that has this much of a profound affect on women must surely be applied to seduction in some way, not doing so would be leaving a huge gap in our current arsenal of methods for picking up women. This is a technique that takes practice to master, but the benefits of doing so are outstanding.

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Build, Maintain and Mystify Stride Breaking is an interest building tool that not only creates interest but also maintains it just as effectively. Apart from being a great method for making women interested in you and keeping them in that state, using Stride Breaks also generates an unending pool of mystery around you, which inadvertently creates additional attraction as well. Since Stride Breaking is predominantly an interest-based technique, it performs best when used during stage 5 of the WOW System. Without knowing any better, many men would most likely attempt to use Stride Breaks to create interest during stage 1 as well. However, this would be a mistake because attraction is created as a byproduct of using this technique, and attraction is best saved for stage 2 and later. This makes stride breaking a stage 5 only technique, with some possible applications during stage 10 as well. Keep in mind that at the time of this writing Stride Breaking has not been tested at all during stage 10 because the Rogue style that utilizes this technique ends at stage 9. Stride Breaking can be added to a custom style and used during stage 10, but if you choose to do so please understand that you will be doing it at your own risk! If it works, let us know :)

Breaking Your Own Stride The main concept behind Stride Breaking is to keep your target anticipating a major revelation about yourself, which she will believe may give her further insight into your everelusive, mysterious personality. You will do this by indirectly insinuating to her that you are about to tell her something secret about yourself by purposely adding suspense and "building up" to some unknown, major disclosure that will satisfy her. However, you never actually will reveal anything to her at all, because at the moment when the suspense is beginning to peak you will simply drop the subject of conversation and shift to something alternative and repeat this entire process over again. This is why the technique has been dubbed as "Stride Breaking", since you will in essence be breaking your own stride just before the climax of the conversation, leaving your target hanging out on a limb desperately yearning for more information. By doing this, you will effectively never allow the suspense to dull and continuously be making her increasingly more interested in you and your mysterious character. Most women in this situation will never let you out of their sight until their curiosity feels satisfied, and if you never reveal anything to them you can continue to generate interest and attraction for as long as you wish because the set will most definitely stay open.

Build & Drop There are two major aspects of Stride Breaking, the build up and the drop.

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The build up is very much like storytelling, and the story that you will be telling must be about yourself. However, the build up part of the story must not reveal anything about yourself and should always be general in nature as if it could be about anyone. This general story must also be obviously pointing to a "punch line" at the end that will seem to be a major or very personal event in your life. The beauty of the Stride Break is that you will never reach the ending, and always change the subject just before it. This is called the drop. The drop should be executed just as the suspense is reaching it's pinnacle, timing is everything. You should in most cases be able to tell when to use the drop by your target's body language and amount of attention shown towards you, but if you can't the best thing to do is to simply drop the subject once it "feels" right. Here is an example of how Stride Breaking can be used, take note of how the build up is very general and does not reveal much information about the storyteller. Also pay close attention to the transitions that occur right around the drop, you'll see how the flow of the story is preserved by relating the previous subject to the next: “I've got a crazy story to tell you! About three years ago I was driving with a friend of mine, when suddenly one of the tires on the car blew out. We had to pull over and sit on the side of this deserted road for two hours waiting for help since we didn't have a spare. Finally this creepy looking truck driver pulled up and said that he'd give us a ride to the nearest gas station. He really rubbed me the wrong way and made me feel a little uneasy, but we hopped in anyway because we had no idea when someone else would show up. As soon as we were inside the truck, the driver started speeding away like a madman! I can even remember the hula dancer bobble head on his dash board moving so much I thought that it was going to break. (drop) You know, I met a real hula dancer once when I went to Hawaii, it was pretty cool. She said that they make a lot more money than most people think, and are actually highly respected in their culture. I was there for a week and met with her a few times, too bad I couldn't stay because she was really interesting and we sort of hit it off. My last night there is one that I'll never forget, we were walking down the beach holding hands, then she told me that she usually doesn't fall for tourists. We flirted a bit more and then got into a playful rock skipping contest. (drop) Do you know that my all time rock skipping record is 12 skips! When I was younger my friends and I would always compete at this lake in our town. We had to stop going down to that lake though, because one day...” It's that easy! Keep in mind that all conversations are two-sided, and at times during your story you will need to interact with your target and allow her to say a few things or ask a few questions. When this happens just go with the flow and the continue on with your story, if she asks something such as "What happened next with the truck driver?" you can simply avoid answering this by teasing her "I already told you silly! Now let me get back to my story." I highly recommend using stories that are in some way based on actual events in your own life, this will guarantee that you will be able to tell the story convincingly and also remember what you said if she mentions your story again on a later date. You should not use the stories above in the field, they are here for demonstration purposes only and are entirely fictional. By adding Stride Breaks into your game plan for stage 5 you will greatly increase your target's interest levels as well as build some added attraction. Have fun an experiment with this unique strategy!

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Stage 6 Techniques

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Stages 6 & 8

Confessions

Confessions are great trust building techniques that can be used during stages 6, 8 and 10 of the WOW System. By making a Confession statement to a woman, regardless if it is the truth or not, you will effectively break down barriers that she may put up to stop you from advancing your relationship with her if she feels like things are moving along too fast. When you confess something to a woman, you are essentially granting her your trust hoping that she will keep your secret. This is something that women believe a guy who is just trying to get in their pants would never do, and makes you appear to be more "real" than the average guy, more human in a sense, and she will grant you her trust as well because of that. Confessions are extremely powerful techniques when they are well-placed, but are relatively useless when they are not used within the windows of opportunity that they were designed to be used in. Timing makes all of the difference, which is why Confessions should only be used during the trust building stages of the WOW System, which as stated earlier are stages 6, 8 and 10. Using proper timing is the most important rule when using Confessions. As you begin to master the WOW you will also begin to understand the sheer beauty of it's design. One obvious example of this is how each trust stage is placed directly before a major event, these being: Seduction, Sex and Love. This is no mere coincidence, the trust stages were given these positions because they are specifically tailored to help you battle a woman's defenses at these critical times when she will have them running at full blast. She knows that if you are allowed to proceed that you will be stepping the relationship up to the next level, and her biological circuitry will automatically attempt to stop that from happening. She'll do this not because she doesn't like you, but simply because she is programmed to do so, it is a natural defense mechanism just like how us men are naturally inclined to ball up our fist when some other dude comes running at us. We don't think about it, it just happens. This is where Confessions can shine and Failure of His Own Doing... help you to continue moving forward at a If you want to approach a certain woman but notice that steady pace without even breaking a an AMOG is already gaming her, don't just walk over and sweat or wasting much time. try to blow him out. 90% of the time an AMOG will just The Confession that you choose to use can either be based on a true story or can just be completely fabricated. As long as it is personal, your confession can be about anything that you choose, ranging from an embarrassing moment in your past to something bad that you've done and got away with. However, the most effective confessions that we've used are based on dating related issues. Here are a few examples:

mess up on his own without your intervention, and probably even start buying her drinks in a last attempt to salvage his failed attempt.

This will make you look even better once you arrive because after him doing all of the wrong things, you will be a breath of fresh air to the woman. You can even alter your opener to include something about how you noticed how lame he was, which will demonstrate to her that you're of higher value than him. If he doesn't mess up on his own, you can always just Beta-fy him.

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Confession Examples "I've never really told anyone this, but back in 5th grade I had a huge crush on my math teacher! I actually thought that I'd marry her when I grew up." "Promise that you'll keep it if I tell you a secret? Ok, well back when I was in high school I stood up my date for the prom by accident." Proceed with an elaborate and interesting story about how you were stopped from picking up your date. "Nobody else knows this but I've always had a fetish for ________." Insert real fetish you have in the blank. Nothing too strange, just something interesting. Did you notice a trend forming within those examples? They all began with something like "I never told anyone..." or "Keep this secret..." or "Nobody knows this..." This is one of the factors that makes confessions very effective, because you are not only granting the woman your trust, you are also making her feel "special" because you are telling her something that to her knowledge you only tell to a select few. This effectively builds trust almost instantly, and will make your target much more comfortable around you. Confessions can be pulled off without those beginning lines, but I do not recommend it. Even though Confessions are quite simple, they are also very powerful trust building tactics and in many cases just one confession can allow you to pass through a trust stage when accompanied by a bit of “fluff” conversation.

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Who is the Secret Rapport Agent?

Stage 6

On Your Mark It's Friday night, you are dressed to impress and you hit the streets running. In the lineup at the club you begin warming up by chatting to the people around you. You explode into the club with energy and your path becomes a blur as you start mingling. You encounter a fabulous mixed group with a TOI that grabs your attention. You then proceed to open the group and find out they are on a work night out. This can present many logistical problems for the average male bar patron, but fortunately you have read the Paragon Project's WOW System, and have an effective tool to handle these issues with ease.

Mission Possible Entering Stage 6, you realize it is now time to build rapport & trust with the group or risk them getting bored, moving on, and mother henning you in the process. So before the tsunami hits, you do what needs to be done:

Operation WOW “Hey guys, I was reading an article that said every group has a natural secret agent, someone who with minimal training could walk in and be a successful FBI or CIA Agent. Who do you guys think is the secret agent of this group?” After the banter subsides you say: “In this article they also had a little fun way to figure out who the secret agent of the group is. You guys look like a fun bunch except for those two (laugh and smile when you say it and point to your TOI and another female). Let’s Play!”

Rules of Engagement “First let me lay down the rules and objectives so that we can all play. The object of the game is for you to guess which one of each person’s 3 personal statements is a lie or fabrication.” “The Rules are: 1) That we should all try to go undetected. 2) We each get a minute to come up with two truths & one lie about ourselves. 3) It has to be 3 items that no one in the group can know about you.

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4) Everyone else has to guess which one the lie was. 5) You get one point for everyone that guesses wrong. 6) The winner is the person with the most points, they are the secret agent.”

Agent Provocateur If it is a big enough group, say anything over 6 people, then I suggest adding a 7th rule that they have to share the lie with the person to their right. You can place your TOI to your right so that you can begin Kino when whispering in her ear. This is also a good time to tease her with some opposites, such as: “Hey try not to get too excited when I whisper in your ear, this is only a game.” “Can I get a different ear to whisper in?” “Anyone got any q-tips?” This should all be obviously carried out tongue in cheek. You could also take the other physical approach and stand to her right, and then tease her for wanting to whisper in your ear, and all of the derivative other assorted angles. Of course, the person to the right who is confided in won’t count when you are tabulating points. In this case you make them the safe guard of the truth so that all agents are honest.

Front Line Mandate This game of secret agent is best started with your own example of 3 statements but reserve your voting until the end. This is to establish your status as leader of the group. Here is a good example of 3 personal statements: 1) “I was on a weekly TV show.” 2) “I traveled abroad to 13 countries, & lived in 2 foreign ones.” 3) “I have a great collection of Photoshop art.” You want to make sure to leave your statements vague enough to create a challenge. This will allow for inquisition later, as well as being diversified enough to appeal to others in a sophisticated and admirable way. Done properly, your fabrication/lie should be another positive extension of your personal statements. If you didn’t guess right, in this example number two was the lie. I have only been to 7 Countries and lived in 2 foreign ones, 3 altogether. This is a positive when said. Number one shows that I have some status, and three makes for a good reason to eject and show her my collection, conveniently located at my house (used to isolate during the next stage of the system).

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Take the time to construct your three statements, as preparation will make you more authoritative and select. Now that you are prepared, let’s begin the Secret Agent Game:

Project Rapport: Stage 6 Begins Start by giving them all one minute to think about their responses, then go through one person at a time, allowing them to make their statements. Then tally their points and move on to the next, culminating in your own vote. The person with the highest total is the secret agent of the group. By reading some of the TIC articles on reading people through kinesics (body language +) you will have a great advantage over the others while playing this game, and will be able to learn many kinesic truths about the people you meet. The process will actually make you a kinesics expert in the field. This alone will ramp up your success rate in all social situations.

The Counter Intelligence Mole In reality, in this situation it is you who are the secret agent because you will be collecting information about this group which you can use to your advantage by befriending some and teasing others. This is your tool to infiltrate this tight knit group and make yourself seem to be an important, enjoyable part of it. The information discovered will help you to bond with those around you throughout the course of the night, and make further escalation a snap. All in all you will cement your high value and status within the group.

Law of Outer Game: Eyes and Ears Open... Being fully aware of your environment and the people that are in it is a very important skill for any PUA to have. Almost all social settings and venues are fully dynamic and will be ever-changing, so it is wise to make sure that you do a quick scan of your surroundings every few minutes to see what has changed, who has arrived and who may have left. Even while you are locked into a set you should still be regularly scanning the area, because at any time a high caliber woman that you've gamed in the past may arrive and you can turn her into a pawn by pulling her into your current set to introduce her to the other women, which will demonstrate your higher value.

WOW Platoon Penetration Operation Winning the secret agent game isn't the important part, actually it is in your best interest to lose. Changing my 2nd statement to 23 countries would probably do the trick, but even that is not necessary because you don't want to be too obvious or overt. The end result is your mission will be a success when you have entertained the group, made many new allies therefore removing the obstacles to your objective, and to your TOI. Now who is the real Secret Rapport Agent of the group?

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Stage 7 Techniques

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Stage 7

Reference Leeching Smashing through LMR with ease...

When you are dealing with a beautiful woman, it's almost inevitable that sometime during stage 7 of the WOW System you will be faced with a situation in which she will be hesitant to accept your increasingly aggressive use of sexual kino and more forward advances. Even with good kino progression, she will still try to stop your sexual advances simply because it is in her nature and is a defense mechanism that she uses to separate the AFC's from the alpha males. This is a shit test that women love to throw into the mix in order to see how you will act when under pressure, to find out if you will run away pouting or if you are a real go-getter. It's nothing more than a monkey wrench. You can easily use persistence to bypass this shit test, and typically all that needs to be done to pass it is to keep trying to show her that her kindergarten-level scare tactics will not work on you. That is all just basic gaming though, and by passing this test in such a simple manner you will be missing a huge opportunity to lay down one of the most effective Reference Points we've yet to develop: The Reference Leech.

The LMR Vaccine Reference Leeching is used as a preplanned LMR prevention technique designed to allow you to lay down a phenomenally powerful RP that can be called upon once LMR is encountered during stage 8. If you are already familiar with the way in which Confessions work within the WOW System, then implementing Reference Leeching into your game will be a walk in the park as it works in the same manner. However, the only major difference between the two is that Reference Leeches must be done during stage 7 instead of stage 6, because that is when the shit test occurs that triggers this entire process.

Encountering a Roadblock... Have you come across some difficulty in the field that had you lost for words or stuck on what to do next? Now that you have "The New Breed" that will never happen to you ever again. Why you might ask? Mainly because we have given you a tool that answers all queries. So if you ever get stuck turn to the Opposite Theory, it will answer any question you might have in real time. Feel free to flow with the opposites at high speed, and watch your night unfold. Use opposite humor (turn anything they say on them), or send them mixed messages with the opposite by saying one thing and acting another. Just like a young Samurai you have yet to master the flex, recoil, sharpness, and precision of your blade, but trust in those that have achieved greatness before you. Have faith in the tool in your hands and it will dynamically change the whole landscape around you.

Apart from being the most potent LMR breaking tool we've yet to design, the Reference Leech also helps the entire seduction process move along very smoothly, so it will be a huge bonus to

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your overall game after you put it into play. This is because once you've hit a woman with a Reference Leech during stage 7, they will immediately become more receptive to your sexual attitude and will be much more inclined to “play along” from then on. Women always need to feel as if they are “winning” the social interaction and are living up to your standards, and just as a normal Leech makes them feel as if they are losing, Reference Leeches do this as well. The difference is that the Reference Leech can be referred back to when LMR presents it's ugly face, thus making her want to work harder yet again to please you, which she will try to accomplish by lowering the LMR shield.

Window of Opportunity To execute a Reference Leech, you must first wait for the woman to respond negatively to your advances during stage 7. Once this happens, you then immediately Leech her in response to her behavior, and your Leech must be themed based on that situation. For example, if she were to reject your attempt to kiss her, you could use the Leech: “Oh, you should have just told me that you were a prude. I'm used to being around cooler girls.” By doing this, you will be laying down a Reference Point that can be called upon during stage 8 to bypass her LMR, which can be easily done with a Refer Back statement such as: “You almost had me convinced that your weren't all prudish, too bad.” This will effectively demolish any hint of LMR that she has left in her and allow you to proceed on to your well deserved reward. You've more than likely even used a Leech or a neg just like this before, because many negs that can serve as great Reference Leeches have been well known for some time. However, the use of them is not important, all that matters is the timing. Reference Leeches must be used during that golden window of opportunity that presents itself just after a women has dismissed your sexual advances during stage 7, this is what makes this strategy so effective and unique. If you were to use a Reference Leech at any random time without first waiting for that window, it will hold little to no value when the time comes to handle her LMR because it will not have that attachment and bond to her resistance. Remember: Timing is everything. You must wait for her to trigger this process by not responding to you during stage 7, otherwise you can not use a Reference Leech! The fact that you must wait for the woman to begin this process presents a possible problem for you, because if she never does decline or act hesitant to your sexual behavior during stage 7 then you will not have any RP to call upon if you need to deal with her LMR later on. With that in mind, it would be wise to note that even if you are planning to use a Reference Leech, you may also want to previously use a Confession during stage 6 just to make sure that you have all of the bases covered and a solid backup plan. Being prepared for everything can be the difference between getting laid and getting played!

Reference Leech Examples To further educate you on the application of Reference Leeches into your game, I have included a few examples below along with the matching Refer Back statements for each of

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them. Feel free to use these cookie cutter Reference Leeches if you like, or you can develop some unique ones of your own and simply use these as a guide for how they should be made: Reference Leech - “It's alright if you can't handle me, most girls can't.” Refer Back - “See, I knew that you wouldn't be able to handle me.” Reference Leech - “I guess you're just too much of a good girl for me.” Refer Back - “I was right. You're such a goodie two shoes.” Reference Leech - “You're not my type. I usually don't go for really innocent girls.” Refer Back - “Wow, you're even more innocent than I thought.” Reference Leech - “So I guess a kiss is out of the question, with you being a prude and all.” Refer Back - “There you go, going right back to your old prudish ways.” Reference Leech - “Don't tell me you're afraid of a little touching, I don't have cooties.” Refer Back - “There you go again, getting all scared of a little contact.” Use these Reference Leeches with precision and you will rarely ever need to worry about the dreaded LMR again. Always remember, timing is the key to this working! Be patient and wait for the window of opportunity before attempting to lay down your Reference Leech RP.

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Stage 7

Great Kisser Message Pucker Up!

The following technique is perfect for any girl, any situation, has absolutely no risk and requires no balls. Simply put: anyone can easily pull off this technique and harness its power. The only thing you'll need is a cell phone! This is a perfect strategy for beginners who want to get the first kiss very easily. However, even more experienced PUA's may be inclined to use this technique because of its potency.

Cellular Status While you are in mid-set with a girl, whip out your cell phone as if you just received a message (pretending that you had it on vibrate). Proceed to fake reading a text message from your phone, then look at your target (make eye contact), then look away and laugh. The girl will ask what the message said and will naturally be curious.

Kino Escalation... If you are in doubt of whether or not you are doing too much or too little kino escalation too fast or too slow, then use this as a rule of thumb: Touch her about as much as she touches you. It is always good to be the first to escalate it a little bit, but you don't want to touch her too much. Once in a while you can kino again, but if you aren't getting any kino back, you should change your gaming method.

Act like you don't want to tell her at first, When in doubt, touch her as much as she touches you. This will make but then eventually give in and tell her sure that she remains comfortable. that a girl you previously hooked up with saw the two of you together and said: "Is another girl going to find out that you're a great kisser?" What happens after that is up to you, but the outcome is always positive. She is intrigued and her curiosity has taken the best of her. Note: If you are pretending to have your phone on vibrate it would be a good idea to actually put it on that setting. The last thing you want is for someone to call your phone just as you are using this technique and expose your scheme!

Typical Outcomes 1) She has interest and an immediate kiss occurs. 2) She has no interest but still wants to know if you are so good and kisses you. 3) You have no interest in her, so you don't kiss but she tells her friends about the rumor that

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you are good. Increase in social value is the result.

Field Tests This technique has been successful every time that I have used it. On one occasion, the second that the girl heard that I was a good kisser she asked if it was true and if she could find out. She made the move and begged me to kiss her. However, some women aren't as up front and straightforward, but it still leads to the hookup without taking any risk. This technique is so powerful because it results in such an easy hookup, breaks all comfort barriers, increases social value and begins the spread of a rumor that you are a great kisser. This increases your chances of other women wanting to find out as well!

FAQ What if the girl asks who it is from? Respond "Don't worry about it" with a cocky smile. She will become even more intrigued, and this will further the suspense and interest.

What about truly sending the message just in case? Don't bother. There isn't a case in which the girl should read it. Not letting her see it further increases the mystery, curiosity and intrigue. She is begging to know who thinks you are so good, who you hooked up with and if you are for real. If you don't show her the text the only way for her to know if you are for real is by kissing you.

How effective is this? This technique has been praised again and again as being consistently successful and easy to use. This is the most effective strategy I know for getting a first kiss. If you think about how simple it is to pull off and how powerful its results are, it is unparalleled.

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Stage 7

The Misery Test The Painful Past One of the dating game's age-old questions: “How do I get past the first kiss?”

Just the thought of this has most men in a panic state, because we have all been in that wilderness of kiss failure before. Through our lack of confidence, we have all fumbled to failure at some point. The image of rejection still lingers from the disasters of the past, and every time you go to kiss that new girl the rush of your past failures come to mind. I can assure you that getting a kiss is much easier then you think, especially if you have laid the ground work to get you to that point and have reached stage 7 of the WOW System.

School is now in Session There are many ways to gain that kiss. The Misery Test though is a tool to find out if you have generated enough attraction to be successful, in the event that you are unsure. The last thing a guy should have is uncertainty. I realize the name alone sounds painful (Misery Test), but I assure you that it is the opposite. The concept is that you are testing her with physical cues, to determine whether you should put her out of her misery or not. Women fantasize about being kissed, and gain much pleasure from it. You are the trophy, and kissing her is your decision to make. So how do you know if you've warmed her up enough? Elementary my dear Watson, you need a physical cue, not clue of evidence.

Shake Things Up... If you have ever been called "predictable", it is simply a nice way of saying boring. With that said, it is pretty obvious how important it is to avoid being predictable. The secret is to mix things up. A wise man once said that "Idiots do the same thing over and over and expect a different result." Unless you are happy with your current results, you need to make some adjustments in order to change. Don't be afraid to experiment and try things you've never attempted before. Sometimes, great things happen this way. some of the world's best things were discovered by accident, including post-it notes, microwave ovens, potato chips, and Play-Doh. Spice up your game and throw in some variety. Chances are, you will be pleasantly surprised with your success.

The Kino Equation Women love to be touched in the right way, and by the right man. The key is that you need to touch her in an area that is personal enough to her, but not sexual.

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There are many areas as well as ways of touching her to achieve our personal cue: stroke of her chin, neck, small of back, hand holding, hand cupping her thigh (not ass). These will all cue you, and also a sign of trust as in closing her eyes for you or giving you her hand will get the job done as well. These are all some of the basic cues, others that are more advanced will include venue changes, XIOI's, SOI's, etc. For now we will focus on just one to simplify matters. You can experiment with others after you have gained the intense confidence that the Misery Test will give you. Her reaction to your touch will be your cue to kiss her.

Her Geometric Barometer We will use her hair as the physical cue in this example of the Misery Test. Why hair? A lady's hair is a very important and stimulating area to them, personal yet not too sexual (although it can be used sexually for great results). Women spend many hours maintaining their hair and gain great satisfaction and comfort when it is played with. Just like a cat feels every stroke with it's entire body, it sends shivers down ladies spines when their hair is properly handled. Most guys can't grasp this concept and do not fully appreciate the nurturing bond that women have to their hair. As a young girl when she relaxed in front of the TV, her mom would brush out her little princess’ hair. The love and care that was shared between them in those developmental moments is so ingrained into most women that it is a natural reaction to feel great pleasure and a stronger bond with those that play with their hair. I know these little messages must be getting old by now, but I'm not going to stop until you get up, get out and go get some. Persistence can get you very far in life. A word of caution, do not stroke her like a dog or else she won’t be a good little girl (women hate this). Run your fingers through her hair or play with the texture between your fingertips. Now that we have the physical cue out of the way, lets get down to the Misery Test.

The Kinesic Solution During a conversation with her that’s going well, lean in and play with her hair. If she lets you play with it, you've just received your physical cue. Lean in, look her in the eyes and give her a kiss. It really is that simple, and you've just put her out of her Misery as she's most likely been waiting for you to take the initiative and kiss her.

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This is all done in a slow and confident way. If she pulls back then you haven’t gained enough attraction yet, so continue to tease her in a C&F or negging way. You can start with “I was checking your hair for bugs, and you do have a few, ewwww!” and laugh at her. If she says, “Were you trying to kiss me?” you can say “We just met, but if you’re nice maybe later, you still have some work to do” and add a confident smile. Apply the Misery Test again later to see if you have gained attraction. Repeat until successful.

Pleasure in Misery This playful approach will reward her with pleasure or leave her in Misery, either way it is you who decides the outcome. You can have a lot of fun with this regardless of the outcome that you choose. The happiness you get out of kissing and teasing will destroy the road block you might have standing between you and the kiss. Once you gain the power to master this technique you will even start to tease them with the kisses, which is a part of the Push/Pull concept. The opposite is that she will be trying to kiss you then, and you might not even want to kiss her yet, you might just be happy enough with teasing her. You are the trophy!

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Reckless Seduction

Stage 7

Many men have difficulties with escalating a normal interaction with a woman into a more sexual one. Men often fantasize about women taking all the steps in this important part of the game, which does happen occasionally. However, something that only happens once in a while isn't really reliable enough to fully depend on. Very confident women might move in for the kiss, but most won't ever think of doing that. So why are so many men afraid of something as simple as going in for a kiss when it is basically just a big IOI and it has nothing to do with reproduction physically? It’s just a way of showing interest and confirming that the other party is interested too. Well, it’s the same as with the approach and rejection aspect: they are afraid of being humiliated and feeling embarrassment if something goes wrong and they are turned down. I’m sure you have heard of many ways to get a kiss while using some technique or strategy, but this article will explain how you can get that kiss without messing around to much (using techniques etc.) or waiting to long for that “special moment”. Don't get me wrong, many of the techniques for getting a kiss that you can find in the community (particularly those developed by TIC) are very effective. However, at times a simpler approach is all that you'll need.

An Example: Myself In the past, I would beat around the bush a lot when it came down to kissing; I was slightly nervous and unsure of when the “right time” to kiss was. I would always wait for the perfect moment, and most of the time that moment never presented itself. I'd then be stuck feeling upset with myself for not acting when I had the chance, and knew it was too late now. This is the cold, hard truth. Unfortunately the “perfect moment” is a very rare occurrence so I ultimately ended up missing out on a lot of action because I did not move in for the kiss. Girls would find me to be a great tease (which was good) since I did not move in for the kiss, but this was a double-edged sword because they often left disappointed and unsatisfied. In the worst case they would think that I was gay, but even in the best case they would just get bored and move on. Then one day my wingman told me that I had to stop procrastinating and just go in for the kiss. Something he would often say was: “Stop beating around the bush and just give her a wet one on the lips. If she doesn’t like it she should close her mouth.” That sounded pretty damn reckless to me at the time, but after I observed him first and saw how he never hesitated in kissing women and never really waited on a specific moment, my view on this changed. He did not have to wait for the right time, he would just go in for the kiss with the mindset that one should have when cold approaching: “I’m just entertaining myself and I wonder how her lips taste.”

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That’s what he is thinking when going in for a kiss, and that’s how you should think too. By not waiting around for the perfect moment, he instead would just do it and ultimately create the perfect moment himself!

The Positive in a Negative It's quite simple actually: You will gradually begin to understand that kissing is not such a “big deal” once you find out how easy it is to pull off. This will take much of the pressure off of you that would have otherwise made you nervous. It will also make the entire seduction process a bit easier on you because your natural inclination to hesitate will be gone, and so will the internal roadblocks in your head that would normally hold you back from making a move. Rejections must also be taking very lightly; instead of thinking about what you did wrong you will view the situation from a better, alternative standpoint. Being able to view the positive in a negative situation is the key to turning that negative into a positive.

Speak With Your Actions, Not Words... Want to know a secret? The worst, most hopeless, sappy, romantic AFC conveys the exact same message to a woman that the best PUA in the world does. You must be thinking, “This is impossible!”, but one must dig deeper into the statement to understand the true meaning. The AFC uses methods of supplication, nice-guy behavior, sappy love notes, and long, heartfelt speeches to try and get the girl. The reason the AFC does this is that it is his way of showing the woman that he wants to have a relationship and/or sexual relations with her. On the other hand, the PUA does none of this. He sends messages of disinterest with negs and teasing, all the while sending the exact opposite messages with his physical and non-verbal behavior with the use of kino and other physical (as well as non-physical) advances. Through this, the PUA is saying the exact same thing as the AFC, which is that he is going to sleep with the girl. The difference? The AFC goes home alone while the PUA gets what he wants. It’s not what you say; it’s how you say it. Don’t communicate with the low, self-deprecating, needy techniques of the AFC. Instead, communicate with the confidence and self-assurance of a true PUA; speak with your actions, they say more than your words.

For example: 1) You now know for sure she’s not very attracted to you at that moment, and instead of wondering what could have happened you will be able to change your strategy and try again. 2) If your game is working yet a woman still rejects your kiss, in most cases they will come back later seeking that kiss. At the time you went in for the kiss she may have had a reason to not kiss you, for example: her judgmental friends could have been nearby. The positive in this is that she now knows that you are attracted to her and you will be placed on her potential sexual partner list right away. If she did like you, she will remember that you tried to kiss her and will consciously know that she can come back anytime to claim that kiss. 3) You now know that she is at least somewhat hard to get, which eliminates her as a slut candidate and adds her to the “girlfriend potential” category. No self-respecting PUA would dare make a woman his main girl if she didn't at least put up some kind of a fight and show a bit of initial resistance. If she doesn't try to fight your advances, what's going to stop her from giving in to the first player that tries to get her to cheat on you? Good girls aren't “easy”, so

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when you find one that is a challenge, it's a good thing!

Now You know... It might take some time for you to become reckless enough to really not care much about going in for a kiss, but this really has it's benefits even when you just first begin using it. However, always remember that there is a difference between being reckless and being desperate or overly horny. Recklessness should always be applied very playfully and taken very lightly, while on the other hand overly horny men scare women off because of their heavy pursuit of “getting some” and satisfying their immediate sexual desires. They can't help being serious in their approach because their goals are serious in nature. Your goals should be loose, flexible, carefree and generally unimportant when compared to your drive to simply have some fun.

So how to get that kiss then? There are plenty off nice tricks and strategies written exclusively for the WOW system that can surely help you on this area, but I will tell you my personal favorite which is actually nothing new and very simple: After having slightly isolated the girl (when you are reckless you won’t be needing complete isolation all of the time, full isolation is just a “safe” route) simply offer your hand to her. Leave your hand out and give her enough time to think about it, then let her take it (or just grab her hand if she doesn’t get it) and then slowly pull her towards you and put her arm around your neck while putting your free hand around her waist. By now you should be very close to each other, probably face to face. If her face is in another direction, use your free hand (the one that put her arm around your neck should be free now) to lightly pull her chin in your direction. This strong use of kino is essentially a kiss test, because if she seems to be comfortable with this close contact with you, then successfully getting a kiss is basically guaranteed. Stop beating around the bush and give her a wet one on the lips!

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Stage 7

Trust Lust & Close Apply TLC so you never hear LJBF: Rapport, kino, escalation, isolation.

So you’ve been chatting to her for a while, and you are getting into the beginning stages of building rapport. You may or may not have gone through a shit test by now, but that doesn't matter. If you haven't moved things forward from pleasantries within the first 30-60 minutes of interaction (in night game), then here is Chance's exclusive formula to help you start making forward progress before the window of opportunity slams shut.

Preparation You should already be very familiar with conversation building and looking for directions to move the conversation when it is in process. That is all basic stuff that you should have already learned from our Crash Course prior to purchasing this book. At some stage when things aren’t going as ideal as possible, you will need to bring trust into the conversation. There are many reasons deep within the female brain why trust needs to be established early on and how trust can help her logical thoughts boost her emotional needs. So why is trust important? I'm not saying it is the core factor of sexual lust, but in many cases with 99% of well balanced, confident, esteemed women, trust can be the one factor that tilts the balance in your favor of her lust! Simply put, if she trusts you then she'll know that afterward she will feel much less guilty about letting you get into her pants, and will be much more inclined to allow you to do so. This isn't just some newfound, light bulb popping idea that has entered seduction. This goes back to the mechanisms inside the female makeup that are as old has the human race itself.

Law of Outer Game: Strategic Positioning... During a social interaction the way in which you manipulate and use your own body language is just as important as being aware of your target's body language. For example, in order to create the illusion that you are non-threatening and are not directly trying to "pick up" a woman, you can purposely position your body in a way as to not throw up any "red flags" in her mind. To do this, instead of standing directly in front of her and facing towards her during your conversation, you can stand next to her with your body facing in the same or opposite direction as hers. When you are doing this properly, the only part of your body that should be facing her is your head, which you will have turned towards her.

Think about it for a moment: tens of thousands of years ago, a woman had to be certain the the man of her interest was going to be able to provide for her and her offspring. Now of course this meant physical alpha tendencies, like being strong, having leadership qualities amongst the tribe and the ability to provide food, shelter and protection for her. Of course things have moved on a little since then, but some of the basic elements still apply in today’s suburban jungle that we call home.

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Now you don’t have sit guard outside the house and take shifts with your beta males to keep watch from encroaching, opposing tribes (if you're from Harlem or Moss Side, fair enough you probably still do). However, she does need to know that you are the type of male she can rely on to protect her and provide for her if that is what is needed. Even if she doesn't even intend to engage in a long term relationship with you in which all of this will be important, her basic instincts will still look for these qualities in you simply because it is in her nature to do so. So, how do we send that message across? We can't jump on her and say “Look love, I've got good sperm, I'm hardworking and honest, what's your number?” She’d be running to the nearest door faster than Speedy Gonzales. So instead we must inadvertently show these qualities to her, under her radar without raising any of her suspicions or throwing up any red flags. It's like show and tell, without the tell part.

Execution At this stage of the game, trust has to be brought into the conversation with a manner of lightheartedness. Also, if you’re looking for directions in the conversation you will easily find a way to bring it in, just keep your mind open. “Ok, tell you what, prove that you trust me.” Isolation time. Take her away from her friends for a moment, tell her friend directly that you guys will be right back, this will ease them and your TOI. The last thing you want is for her overprotective or jealous friends to cock block, so make sure that you put them at ease. You don’t have to be a million miles away, but isolation is key, it could even be on the edge of the dance floor. The only important thing is that you get her away from everyone that she knows expect for you. You don't have to literally get her alone as the word “isolate” implies, if strangers are around that is fine. The simple act of doing this will also show leadership qualities (in a nice way). Stand in front of her, tell her it’s a quick assimilation of trust you've learned from a friend. Then move behind her placing your hands on her shoulders, and with your arms stretched out, tell her the idea of the game: The key of the game is to stand behind the person by about two feet. While at this distance she is to slowly lean backwards and increasingly do so until she will lean to the point of no return where her balance is lost and she would inevitably fall backwards to the floor. Now having tested this myself it isn’t the easiest thing to do, to let go and fall in the hope that the person behind with stop you from falling. So the great thing about this one is actually pulling it off, and by doing so building instant trust and getting so much more out of it.

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Note: This strategy is also a great way to get kino escalating, as it requires touching.

Excitement Factor Excitement is the key to this working properly, so if you're not in the frame of mind to excite and be fun, don’t even try it. We need to be exciting and fun, it is one of the best alpha traits that we can possess. With that said, one of the best ways to build excitement in this game is a running commentary: “We are here in Bar X, this brazen woman is ready to lean back in front of a sold out crowd. She’s been gearing up for this all week, the 'fake lashes' have been applied (slight neg), her piercing blue eyes are focused (compliment). Will she trust the tall, strong man to catch her from tumbling on her ass? Ready, set, go!” This brings her into the script and gets her participating with greater ease. At this point it may be necessary just to change your voice to that of a trusting tone. In a slight serious moment, ensure her that you wouldn’t let her drop, and that all she needs to do is trust you and she'll be fine. She may still be hesitant, and that’s no discredit to your application of this. It can be very hard for some people to actually let go, the sensation of falling can be too great and she may stop just before the point of no return. If this happens ensure her of your trust and make it easier for her, or you can tease her about being scared if she is the type that would respond better to a challenge than to a soothing voice. Here's the deal: If you stop reading right now and go talk to some women, I promise that I'll stop interrupting your reading. I can't interrupt something you're not doing! Offer her a touching hand in the middle of her back to show her that she can feel you are there and that you're not going to bail. This may be the final reassurance that she needs. As she eventually falls, you grasp her with both arms and tuck her into you around her waist, this is a great moment to get close and even further escalate your kino. Next you can whisper into her ear, “Well done, now you know that you can trust me.” Make sure to breath close to her and hold onto her just a little bit longer than the average man would. From then on during the night, gaming her will be easier as you have now broken a lot of constraints in such a short amount of time!

Sealed With a Kiss Fake eye lashes? You now have a solid foundation for the maximum use of kino, close proximity, isolation and rapport. Soon you'll be at the point where a kiss close or number close will be eminent.

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You should be well aware of what the signs for a kiss close are by now. For example, when she stares at your lips while you're talking, this means that either subconsciously or consciously kissing is on her mind already. Some guys just do it, they just lean in for the kiss and more often than not they are successful. In many ways this strategy is much better than ever bringing the subject up during conversation. Talking about subjects like kissing can create unnecessary awkwardness in situations where both of you know that you will probably be kissing soon, so it's best to leave it unsaid. This method for getting the kiss that you will learn below is just as bold as the “just do it” idea, but is a little bit more strategic and has a better rate of success. Did we bring “fake eye lashes” into the conversation with her earlier? Well, there was a reason for planting that seed! So you can use it again later on for the kiss close. Once again we look for pointers in the conversation, and when the time feels right we bring it back up: “So you have fake lashes, seems like you did a good job of putting them on.” When she denies that they are fake (of course they are genuine) we go back to trust. “I thought we trust each other now, it's alright if they are fake, they suit you.” Now she will get more demonstrative in her refutes of them being fake, which is perfect timing because the next trick is the last thing she will be expecting. “Oh come on, they are so fake, don’t even go there love. Fine close your eyes, let me look at them properly” She will close her eyes, which is a natural reaction to let you see her lashes to prove they are not fake. When she does, you hit her with a wet one. She will instantly start kissing you back, by now you're already escalated your kino enough for her to feel comfortable enough to kiss you. You took her by surprise, dropped any guards that she could have put up, and now she is putty in a man’s hands who slipped in under the radar. Trust, Lust, Close.

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Stage 8 Techniques

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Stage 8

Smoke & Mirrors

The phrase “Smoke & Mirrors” has commonly been used to refer to the misdirecting fashion in which someone tricks others into thinking that something is less or more than it seems, or even something entirely different altogether. This phrase originated from the way that performing magicians would use smoke, mirrors and other nifty tools to make a simple trick appear to be “magic”. As grown men we all know that real magic does not exist, and that at every magic show there is planning and science at work behind the scenes. However, knowing those facts doesn't make a good magician's show any less tantalizing and entertaining. This proves that something doesn't need to be real in order for it to be universally accepted by people, it just has to be cool. Everyone likes “fake and cool” more than “real and boring”. The sleeved technique that we are about to reveal to you has been given the name “Smoke & Mirrors” because like it's magical counterparts, it uses misdirection in order to make something appear to be something else entirely, until it is too late and the participant (your target) is so wrapped up in the fun of it all that she will just go along with it. This “something” that we are adding smoke and mirrors to is a sexual game that you will initiate with your target, and the resulting “other something” that it will appear to be is an innocent, non-sexual game instead of what it really is. The smoke and mirrors will effectively hide the true purpose and intentions of the game, which are to break past her LMR and get into her pants. When you approach sex with a woman in this fashion, she won't know that the two of you are about to have sex until it's just about to happen, thus leaving very little room for second thoughts and a complete change of heart on her part. The purpose of this technique is not exactly to get you laid, but rather to ensure that once you are about to get laid something doesn't go wrong and ruin all of the work you've done. It's an insurance policy, so to speak.

My Turn, Your turn Smoke & Mirrors begins by the initiation of a game. The type of game that you choose to play can be almost anything, at long as it follows these simple rules: - The game must be designed to go back and forth, with you having a turn and then your target having a turn. It must also allow each person to choose from a wide range of different things to do during their turn. The game should have very loose restrictions. - During your turn you will always escalate your kino in some way, which will seem natural and appear to be a part of the game. It must not seem forced or intentional. You'll do this by making the kino a necessary part of your turn in the game, thus avoiding any “red flags”.

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- During her turn no kino will be involved on your part, however the nature of what she chooses to do during her turn may make her use kino on you. Granted, most of the time she will not use kino, which is good and offsets the escalating kino that you are using just enough to help keep the game appearing as innocent as possible. Note: If you are using the Rogue style, it would be best to avoid any games that involve revealing things about yourself. That means no truth or dare! For demonstration purposes, I am going to reveal my personal favorite game to play when using this technique. I call this the “Impress Me Game”, and it is my own creation tailored specifically to be used with Smoke & Mirrors. Feel free to use this game yourself:

Impress Me Baby! As the name implies, the Impress Me game requires both persons participating to either do or say something in an attempt to impress the other. This game is perfect for Smoke & Mirrors because of the following qualities: 1) Allows you to do anything that you want, so adding kino into the mix seems entirely natural and will be accepted by your target as nothing more than a part of your turn the game. 2) Allows your target to do anything that she wants, which will keep her interested and make sure that she doesn't run out of ideas and things to do. 3) Allows you to neg your target if she can think of nothing during her turn: “Come on, you're allowed to do anything you want, don't tell me you have no skills or talents at all!” 4) If she doesn't want to play, you can also throw a different kind of neg at her: “This is a fun game. Are you really so boring you forgot how to have fun?”

The Best things In Life Are... Some of your best gaming can be done when you go out with a “I have nothing to lose” attitude. Try going out with no money at all in your pocket one night and see what happens. When you have nothing to fall back on and only your mouth, wit and game to get you through the night, amazing things can happen because you will need to rely only on those skills. This will force you to try to get women to buy drinks for you, transport you from venue to venue and will also show them that you have no intentions whatsoever to spend cash on them. Some of the best nights I've ever had were back when I was broke but went out anyway, relying only on my raw skills to make the magic happen. It's kind of like how blind people develop an increased sense of hearing to compensate for their lack of sight. When you force yourself to rely only on your game, it can reach new heights of effectiveness since it will need to compensate for your lack of fat pockets.

Getting Started To get the Impress Me game started, you can simply ask her if she would like to play a fun game. In almost all cases, the woman's curiosity alone will make her want to participate, but if she needs a bit of prodding you can just use a neg as in the above examples. Once she has accepted, you should always be the one who goes first in order to set an example for her.

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For your first turn, you should do something that is interesting and involves a very light amount of kino. For example: - Reading her palm and telling her how many children she will have. - Playing with her hair and estimating how many split ends she has on her entire head. - Placing your hand on her head and pretending to be a mind reader (playfully, not serious). After you are finished, allow her to take her turn. Then when it is your turn again, you can escalate your kino to greater heights with your next trick. For example: - Running your hands over various parts of her body, then estimate her body fat percentage. - Doing a magic trick that requires you to touch her legs, stomach or face. - If she says she isn't ticklish, tell her nobody can resist your tickling skills. Proceed to do so. After that, once again let her take her own turn. Then for your third turn, begin to escalate your kino to even a more sexual level. For example: - Tell her that you are a amateur masseur, then give her an amazing message. - Ask her what the best kiss she ever had was like, then tell her that you can beat it. - Tell her that you can undo a bra in less than 5 seconds, then prove it to her. After this turn the sexual tension should be coming to a climax, and if she has not expressed any resistance so far you can forget about the game and move on to normal foreplay or a nice makeout session. If she has resisted or hesitated a little, then you should continue the game for a few more turns in order to loosen her up even more. If you are persistent and patient, all women will eventually succumb to the fun and seemingly innocent nature of this game. Some are just harder to crack than others, so don't get overly anxious. Note: The above examples are just that, examples. There is a multitude of different kinorelated things that you can do during your turn, so don't limit yourself to only using the examples given here for demonstration!

Creative Games Even though the “Impress Me” game is very effective and you can always use it yourself, don't forget that any game can work with Smoke & Mirrors as long as it follows the few general guidelines stated earlier. Be creative and develop a game of your own or use one that is inspired by something else you've learned, some games will work better in certain situations and on particular women. By using a game that follows the Smoke & Mirrors rules, you will easily bypass a woman's LMR and bring sex into the equation much easier than you could by using conventional methods. This strategy also helps build a slight bond with your target, which produces the trust required for her to want to allow herself sleep with you without feeling guilty. Once that is done, proceed on and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

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Stage 9 Techniques

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Stages 9, 10 & 11

The Juggling Jester Great, Now I Have Two Women That I Love!

Have you ever been with just one chick, but in time fallen in love with or just wanted another woman? You wanted this woman, but you were already in an LTR, married or starting to see some other new lady? Deep down inside your heart, did you tell yourself that you wanted both women? I know I've been there, and if you're contemplating doing this lets move on, because you're going to need to know how to get away with doing this effectively. Editors Note: We at the Paragon Project do not encourage you to cheat on your partner or lie to and/or manipulate many women into thinking that you are being faithful to them when you are actually sleeping with other women. However, we even further believe that every man has the right to make his own choices, and that we should not try to put a limit on your game. This article has been written simply because if you do choose to have multiple girlfriends, we want to make sure that you go about it the right way. Enjoy!

Bound by Two Lovers There is likely going to come a time in each man's life when he will become bored of the same old lady. Though he may love her, be married to her or in a serious relationship with her, he wants another and maybe even a few more girls. This is my area of expertise. At my peak, I have juggled 7 women at one time and I am currently juggling 2 girlfriends, a wife although separated, and 2 booty calls. With that said, I think I know this area quite well! Sit back and learn how any player can have more than one woman.

Law of Outer Game:

For Every Season There is only one of you, so you'll have to manage your time effectively. When going for more than one woman you must make time for her out of your schedule. I like weekdays myself, and sometimes I will go to a bar/club with one of my girlfriends. This type of schedule allows me to leave the weekends open for new gaming and new women. Make sure you keep a secret book or calendar and write down the time and with whom! This is a must when having more then one woman. I have a small hardback notebook and I always organize my schedule.

Social Maintenance... Your social circle is like a living entity, and must be cared for accordingly and kept in "good health" if you are to achieve phenomenal success socially and with women. The people in your social circle need to be given attention and should be treated as if they are all important to you, because you never know when they can be of use to you. You should always be expanding you current circle by adding new people to it as you meet them through your daily travels, don't be afraid to get telephone numbers from other men and even women that you find unattractive, it's better to have many friends and no girlfriend than to have one girlfriend and zero friends. Having a large, healthy social circle will always guarantee that there will be an abundance of new women coming into your life that you can choose from.

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I have learned from major mistakes the importance of keeping a log of what you are doing.

Head Over Heels Try not to go long term with any of these women, but if you do, no more than three! You will be unable to juggle more than 3 long term women. I find it best to have one or two LTR's and have between 2-5 BC's. Once one of the women believes that she is your LTR, she will want to spend much more time with you. You should limit her to once or twice a week, but I personally like one time every 10-15 days. Also keep in mind that by not seeing her often, you give her the gift of missing you.

Of Course I Believe in the Easter Bunny In order to keep the juggling act going it will require a player to BS. There is absolutely no way around this. If you are a truthful Joe and have trouble BSing, then I suggest you stick to one woman. If a woman wants you to be super serious with her, you will need to BS her. Tell her that you just came out of a two year relationship and you just need time to adjust. If people such as neighbors and friends are blabbermouths, then BS them too. You can't reveal much of your personal life when you juggle.

Frequently Asked Questions Question: “What if I live in a small town?” Answer: Easy. Buy a car, as you must be mobile! Getting 2+ women in a small town may be problematic. If your town has 50,000+ people in it, then 2-3 is very possible. My golden rule is 1 woman for every 15,000 people. However, my best advice is to get girls from other towns. Question: “What if one of my girls finds out that I have other lovers?” Answer: Never give her a direct answer, try to change the subject. If it is past the point of reason, be upfront. If she wants to break it off with you, a possible option is that maybe you can use her as a BC or possibly dump her entirely and move on to the next lady. Question: “At some point it will be clear that you have other lovers. How do you explain this to the women?” Answer: It's part of the game, this will happen! Remember though, all of your girlfriends are not on a serious level, so therefore you can even be honest and tell your women the other girls are good friends and not serious lovers.

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Question: “What if Girl 1 comes to pop in and visit you one day and you are with Girl 2?” Answer: Most girls need to know upfront you have many lady friends. I wouldn't worry much. Just tell both girls that you two are friends, or don't even answer the door. Tell Lady 2 it's your neighbor and you can't stand her. When juggling, it will require you to bullshit. Just remember your lines. If you lie, you will forget a lot. Make your lies believable and to the point so that you will remember what you said. So you want more than one girlfriend, huh? You're going to have to get out there and meet them first. Are you breathing? If so, then now is a perfect time to get started!

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Stage 10 Techniques

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Stage 10

Gold in the Closet

During stage 10 of the WOW, you will be creating a relationship with a woman that will lead to love in the long run. There are three stages actually rolled into one, since you must do all three of the confirmation stages together for stage 10 to be effective. One of these confirmation stages is the Interest Confirmation stage. The main object of this Interest Confirmation stage as stated in the WOW System itself is: “To be telling her stories, displaying your value and leading her to believe there is a lot more to you than she thought she knew. This fun and interesting attitude will make her very comfortable, and she will feel like she is with her best friend when she is with you.”

Purpose of Life? WOW! Techniques for the WOW System are designed for one reason, and that is to allow you to progress through the stages of the WOW successfully until you achieve the goals that you have set for yourself. While you are doing this, there are certain guidelines that you must follow in order to proceed through each stage, this is where the WOW System techniques come into play. They allow you to use techniques as a means of accomplishing the various “checkpoints” of each WOW stage. In the earlier stages of the WOW, the feats that you need to accomplish are more straightforward than those in the later stages. Your objectives are not as “concrete” when you are dealing with relationship building and therefore, you may feel like you are “winging it” since there are not as many techniques to use.

Gold Rush For this reason, the technique Gold in the Closet is literally gold for you in stage 10. The Interest Confirmation stage is all about keeping the relationship fresh and fun for both parties. If the interest is lost once you are in a relationship, the relationship will not hold up for very long at all. Interest is not something that you can build with a girl the first time you talk to her, and then have it done for the remainder of your relations with that girl. Instead, it is something that you must continuously do, similar to putting gas in a car. If you just put gas in your car when you buy it, once you drive it for a week or so it will need more gas in order to continue running. The same is true with relationships and interest with women. If you keep the interest fresh, as well as keeping the other two aspects of Stage 10 (attraction and trust) intact, you will have a healthy, fun relationship that is on a fast-track to love!

Fresh = Good Keeping the relationship fresh does not mean, however, telling her the same stories and using the same things that you used when you met her in order to keep her interested. You can’t rehash old material and expect it to work again on the same woman. Instead, you will need to have new stories, ways to display your value and generally new interest building material to

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keep the interest of your woman. For some of you, I can already sense it. Once you run out of techniques given in earlier stages, unable to use the same stories, you will think of resorting to lying. This is not a good idea! Try to keep things as honest as possible, as this will avoid a great deal of problems in your relationship in the long run. Life is tough sometimes! You can’t use the same stories and interest material, and you can’t lie. You’re probably thinking, “What in the world can we do?!” This is the very reason that the technique Gold in the Closet was developed, and exactly why it can be so helpful in stage 10.

Struck Gold! The Gold in the Closet technique is best used in stage 10 for these very purposes, as techniques are hard to come by in this stage, and you also need to keep things interesting or you will ruin your relationship. With the Gold in the Closet technique, your woman will always wonder what is behind this man she has had the great luck of entering a relationship with, and she will become utterly fascinated by you. Now, it’s time to finally move on to the actual technique: During the Interest Confirmation stage, you should tell stories that you have not previously told to the girl in order to keep her interested and to display your value even further. You also have to make her believe that there is much more to you than she has ever known. Doing this will blow her mind, and she will stay interested and infatuated you for as long as you wish! Surely your eyes must be hurting by now! How about you go out and try some of the stuff that you've already learned? When you get back, we'd like to hear all about it! When you are telling the stories and displaying your high value (display high value through your stories with the use of embedded DHV’s, do not think that you can get lazy once you are in a relationship), you will employ the Gold in the Closet technique. The Gold in the Closet is where you strategically place bits of information that you have not previously mentioned into a story. Doing this will cause the girl to ask about what you are talking about, then you act as if either you assumed it was common knowledge, say you have mentioned them in the past, as if it was no big deal, or just continue with your story like you thought nothing of the information you gave. When you drop these pieces of gold that have been hidden in the closet of your mind; interesting, fun and high value things about yourself that she has no idea of, it will get her attention, make her wonder what else is behind you, and keep a fun environment in which she never knows what to expect, and feels like she is right at home when interacting with you!

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Pick and Axe Here is how you will put the Gold in the Closet technique into actual use: Begin by telling a fun and entertaining story, with embedded DHV’s... “It was insane! It almost reminded me of when I took some friends a few years ago to see the Grand Canyon, and the mule threw us off on the ride down the Grand Canyon! I liked the plane ride down to Arizona more than the tour!” Then, continue by inconspicuously including the piece of interesting information that the girl has no idea about: Quick Hint: Try to save some things about yourself for times like this. Don’t tell her everything, ever! Mystery is attractive, and leads to positive speculation. My ass was so sore! (pun intended) That’s nothing compared to the time we got to drive that rigged sports car that was a stunt prop on our trip to California. Who the hell would make a car that had no brakes and was designed to flip!” Once you do this, she will begin to wonder more about you. You didn’t tell her that you went to California. How did you get into a movie studio? What were you doing there? Sports cars are so damn cool. What else have you done that she doesn’t know about? She will ask about this, and when she asks, simply act as if it is no big deal. This will make her even more interested in you, and totally fascinated and infatuated with this man of mystery that she is rapidly learning that she really doesn’t even know yet! The sports car example is just that, an example. Make your own, and have fun with it! As long as you use the same principle, it will have the same great effect every time. You can use this as many times as you like, the more she is wondering and interested the better! Just do not make anything you embed obvious or annoying, and this technique fits perfectly into stage 10.

Kino, Kino, Kino... Maybe if I repeat it enough, everyone will begin to realize the importance of kino. When I was starting out in the seduction community, I was always getting preached to about kino. Of course, I figured that it was a part of the game that I would do fine without, and let the advice go in one ear and out the other. However, for some reason that I just couldn’t seem to pinpoint, I never had much success with women and I always got put into the friends zone, despite using negs and all of the other verbal techniques in the community. I thought I was doing everything right, but there was one thing that I never even bothered to integrate into my game: kino. One of the main reasons men get put into the friends zone is that they do not communicate their sexuality. Women do not want a sissy, non-sexual wimp. The best way to communicate your sexuality is through touching a woman and stimulating her senses; kino! If you’ve been skating by without using kino, don’t hold yourself back. If you feel that there is one piece of the puzzle that you can’t seem to get right, implement kino into your game, and watch your results soar overnight!

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Cash In When you need something for Interest Confirmation, look no further than Gold in the Closet. Using this will always allow you to keep the fun in the interaction at a high level, keep her interested and hooked like a prize bass, and always speculating and wondering what is behind this man of mystery that she can't seem to stop thinking about!

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Stage 10

Me Language

Anyone who thinks that seduction techniques are robotic and boring must have never heard about Me Language (ML). Actually, nobody has heard about ML because it is a concept that I alone have discovered and have never released to anyone outside of TIC, until now. With that said, those of you who are reading this can consider yourself privileged and in for a substantial treat. You are going to love Me Language. The best word to describe it is “fun”. The general idea behind ML is quite simple: You rename things and places, giving them a unique name that is your own creation and exclusive to you (naming of people would be considered as Branding, refer to the Branding section of this book for more info). You then proceed to always refer to those things and places by using your unique names for them in place of their original names. It's like completely replacing certain words in your own personal vocabulary, as if the original words never even existed at all. This really sounds like something that has nothing to do with seduction at all, doesn't it? That's what I used to think as well, but let me explain what I discovered about this fun technique that completely changed my mind: I accidentally stumbled upon this concept because it was something I've occasionally done naturally without understanding it's role in seduction. I've always had the right type of personality that made me desire to rename people to whatever I felt fitting (I nickname most people within 5 minutes of meeting them if I know that I'll be around them often), so it was only a matter of time before I began renaming places and things as well. I personally have Me Language for many different things, but one in particular I want to give as an example, because it was this one that made me realize how powerful ML can be when used purposely for seduction purposes.

MY Way Is Better Ever since they became popular enough for men to begin using them, I've called Loofahs “Woofahs”. The name Loofah always seemed too fagish to me, so I had to give it a name that I thought was better and didn't make me feel dumb when saying it. I've never called them anything other than Woofahs and will call them that even when in front of those who have no idea that my Me Language even exists. To me they actually are Woofahs, and there is no such thing as a Loofah. It's kind of like how people say that if you tell a lie too many times you will begin to believe that it is true yourself. The same rules apply here, once you call something by an alternative name for long enough, it will just seem to you as if that is the real name for it. Whenever I'd be in the shower with a woman, I'd say something like “The black Woofah is

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mine, don't touch my Woofah”. They'd ask why I call it that, then usually try to correct me by saying “No, it's Loofah!”. I'd love it when they would do this because I'd then proceed to play a childish “Yes huh/nuh uh” game with them, which is great for advanced rapport building and is fun as well. Not to mention that those kind of games usually lead to play fighting, and we all know what play fighting leads to. Uh huh. This made me realize just how much of a positive effect my Me Language was having on my overall game, so I then began digging even deeper to find out exactly how I could increase this “bonus” by doing it intentionally instead of just accidentally as I had been previously doing. In the rest of this section I will be explaining to you exactly what I found out, and how you can use this technique to your advantage in different ways and situations.

You Copycat! Once you've made ML a part of your daily life and begin using it around all of the women that you socialize with, it will start a chain reaction. ML has a viral effect similar to the way that normal slang tends to spread like a virus, infecting everyone caught in it's path. This is because slang is fun, and those who use it and are always first to know the “new shit” are socially labeled as being cool. Me Language works just like this, and once you've used it around a particular woman, or anyone for that matter, they will always join in on the fun. For some reason women in particular seem to be fascinated by Me Language, and I believe this is so because it is reminiscent of the way that they would make up “code language” and word games among their group of closest friends when they were little girls. Even if a woman appears to be initially opposed to your creative use of ML and sudden urges to rename anything that you choose, eventually they all will end up playing along to some degree, because the concept of ML is simply too fun for them to resist. It's infectious. Since ML has such contagious properties, a woman will begin to use it herself after hearing you use it numerous times, then will slip and use it when you aren't there. When this happens, she will more than likely automatically think about you, and how much more fun being with you is compared to what she is currently doing.

Look at What I Got... If you are in a relationship and other women hit on you, do not try to hide it from your girl! This is a perfect opportunity to demonstrate your value and show her that she has something special, and make her work harder to keep you. If a woman gives you her number, tell your girl about it, show her the number and then let her watch you destroy it or throw it away. This will increase her trust for you because she will believe that you won't keep secrets from her, and it will also demonstrate that you are still in demand and other women want you. She will realize that you are a prize and that she could potentially lose you if she does not act properly to your liking. She will also feel “replaceable”. Ironically, this is all good for a healthy relationship and it will help to keep you in control of it. Also, don't be afraid to lightly flirt with other women even when your girl is with you, a little jealousy never hurt anyone and will help provide the drama that every woman loves to have in their life.

This usually results in her calling you and saying “I was just thinking about you and decided to see what you were up to.”

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Women will always typically have an urge to call you whenever you pop into their mind, and ML does a great job at increasing the frequency at which this happens. This is why Me Language is most effective when used constantly around women that you already have a slightly advanced relationship with.

The Perfect “Bonding” Tool I'll say this straight up: Me Language is meant to be used almost exclusively during stage 10 of the WOW System. It can be used during any stage of the system, and is effective at just about any time besides for stage 1, but during stage 10 this technique works phenomenally. Me language is not very effective when used right away, and can make you seem strange if you attempt to use it on a woman that you've just met minutes ago. With that in mind, you should steer clear from using ML during the first stage of the WOW System. Me Language is highly effective during stage 10 of the system and is specifically tailored to be used at that time, however in some rare cases you can use them as Reference Points during stages 6 and 8. These rare cases are identified by a conversation that you have with a woman during stage 6 or 8 that is based upon your Me Language in some way. For example: While you are out on a date with a HB, some guy tries to hate on you by making a rude comment. You call his bluff and get in his face, then he backs down... You: “That guy was such a Noodle.” HB: “What's a Noodle?” You: “Guys who act tough when they aren't.” HB: “Why do you call them Noodles?” You: “Because they are like limp noodles, all full of talk but in the end they can't perform or back up any of their hype. They're as useless as a limp dick.” HB: (laughing) “Your so cute the way you think of these things.” The Reference Point has now been laid down, you can then Refer Back to it when you need to use a comment such as “I'm not a Noodle like those other guys you are used to dating, I know exactly what I want” to break down any LMR she may have when you are trying to get into her pants. This will trigger in her mind the memory of how you punked that guy during the date, and she will remember how alpha you were and then she'll spread like butter. Women find it very sexy when a man stands up for himself, so reminding her of that will help to get her aroused enough for you to get what you desire. Noodle is an actual word in my own ML that I use on a daily basis. My GF and everyone else around me has caught on and also uses the term regularly. If you knew me, so would you.

Language Is Unforgettable It's almost impossible to appear to be boring when you use Me Language, because it instantly makes you seem unpredictable and unique. This leaves a lasting impression on most women, and in most cases you will become unforgettable to women because they will have grown attached to your ML. Every time she thinks about your ML, she will think about you. It is for

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this same reason that people in my age group will always think about the Ninja Turtles every time that we think about the slang version of the word “Radical”, because that is where the term originated. The same goes for the word “Nookie”, we will always think of Limp Bizkit when we hear that word because they were who made it universally popular. Using Me Language guarantees that others will view you as being someone that has a fun outlook on life and rarely ever takes anything seriously. That is the type of person that other people like to be around, so in turn they will come around more often and be even more exposed to your ML, resulting in an endless cycle that only improves your chances of successfully getting with any or all of the woman that are within your social circle. For an example of just how powerful ML can be, and just how far it can spread, what if I told you that a term that first originated from my own lips and mind is now frequently being used by all of the youth in two of USA's most major cities, and even used by radio personalities on the local Hip Hop radio stations in those areas and by the music artists who live there? The above is no lie, and if you are a resident of Philadelphia, New York or the Delaware County area you will know why in a moment, because you are my proof.

Everything Is A Jawn Jawn (pronounced like lawn, pawn or dawn) Those of you who are familiar with this term, you now know where it all started. I personally coined this term during the summer of 2000 while staying in Wildwood, NJ for that summer. Myself and a group of close friends began to constantly use it for the duration of that summer, and because we were exposed to thousands of people over those few months by being the center of attention at hundreds of parties (if you were there that summer, you probably have even met me), it became a hit and started spreading like wild fire. It's now the most commonly used slang term in the Philadelphia area, even used more frequently than international slang like the word “dubs”. The main reason for this is because Jawn is a universal slang term, and can be used for just about anything. For example: Normal Version: “I was driving the car.” Jawn Version: “I as driving the jawn.” Normal Version: “Look at that chick over there.” Jawn Version: “Look at that jawn over there.” Normal Version: “Damn, this song is hot!” Jawn Version: “Damn, this jawn is hot!” Jawn originated from the term “Joint” that was typically first used by DJs in reference to songs. “We got all the hot joints here on Hot 97,” for example. The funny thing about Jawn was, after that summer ended I moved down to Florida with one of the friends that had helped me give the term exposure and we stayed there for 2 years. When we moved back to Philly we came to find that our term had become widespread.

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The friend I am referring to now goes by the name Paragon, ring any bells? Now if you think that the way Jawn has grown is impressive, watch the movie Men in Black 2. In the movie, Will Smith (a Philadelphia native) calls his new and improved MIB car his “new hot jawn” when first showing it to Tommy Lee Jones after he “de-neurolizes” him. Also, rappers Beanie Sigel and Freeway (both Philadelphia residents) have used the term Jawn numerous times on many of their albums and mix tapes. Many New Yorkers will argue the fact that Jawn originated in New York, while those in Philadelphia will claim it was coined in their city. Both are wrong however, the term was first used in New Jersey. Of course, Jawn has grown much too large to be considered as being ML anymore, as once a particular term becomes used by everyone it looses all of the exclusive appeal that makes ML effective for seduction. The above was simply used to show you just how far my own Me Language has gone, and how far you can take your own as well. For more info on Jawn, check it out at the urban dictionary: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=jawn

Wrapping Up I have many other personal ML terms that I use, but those will remain secret for now because I want you to develop your own ML, not simply copy mine. The whole idea behind ML is that it originates from you. It is also very important that you always remain congruent with your Me Language, meaning that once you rename something you must always refer to it by using your custom name instead of it's original name, you can not simply call something a unique name only one time and expect this to work. ML is highly effective when used properly, so use it well. Here are a few more basic guidelines that will help put you on the right track: - Always make your new name “cooler” than the original version. - No corny names, the right thing to shoot for is cute, funny or creative. - Use ML to further your impression on a woman during stage 10. - Don't be afraid to use your ML in group situations, it's cool remember? - Your ML can make interesting conversations happen when others ask about it. - Use your ML as reference points whenever the opportunity to do so arises.

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Stages 10 & 11

Status Symbols

Status is a critical tool for building any type of relationship, and as we know, status is a crucial aspect of any PUA's game. It is an extremely versatile tool which, if you have it, will make your job a hell of a lot easier when it comes to all stages of the WOW system. However, status is most important during the first three stages, since it is during these stages that the majority of your rejections and failures will occur. However, status on its own is not enough when we are talking about long term relationships and the final two stages if the system. We all know that women will chase men of high status, and even compete with other women for these men. Yet why do we see women who marry millionaires bang the pool-cleaner on the side? Why is there an attraction deficit when it comes to her husband even though his swollen pockets grant him very high social status? The Answer: Providing for a woman does not create loyalty in a woman. She may find out that the CEO is crap in the sack, or even just average, but she married him. Now what? Editor's Note: If you use your money to win over a woman, she will never respect you, she will only respect your wallet. That is, unless she finds a way to abuse it. In the beginning, when we were all running around in the Savannah, there was only one type of alpha male: the Primal Alpha. He was the leader of the pack, had the status, was the provider and would lay the smack down on anyone who even contemplated challenging his status. However, our modern world has shut off most men from ever achieving this state. In modern society, having status gets you women, but doesn't mean that you can keep them or that they will be faithful. Women are drawn to wealth and to a man's ability to provide, yet most men are AFC and don't act as men should when it comes to women.

Small Town Pimping... If you live in a small town then your gaming style might be a little different than someone who lives in the big city. In a place where everyone knows everyone, your status is of the utmost importance, so try not to burn any bridges. Always keep as many girls finding you attractive as possible. Chances are, if you like a girl and find out you both know the same people and her friends hate you than it is going to make your life a lot harder. Verses if you had already pre-gamed her friends and they like you, they are going to tell your target how great and sexy you are. Your reputation is much more important in a more rural setting than it is in the city where you will be meeting new people every day.

This forces many women to look for the rest of the alpha package elsewhere, usually finding it in men who are not providers at all. The woman is trying to find the complete alpha package but modern society forces her to split it between two or more men! By doing this, the woman is simply doing what she is instinctively driven to do, to get the best of both worlds: The AFC provider and the alpha sex machine. Each of these types gives the

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women what she wants: security and protection on one hand, and a sense of adventure and good sex on the other. This isn't the woman's fault, she is just following her mental programming. It is her husband's fault for not being the best man that he can be. Note: We are not trying to justify the way in which some cheating women behave, but rather teach you have to avoid falling into this trap that many AFC men need to face. Moving forward, how does this apply to the WOW? By using the WOW, we can combine all of these alpha qualities into the true, Primal Alpha which is inherent within all of us. Doing this will turn you into the ultimate man that all women seek, and as a result they will always be seeking you out. Also, keeping a woman will become something you will not even need to think about, let alone battle with.

Getting Status With that being said, you may still ask: “That's nice, you can talk all you want about how status helps you and how you have it, but since I am still on my way to transforming my life and I'm on minimum wage, how do I get status?” Think of the last party that you went to. Do you remember the guy who everyone was chasing around? The one who ran into the shower room and exposed two girls kissing yet they didn't mind in the slightest? The guy who everyone wanted to be around? In other words, the guy that you wished to be more like? He had status. Chances are he was a guy on minimum wage or stuck in a dead end job, but regardless of that he still had status and power. Why? Because he was an alpha male! If you are alpha you will have status as well, because you are the life and soul of the party. You are the chocolate cake that everyone wants a piece of. This is the essence of status! You do not need money to have high status; see Perfection Inside for more details. Be the alpha and you will have status. When you are in a club and approaching groups of girls and they are all enjoying themselves around you, outsiders will notice. This means that other girls will wonder about you, and will push their curiosity buttons and they will want to see what all of the fuss is about. They have seen other girls enjoying themselves around you, and in their eyes that has put you a lap in front of every other guy in the club. If you have money, you have status as a provider. If you are a fun guy who is confident, outgoing, and already liked by many people, then you have status as an alpha. What we want to do is combine the two.

Keeping Your Status “I have status as a fun-loving alpha, but how can I make sure I'm the rock star in her life?”

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To keep the status you need to be the bad boy as mentioned above. A man with status knows that he has options in life, including women. This means that he doesn't pedestal. He knows that he can replace any girl with ease, and isn't afraid to let women know that he holds that power no matter what kind of relationship he is in. However, remember that your status can be taken away just as fast as you have achieved it. Lets say you re-visit a club with an onlooker you picked up after leaving 3 girls at a club that you left because you thought it was cheesy (remember that since you have status, they should follow you, so don't feel that you have to chase them around everywhere). You start to display horrible body language in front of this girl and thus you don't live up to your alpha status. What happens? She leaves. You try and pick up another girl, but she wasn't there the last time, so she hasn't seen you in your zone. She has only witnessed your behavior since you re-entered the club. You are back with the rest of the guys rather than a pace in front. You have no status in her eyes at all. However, if you move to another club and see the 3 girls again, instantly your status is back. They weren't unlucky enough to witness your disgusting behavior! How do you avoid situations like this? Don't be needy, and keep the alpha status 24/7. You know how you go to a club and see a guy or girl getting chased or having fun one week, then the next you see them again you remember that they have status? This will work for you too!

The Importance of Status After reading this article it should be obvious. When onlookers see that you have status, you get a peg ahead in there eyes, which makes them much easier to pick up because they are a sucker for you. Women love nothing more than to know that their man is desired by other girls, so seeing you being the leader of the pack entertaining a group gives you a tick on any onlooking woman's list who you attempt to pick up later in the night. When you are at the bar, they may even approach you depending on the type of women that they are, and if you are properly utilizing Passive Openers. Believe me, it happens all of the time. The bottom line is this: if you have status, you already have one hand down a woman's panties. You still need your game to get the other hand in (and “other” things), but it would certainly take something out of character to royally mess it up for you!

The Alpha The alpha is the guy that the women think has the genes that she is programmed to want to pass on to the next generation. If you're reading this then that includes you, since you have shown that you have the smarts and the strength to make the transition to the way men are supposed to be. However, can you show those same qualities while you are around women?

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The AFC Provider This is the guy who makes a six-figure salary but is a complete nerd. You think Bill Gates got his wife with game? Hell no! He thinks that money will turn a woman on by itself, which it won't unless you are in a bordello. The AFC provider will provide security and protection for the woman and also for any children, which may or may not be his. Take the example of a Sultan and his harem: if all of the harem girls were absolutely attracted to him because of his position, why would he need to castrate all the eunuchs? Answer: you can satisfy some of the harem all of the time, and you can satisfy all of the harem some of the time, but you can't satisfy all of the harem all of the time!

Stage 10 So, how does this work when we apply it to the WOW system? By combining these lost two parts of the primal alpha in equal proportions we will achieve the ultimate balance. This is what Stage 10 aims for with it's balance of interest, attraction and trust confirmation. Men who have status on it's own fall prey to the trap of fulfilling trust and (possibly) interest confirmation, but omitting attraction confirmation. When this intermediate step is skipped, it creates an attraction deficit. Therefore, the woman looks elsewhere to satisfy it.

Status Symbols Status serves to reinforce interest and trust confirmation in stage 10. However, attraction confirmation requires Status Symbols to reinforce itself. The basic theory of status symbols is this: whilst you are in attraction confirmation and are applying negs and various other techniques, you must elicit the use of symbols which are indicative of your high status. This will imprint in the woman's subconscious mind that you are both a "bad boy jerk" and a provider. Your negs might even need to be a bit harsher than usual. Many people will occasionally do these unconsciously. In a way, they are a combination of a neg and an indicator of status (besides the neg itself being an indicator of status, of course). Status Symbols are diverse. Some examples of the use of Status Symbols include: 1) Severely negging your girlfriend when she visits you at work (where you are the boss). 2) Jokingly mentioning your "six other girlfriends" while you cuddle after sex: Her: "So, how many other girls do you treat like this?" Me: "I don't know, I've only got ten fingers."

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3) If you live together, moving all of her stuff off of the shelf to make room for your trophies and medals, then being cold about it. Money doesn't work well when used as a status symbol. If you neg someone when you're giving them money, it's almost like you're paying them to go away. When you reach stage 11 and begin the cycle of love, keep in mind that you need to balance two forces at play in a woman's mind: her need for a Provider; and her carnal desire for the alpha. You can easily be both for her if you can learn to occasionally give her status symbols to reassure her that you are the man that she needs and desires.

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The Emotion Overflow Connection

Stage 10

Every day people encounter what I call the "Emotion Overflow Connection." Up until now, nobody has put words to the phenomenon that occurs when someone experiences an overwhelming amount of emotion with someone else. In essence, an Emotional Overflow Connection occurs when a person shares a strong emotional experience with another person or a group of people, and this results in an abnormally strong bond between those people.

Examples of the Connection The most famous and scientifically observed example of this connection is known as the "Stockholm Syndrome." The Stockholm Syndrome occurs when someone is kidnapped or held hostage and an illogical and amazingly strong bond is created with the captor. The kidnapper did an awful thing to the kidnapped person and a significant emotionally charged experience occurred between the two (although negative). Despite that, numerous cases have been documented showing that the captured person shows sympathy, attraction and even love for a person that did such a tragic thing to him or her. Examples also exist in many life threatening situations. On the news you will often hear of a story where some man saved another person's life and you will always see the two of them embracing. Whether a fireman saved a girl from a burning building or whether a terrorist attack occurred, people who experienced the same emotional overflow together will usually share an abnormally strong bond with the person whom they experienced it with.

Only One Controls... During my first experiences with the game, all I wanted was a girlfriend. I would do anything possible to attain one, and it showed in all of my actions every time I talked to a girl I was interested in. Ironically enough, this was why I had such a problem with getting one. Each girl that I would get close with, I would always get tunnel-vision and focus solely on her. I would completely disregard any other girls and focus all of my energy on getting this girl. Each and every time, I kept thinking that “This one will be the one,” and the more I tried, they just kept slipping away. Eventually I learned what I was doing wrong and made a change, and this is what those painful interactions served to teach me. You should never make one woman, or any woman for that matter, a priority. Always be focused on more than one woman. This will help you from getting tunnel-vision, one-itis, and a whole host of problems that come with the neediness attached with focusing on one girl. Only one person is ever in control of a relationship or interaction. The person that needs the other person more is always the one that will be the weaker party, the one not in control. If a girl ever starts to think that you are dependent on her or that you are really obsessed with the relationship, all the attraction that she has had for you will definitely disappear. A woman will never make you a priority in her life if you don’t have something to offer her. A guy who wants a girl more than anything in the world has nothing to offer her. Focus on yourself first and women second!

Think about the first time you had sex. Odds are it was emotional and important to you so you felt a strong need to share your emotions and love your partner and be loved back by your partner. Sex is just a necessary function in order to reproduce so why feel such a strong bond with your partner? It is because of the Emotional Overflow Connection.

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Using the Connection to Your Advantage You know that cute girl you have had your eye on for the last few months? You want her to feel strongly emotionally connected and attracted to you, don't you? Sounds like a perfect opportunity to create a strong emotional situation. This can be done in a variety of situations that are left up to you. Watch an emotional movie with the cute girl like “The Notebook”. Do you doubt that you two will be comforting and cuddling each other when you both are crying at how emotional the movie is? Welcome to the power of the Emotional Overflow Connection. Are you aware of a loss of attraction in your long term relationship partner? An emotional overflow situation with your partner will strengthen that connection. Once again the options are limitless, but here is an example: Your girlfriend loved how one morning you woke up early after some lovemaking the night before and bought her a yellow rose. Recreate the same situation except let her awaken to the bed being totally sprinkled with yellow rose petals. This will bring her back to the same strong emotions she felt for you after you first impressed her after a normal night of lovemaking. In order to have a strong emotional experience with a woman, you'll need to have a woman next to you. Is there a woman next to you right now? Why not put one there?

Limitless Opportunities Through examples of the Stockholm Syndrome, life threatening situations, sex and others it is clear that a strong connection is felt after a strong emotional experience. The advanced PUA knows how to use this to his advantage and create emotionally strong experiences at any stage of the game for him to share with the girl he is gaming.

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Stage 11 Techniques

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Stage 11

Complete Cycle of Love Introduction

Sometimes doing something thoughtful for someone else will actually help you fall for the person you are with more and will help you feel more happy and satisfied in your current relationship. Am I telling you to kiss her ass? Hell no! You give her something and get something in return. It is alright to be romantic with your girl once in a while. It is actually healthy to do so. Do not over due it though or else it will loose it's touch. Doing little things once in a while is worth more than doing them all the time would. Most things in life are like this, when done in moderation are much more meaningful and satisfying then when done constantly. This technique allows you to go through a complete cycle of love with simply just one technique alone. Instead of starting traditionally at stage 9, we will be starting at stage 10, then to 9, then 11 and back to 10. It is good to switch things up like this once in a while to keep your girl on her toes and always guessing what is going to happen next. Always leave her wanting more! If you give her everything that she desires, she may just end up seeking something else, possibly even from someone else. What you are going to be doing is giving her a sensual massage, fucking her brains out, then being romantic. The way to go about doing it most effectively and using this to complete a full cycle of love at the same time will be the following: Note: You do not have to use this exact example. Anything will do as long as it follows the same guidelines. This example just happens to work so well that I am going to write about the technique using this example.

The Technique Stage 10 Interest: Tell her that you are going to do something really nice for her, but do not tell her what it is. Tell her that she is going to like it a lot! Ask her if she can guess what it is. Have her take time off of work or designate a certain day to do what you have been planning and make sure that she is free during that time. Drop hints as to what you are going to do, but be very vague about it. Do not let her figure out what is going to happen. Tell her that it is something she has done before and has really liked it. She will leave with the biggest smile on her face. Do not tell her if it is an event or something you do with someone. Just tease her with the idea. Tell her there are going to be 4 parts to it.

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Tell her that each one is totally different than the previous one and the one following it, but they all flow together perfectly. Just like dinner and a movie are totally different yet flow together. Tell her it's not a dinner and a movie, and is 4 separate things. It will be on her mind all day, everyday until that day. Attraction: The attraction is created when she comes over. Start teasing her about what it is. Take her upstairs and to the spot where you are going to seduce her. Take off her clothes, put on some baby-making music, pull out the oil and start giving her a massage. If you can, make it last as long as your fingers can stand. Thirty minutes should be enough.

Stage 9 Sex: For the next stage lean over and whisper into her ear. "You know in the massage parlors, they have this one thing that they do at the end of a massage. Ever hear of a happy ending?" Reach down and start to finger her for a little bit, then reach above and stimulate her clitoris. Get her even more sexually excited. Once she is hot and horny, undress yourself and start having sex with her. The interesting part about this is, you are having sex with her and it is like you are doing her a favor.

Stage 11 Love: After you please her and yourself sexually, you are going to start acting romantic. Take her downstairs and you have the option of cooking for her if you so desire. You can cuddle with her as well during this time. The main idea is to be romantic with her and show her how much you care for her, as well as letting her know that this just wasn't “all about sex”. Another suggestion is to buy her a card and fill it out and leave it on her pillow at home for when she gets home from work. Even better yet, leave her a little love letter. Do you know that in this day-and-age most women have never even received one real love letter (not counting stupid high school notes or stuff written by needy AFC's they don't like). It's true!

Law of Outer Game: No Apologies... Never apologize for anything that does not merit a genuine apology. This is particularly important when it comes to negs, because if you apologize to a woman after giving her a neg it will cancel out any progress that the neg would have made for you. Many men who are not fully experienced with negging tend to follow up their negs with statements like: "I'm just teasing you", "I'm playing" or "Sorry, I was joking". These are all apologies, and doing this is a huge mistake, you'd be better off not negging at all if you are going to apologize for it. Of course, if you do something like accidentally hit someone in the face or spill their drink then you should apologize, but do not apologize for things that you do intentionally!

Doing this could possibly be something that she'd never forget. Even though it is an AFC thing to do, it can be utilized to good effect when done properly and very sparingly. We suggest only leaving her a love letter once or twice to avoid getting a LJBF speech.

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Stage 10 Trust: Trust comes into play when the whole thing is completed. You set her up and told her something was going to happen. There is a lot of potential for disappointment and being let down. You followed through with the surprise that you had promised for her. So in a days time you have completed the 4 surprises that you promised: back massage, sex, cooking for her or cuddling, leaving her a sweet card, love letter or a rose on her bed.

Being Her Fairy Tale Doing random and spontaneous things like this will definitely set you apart from all the other men that she has dated. It makes you different, and women like different. The chances are extremely high that no other man has done something like this for her before. You are trying to play off of the fairy tale love story with this technique. Make her wonder how much more there is to you. What other sides does he possess? You will be on her mind for a while after doing this for her. Be her fairy tale and allow her to live out her fantasy, because she'll love you for it. I bet that you've never in your life read a book that constantly begged you to stop reading and go do something else. It's just another reason why we are the coolest.

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Universal Techniques

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Universal

Cherry Picking

Ever been talking to a woman and the conversation suddenly stalls like an old 1979 Toyota junker? The difference is that unlike your old car, no matter how much you try to kick it, pat it, hit the gas or pop the clutch in vain, this puppy isn’t going anywhere! Most guys who aren’t car experts will get mad, curse a little bit and walk away without the car going anywhere. Wouldn’t it be nice to have a mechanic on the spot? Whenever you feel the car sputtering and giving the tell-tale signs of stalling, you could call on the mechanic and he would give you a start every single time. Well, we at The Inner Circle can not help you with you car troubles, but we can give you a metaphorical “instant mechanic” for you conversations with women! When most guys approach a woman, the majority of the time they worry about not having anything to say. This leads to them scrambling for words, ironically leaving them with none. Once this dreaded cycle begins to go into motion, the conversation turns horribly awkward, forced and boring. Sometimes, feeling dejected and like he cannot hold an interesting conversation, the guy will walk away after too many long, awkward pauses when he knows for certain that the interaction isn’t going anywhere. Other times, feeling froggy, he will try and continue the conversation, often times asking what she does for a living or other boring rapport seeking questions. Continuing on the car theme, situations like this are like a car wreck; you want to look away, but you just can’t. Finding the right words to say to a woman is to some harder than brain surgery or advanced calculus. Fortunately, you don’t need any degree to understand what you’re about to learn. However, carrying a conversation can even cause the most advanced of PUA’s problems once in a while. This technique, called Cherry-Picking, works for any situation when you need some quick material to jump-start a conversation, material for a whole conversation or simply something funny and entertaining to tease your TOI about. Cherry-Picking, like some conversational techniques out there, will never lead you down a boring path of conversation since the TOI is already talking to begin with, or you take a statement by your TOI and mold it to continue the interaction down the fun path of your choosing. You will get no stale, used-up, “Do you come here often?” conversations going when using this technique!

Cherry-Bombing The purpose of the first use of CherryPicking is finding “hooks” in a woman’s

Law of Outer Game: Eyes Off the Prize... While you are out sarging, it is important to avoid having "tunnel vision" and only focusing your energy on sets that contain potential targets. Talking to as many people as possible within the venue regardless of what they have to offer is an extremely effective strategy, and can lead to some very interesting and beneficial interactions. Doing this also puts you into a fun, talkative mood very quickly. For example, if you were to open a fake set (Houdini Set) that contains 3 women who are all low-quality, then eject from that set and head right into a set that has two 10's in it, you will most likely be more successful in the "real set" than you would have been if you had just rushed right into it before opening the Houdini Set.

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sentence and cherry-picking a new thread from that hook to either continue a stale conversation while building it back up again, or to simply build up a good conversation until it is necessary to switch to a different technique. Cherry picking can also be used in conjunction with most other techniques, if you can handle it of course. When using Cherry-Picking for this purpose, you must first pick out a hook to choose from in a woman’s statement during conversation. TOI: "Wow! I can’t believe you would do that! That’s so funny. That was just like what happened to me at the beach last year. " *** In this case, the beach is the hook that you will use for Cherry-Picking *** PUA: "The beach? Nothing like that happens there, quit trying to impress me with lies." TOI: *Kino* "I'm telling the truth! While my friends and I were at Red Lobster we saw this huge fight in the parking lot!" *** In this statement, her friends and the fight are the Cherry-Picking hooks *** PUA: "So tell me, how badly did you and your friends get beaten up? I hope there was a hospital nearby, you poor thing." As you can see, just take a word from her statement, then craft any response that you want from it. Repeat this as many times as you like! Shown in the above conversation, it is not necessary to always ask a question while using Cherry-Picking, as that gets monotonous very quickly.

Shake it up There is another version of Cherry-Picking that is a little more fun, and is perfect for teasing your TOI. Find any words that can be twisted, have different meanings and can be turned around on her to make it look like she is being dirty, making moves on you, making you look good, or anything of the sort. The object of this is to be fun and playful with her, while allowing things an easy way to get a little naughty. TOI: *Ordering drink* "I’ll have a Heineken." PUA: "Oh, so you want to grab Ken's Heinee, you pervert. What did he do that warrants sexual harassment, you know us guys aren't just a piece of meat." TOI: *Ordering food* "I’ll have the mushrooms!" PUA: "Oh, so you like fungi’s. I'm a fun-guy, no wonder you adore me."

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TOI: "I used to love Santa Claus!" PUA: "What, are you into slave driving womanizers? All he ever talks about are his hoes! I guess the North Pole is what he makes his hoes “dance” on!"

Ready for the Market With Cherry-Picking, you can go from being strapped for words in a conversation to having a playful, fun time with any girl in no time at all. The beauty of Cherry-Picking is its versatility; it can be used as a life-raft when you are barely staying afloat, or as a launching pad to take your conversation to unheard of heights at any time. Having Cherry-Picking ready to use will ensure that all of your interactions will stay out of the “boring” zone and also safe-guard you against ever running out of things to say!

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Universal

The Beta-fier This is a highly effective AMOG disabling sleeved technique.

It's a Jungle Out There You are going to face competition from other men while you are in the field, there's simply no way around it. The competitiveness of the dating game is unrivaled by just about every other activity you could choose to partake in. Other guys will always be there to try to blow you out of a set and will use every trick that they know in an attempt to close a woman before you. Most men are AFC's however, and pose no threat to you as a PUA. What I am talking about here is the small percentage of the male population that has natural game. The competition gets even thicker when you are shooting for very high caliber women, as they are the most sought after commodity on this planet after the sun goes down and will attract much more attention than your average woman. These beautiful women also tend to serve as alpha-magnets, so the competition that you will be facing is the toughest out there. Most of the men who have the balls to even approach a top shelf woman will at least have had some level of consistent success with women in the past.

Lions, Tigers and Big Meat Heads How do you deal with all of these other guys who are all after the same thing you are? You could leave the outcomes to chance, desperately hoping to come out on top and be the “chosen one” when a woman decides who to give her number to. You could also back off and move on to the next woman as soon as competition presents itself to avoid possible conflict. You could even purposely seek out venues with very little competition in order to thin out the other guys and increase your chances of success through sheer woman-to-man ratio. However, all of that isn't very alpha is it? Would a real man do any of the above? Nope. Here's why: 1) You can't leave the outcomes to chance, because almost all of the time your competitors will not be so lazy as to do the same. They'll just do whatever it takes to go beyond what you've done, and as a result they will beat you every time. 2) You can't back off when you are challenged, because all of your status will diminish and you will be labeled as someone who is afraid to stand up for himself. Don't get pushed around, because women are simply not attracted to men who have no balls. 3) You can't seek out venues with very little competition, it's lame and is a waste of time. AFC's are always say things like “Dude there were twice as many girls there as there were

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guys!” True PUA's don't care about how many girls are there, because if there's only one HB in the building, they'll just out-game everyone else and get her.

You Can't Quit, You Can't Hide and You Can't Run So what can you do? You can beat the competition at their own game, silly. If you haven't noticed, you are reading the most advanced guide to picking up women ever written. That fact alone puts you far ahead of the rest, but the technique that you are about to learn will place you even further. You are about to learn how to completely destroy any and all competition in the field. The ironic part is that you will accomplish this by telling your targets to choose the competition! It sounds crazy, but hey, the best stuff always does.

Beta-fy That Fool! The purpose of this technique is to strategically disable your competition by manipulating the social dynamic in a mischievous way that will greatly reduce their perceived social value (Roaming Value) within the venue. This is all executed indirectly and if done properly will not seem as if you've done it intentionally. In reality, to the AMOG that you will Beta-fy it will even seem as if you were trying to help him pull the target, and you simply failed. The end result will be the target being forced to reject him even if she did not intend to do so, and his status hitting rock bottom because of that rejection. The target will reject him because you will present her with a challenge that she will need to reject in order to maintain her own status. Simply put, you will ask her to do something that she can not accept. You will ask her to kiss him. I bet it sounds even more crazy now, doesn't it? Well, in a way it is kind of crazy, but that doesn't change the fact that this works like a charm just about every time. You see, if she were to accept your challenge and kiss him, she would be breaking every rule that females follow to avoid appearing to be “easy”. If she has any self respect (which she should if you are truly after a woman that is worthy of your attention) she will decline this invitation immediately.

Pucker Up, Mr. AMOG The way that you go about actually performing the act of asking her to kiss Mr. AMOG holds little value in the greater scheme of things. You can just say it out of the blue, or you can direct the flow of the conversation in a manner that will allow your challenge to seemingly be a natural thing to say at that time. You can even talk to the AMOG beforehand and pretend as if you want to wing with him, telling him that you will help him pull this girl if he's willing to return the favor later on in the night.

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As I said earlier, the method that you choose to use does not matter, the only thing of importance is that you dare the target to kiss him in some way. This should be done in a very playful/carefree fashion and you should appear to not have any underlying motive for doing this other than that you are just curious to see what she will do. After you ask her to kiss him, do not say anything else in an attempt to challenge her further or convince her to do it. Let her make the decision on her own.

The Predictable Choice She will not do it, as there are simply way too many factors that are working against her doing as you've requested. Her friends are watching, and if she does kiss him she'd be running the risk of getting a big red stamp on her forehead that says “slut”. Her high status would also be in serious jeopardy if she did it, and she's spent most of her adult life climbing the social mountain to get up there. There's no way she'll risk throwing it all away over one kiss. Finally, the mere fact that it was you who asked her to kiss him instead of him doing it himself will force an automatic “no” out of her mouth. The first thing that she will think is that you must be testing her to see if she is promiscuous or not, and if she kisses him she will fail. If by chance she does kiss him, then she's a slut and your assumptions of her being a quality HB were incorrect. In that case just let the AMOG have her, let him get the STD's. There's about ten thousand other reasons why she will reject the kiss, and about two reasons why she might go ahead and do it. The bottom line is that 99.99% of the time, any self respecting woman will say no in this situation, and that's what you want.

The Aftermath By her rejecting the kiss, she is also being forced to reject him against her will. Everyone nearby will believe that she is not attracted to him, and his social standing in that area will hit the floor (I guess it's not standing at all anymore then). With his status gone, there's no way he can pull her now even if she was initially attracted to him. The AMOG will also believe that she has no attraction for him because she seemingly does not favor the idea of kissing him, plus he will be totally embarrassed and his ego will be temporarily shattered. With one simple suggestion you have essentially just turned this alpha male into a beta male in everyone's eyes. The idiot got Beta-fied. Almost all of time, this results in the AMOG ejecting out of the set gracefully as soon as he possibly can. He may stay for a few more minutes just to save face and not look like he is running away, but trust me, he'll be leaving. It's amazing how you can force a guy to be rejected by a woman so easily. It's almost like you rejected him for her! Good riddance Mr. Beta. Oops, I mean Alpha. Note: You can also use a lighter version of this if asking her to kiss him would be too extreme

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for the situation and inadvertently make you look bad in the process. Some alternative methods would be to ask her if he is her type, if she would consider dating him, if she thinks he is sexy or if she would go home with him if he asked her to. These methods are not as effective and do not guarantee the almost 100% success rate of the kiss method, but they will usually elicit a negative response from her as well. Disclaimer: We can not be held responsible if you get your ass kicked by using this technique improperly. This is dangerous ground that you will be treading on while using this strategy. If you Beta-ize a big alpha dude and then start talking smack to him about getting shot down, he'll probably just begin laying the smack down on you. Use this with a high amount of caution and be respectful to everyone at all times.

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Universal

How to Handle Player Haters

Haters. They come in all shapes, colors, sizes and both sexes. However, regardless of their physical or mental differences, they can all be dealt with in the same fashion, even in cases where their motivation differs from the norm. Every PUA has to deal with them occasionally, some of us perhaps even on a daily basis, so it's surprising to me that this remains a much neglected topic of discussion in the community. While there are numerous methods traded online for handling women, there is very little information on how to handle haters. This underrated subject has been widely overlooked, even by many of the most prominent seduction gurus of our time. I believe that everything in our universe has an exact opposite, which justifies the existence of the other and creates a balance between the two. Yin and Yang, so to speak. Everything needs an opposite because without it there would be no struggle, everything would become too easy and have no meaning. Haters are our opposite; if players are Yin, haters are Yang. Some of you that are not very experienced will probably think this is BS, but the truth remains: Having haters around is a good thing. Not just because of the fact that when women see people hating on you it will raise your value, but for other reasons as well. No lie. Allow me to explain: Once you've reached the level where you are completely comfortable with approaching and gaming women it is only a matter of time before you become very good at doing it, and success will be so frequent that you will feel no real challenge. Without the feeling of a worthy challenge, the whole dating and seduction thing will begin to feel dull and boring. You will lose that feeling of excitement that you once had just before you would approach a new woman, as well as that feeling of accomplishment that you felt after successfully getting her number. Don't get me wrong, the rewards are still worth it and you won't feel like you need to stop picking up women, it's just that much of the flare and excitement will be taken out of seduction once it becomes routine for you.

Evolve + Adapt = Conquer... From time to time when you find that your game or style of gaming is becoming boring and repetitive (especially if you use routines and canned material) it may be time to hit the reset button and begin to evolve. Invent new techniques, develop new mantras or even little tips to add to your game so it stays solid for the long term. You don't want to get bored of the same old skills, or even worse have the women in your area getting bored of you, so it is time polish your game up. It can be hard to understand your new style or concept, so take your time to adapt and gain new experience. Once you've fully adapted to it, proceed to use your new skills to conquer. Run drills to test the new styles, if they work use them, if not keep evolving. Direct game is best when new techniques are introduced to keep your confidence high and skills sharp at all times.

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that they are one of the only things in the dating game that will always stand in your way and offer a challenge. They keep the excitement going and add spice to your adventures in the field. If you can begin to look at haters this way, you will think of them more as jesters than enemies. They are here for our entertainment and pose no major threat to our success when we know how to properly deal with them. However, they will always remain a challenge, because like women, no two haters are alike. Enough of my theory, by now I'm sure you get the idea so let's move on to the actual techniques for handling haters with style:

Keep Them Sipping on That Haterade All of you should know by now that real PUA's never buy drinks for women that we are interested in, but there is no rule against buying drinks for people who are hating on us! Haters have their own type of "game" which determines how good they are at player hating, just like us players have game that determines how well we can pick up women. Most players’ game slowly fades away as the night goes on. If we are drinking, the more we drink the less chance we have of success (even though some of us don't want to admit it). Haters operate in a similar fashion, so it is essentially in our best interest to keep them as smashed as possible. So when you step back and think about it, buying drinks for haters is a good investment. Another bonus to this technique is that occasionally a hater will simply back off and allow you to run your game uninterrupted because they think you are "cool" now that you've bought them drinks. This doesn't occur often but it does happen, and you might even make an ally as well.

Some Food for Thought This nasty, scandalous approach is not for the feint of heart, this is an extreme example of a Sleeved Technique. Some of you may think this is too mean to do to someone, but I feel no remorse considering the fact that you are doing it to someone who has been deliberately cock blocking you. This works well on both male and female haters, but the only requirement is that you need to know the hater beforehand, and enough about them to know at least one person that they have slept with. This method works great in situations where a friend of yours that you go out with begins to ruin your game. The theory behind this technique is to hint at something horrible that will put the hater's mind into "worry mode" and keep them preoccupied with it while you continue to run your game. The best approach I've used is what I like to call the HIV clue. What you do is say something similar to: "Remember that chick Angela (