Bang: More Lays In 60 Days

Prologue 0 2001 by Roosh Valizadch http://www.rooshv.com

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It IWted Spring of 2001. I was 21·yurs-old and sp«rt my fro< tllM on tb< COIlIJ'UItrina!be plli- you lea ..il (.."d"" IrId pI.-.... than !he lillie _<epsoM 11>11 pnc:eded it.) AJ>d if )'011 ....'1quile nIoclI your p, 11>11'. oby ,_ The journey "'Im the - . p i of foil\n I ~ _ .......... you wiU be puIti!Ie younoIf .... '" chona 1hIllea>"e)'Oll with """ -1aI&c 011 how 10 __ 0Ied Ihan ""'""')'011 rtnt a.ted. You.,.. "foil'" 1I11)'OW" life bu! llill .... _ .... ,IhaI ...""" _ !bon _ who di&!',try . There ~ beaI Il0l_ ",iDw on . .l. lina 11>11 ..... it __ compliCllOd Ihan it ...... to be. K...., !be: ..'< • OIl)' boll cffeeII... by .net"",, your p l it> Ihi:a furmttI, '1 om aoiJII 10 _~~~ . " Now ....me 111M ... I small """'" of" popel" or. note e.d . .... ;\ ill )'011 wall.., E>nl. 10 )'0lIl" oompul'" monitor, on )'OW" bWomom wall, 00' III)" pl_ ........ )'011 will _ il II I.... once • woek. VIIUlIi.., lhe p i when you _ your words 10 .-iy your mind fOO'!he wort< .hud. Some productivily nperII '""""""'" you IIIIIo:h • dcodJiE>O IG your p l. For nornp\&: "1 ... Pa '0 01...., willi I mother aod oioupIct _ widoiEI ~" I don' . edviR Id !Uak. A. )'011 pia oIcil~ !heft ",II be pcoic iI ....... )'011 . . . . "...;m IUI>IlipIc pu ia 11I\00I."'" ,.IN or .i..... followed by ........... f.... oevend d_U.. A .. 0111 d . e 10 .; ,"~Ii ... )'IM . . . dul EIIOti....... )'OII to..:t il-.ah-

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.u.aive, )'OUr look i. " .. «i •..,;I eIi"......,y in doe eyeJ of dilf...... Plio. Thi ......... It.. " .... i'" J_ dtinb you ... t.ideouI baool. Sbcy """y Ihinl you ......., ""IT.I cl\ancter, 1\ :hol IhinU you ""' bia and ...-tw.d. tu: l.ourm thinb you will "" obk 10 po_ ...... The 1m! thi:l& you _ ",bon you look in doe mirror couI4 "")'OUr bia OM< 0< ""ldinll bead. but sirl. don'\ ...... in "" IIIew (ealWft-1hcy _ _ b your ... Ii,., look and ""set"",. The in ......... m.... 110"""" hi. unattrac· live bodylanl!U8!!' aion,. i. able to lell h.. lhat 1M! io noI I wortlIy ...,.ual partn .... Hi. meek eye cooloct and . Iouchy .ppc....c.. i•• physic.ol m..,if...cati"" of hi. thinking 100> of pme, you will "" -tile I(> oI ..ith Ii"'''"hotc fi,. ~ of your ." , .oce;' lca\tlm r.. ... a.~lo. Aft ..... "i"l into tbc pme. I ....so _ , . ,_ ,f","" dw C I(> my." Lea ., [ _ my foQZ)' m'ltIKN IIId CUI my ....... TboucIII trendy ciutobina clothes. and I wode4 out • tbc IY'" 10 build _Ie. 8U1 ..... 1 mI.y h'C'_tLina. bm.. i00i' OIlIer PlY. AIl ...... later I looked to my loft ond saw ~ I teroI ..ith hot boock LoWatdtt me. I ..... lked ~ to hot . . . MlAood _ Idtnoc boosL htIpt)'Oll do thinp like ljljlI"oadI airlt. V.... [IOal i. 10 im_ ..... )'CIII' ttlf-lmaae wi'" a cIIInje tIIIt pW you in. bouet mood 10 71

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C!:::. :~ ~tbe~~:~ o:;::!":::.e~~': . . . . 1-1Ic1a! clo.onpI tIIIt &etJ you excited oboI.l JtOina out, like ¢ .1111",... l1li, zt,yl-. .,..,...". fl!l;iaI 1\Ii•• (It bo.oyina • new "",fl!. ..... _ you only"",,, ....,.... -.fidtz .... :0 .... ke !lilt fltSl cold h! Lh ·1.....' you bLoIld 01T II.- n........ oadt 10 PIIIh further, ...1iI

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'""""""••,•• ftatuMg Ibe gorilla ..,.,.,"" with _pie fO(JlOV .......;nll how the oil~ ....Ie peofu.'M d&IIY .... yl< "" !he (..... lI .. ;" hi . tribe.. Thm! i. aloo fClOl.tF or tht boN "';IW II\UIwbMin, in Ihu... "",. In the ope world. !he IIpba male', dominance COO11e1 hi. '-F physical Ii"". I trail fu! "Ie &OriU....1«1 r... I(thi, ....... InIC fur IMo....... the only JUYS 1J"Uin& '-id .........., ~ ' roiopt !Iori. low pooition on01, to t • .ch them about human psychol"ll,)', beIIovior. or If)'OU ..... ~ a bela ",hen )'0 you'd be I beI.a ror life. But IIOw that !he right beioavion and rIIi,""" can be identifoed and otodied, it i. easier ror today' . man 10 become an alpha

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Fine IeI'I take I look • your bell mak. lUI nwnber one ! hint with 0""' and ~. He makes it cie.... by """,rolling the amount ofottention be giv,,", IhaI be - . not tolerate diStespcdful or frigid behavir. If .be - . not lileuUK women know ,,+.eo> you are faking. Just lik. Robert DeNi", in He(1/. )'QU must be ready I without beoita!ion. While many girl. will not chase you back. tbe ones who do will "'''Pere ~ girls out there right !>OW who will ,1«1> with yu. "bile both con>ci"", w DOl until you "I'P""'f.... ooats. Wilh each flle .'"".,. oomeone """" ~ "","-term f,ihre for long-term IUCCaoS. A man without priI:thing lib. " Well hiotorieaIly I have ~ poooty in this type of situation .., I'm not &"'nil 10 do it thi. time." IfuIorical .....-aaes "'" not trllin& of fiIIlft MlIIts b ·1t ,. your pill I~ will a[",-.yJ be changing' a lIP""ifIC ~ rou bombed ot , couple month. ago ""'y be easy for rou todIIy. Talrinl advantage of ... many opp<W1wtili., as you can ensurcJ that Il.IOOeSS . ...... wasled.

..... here you'd.,., 0 type of Hail Mary game ",bore gu~ p"e """ lUi; ond oflen ""Po" : I'fui push to set in • girl. pan... In this parung lot: I decided 10 try """'" new mat.na[ I had thoughl of. J _Iked up to o ~ ..... e white air! sta>ding by henelf.oo soid. ~Wow, you look dno"ok l " After the W/;In;I$ CAme out. I ~ why I thou8JU this would be a aood open.... but it was too late. She 1"'""1'")' "nd ..id. ~1"m lired of .. y1Imti"i me like silillOllighl. Whou the ruck i. 'MQI1i with youT I Jlooeir ttxu.. pr")'ing that the air! has more bIoIl. than he has ond iipp"oacha him instead (.no """""t). l"1oe typical negot.ve w""* from., iippood. i .......lIy very benip. buI [taD Iell you wbat h"' .... I. ill the .....,..-ase.,.".;,o beit ","".,,,ed to me once in 1Jaltimoft. ~ A ~ training IIJO'I'Id for ~in& sa- i. in the mop~Iubs of Baltimore "'",.,. the vibe i. more In.ndly 10 pllO)'U"l than other East: Coast cities I've boom to. Ono of"1be bi""", dUM in Bahi· more i.o place called Harnmerjot:u.. • f<JnMr rock m""" ven"", that .,,. down and reopened u • danot dub.

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""""'iY. whicll i •• 1W.nl barrier!hM ~ the ori;inal from OOIIwrona 10 the rlllli ptOCIua, Genina O\'a" !hi. hump is like p""i", I I'Ocl; O\'a" I hill---m>ical raocc;"" with chi. big .cti'lIiOOl The enzyme")'OUT bomn. full of knowledge. and .. ,i"", gon 001. o~perience, AI you build Cc10 _ prJ • .oppeo l for their n.... ~' . tva)1ltina; .be, oitplonet _ aiJplrt .. buoeo. tubway&. " ' _ pod. . . . - - _ eveol tho _ _ ""1>a c,er _ _ ...., iI io possible 10 .wuP8dr them. The 00IIy limiII to ...ben: )'OlE . . - _ _ hi.. in yazr ""-I. J ,....." ...... one time I JOIzhoe """,bet of I 17.year-olcl prI walkina with a pi_ ..... ile I 1M in zhoe P'" e side of my frieodoCM". Wbar ~ _ 1 0 rtndinaairt .. being aazi .~ il impoo_ beo:a .... c-.-ay ..... Ii_ ... a differenT .....-iron........ You 7BIPY noI Ii"" in I bi, city couple hl-Oldml t.n. bLo you do Iurve thal old ..,..." .en.... wt.er. Itreno ,,«I en! _ .. The main idea i. 10 II" wt.er. tho _ _ .... on
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I keep IjUOSIin&. wntinuing the ~lon. ..-d if,.... I'd it rip tbco .... il;',,..e -~ 1IId ..... ,.... _,.... , , -, Todoo&blo 111)'_ of Je!tioo& her .... ""'Y right, 1",-,. linle wiIh ....[.. d... Itkc. -y"" .... either from A1gcmina or Mexk;o,. E,"Cf1 "';\h airIo who .... _ ethnic rnJjUSl ...m'e. mi. __ .iII w otaI1. _~ _ aI_ lIIythin&- For insunoe if)'OU ..... girl .......... in • bWo ,,--. )'OU .... 11)'. " Let me IlICSS: y"" .., writina doc IICOI.l ..... Au ..[· • .....-err If)'OU"'" III • music "'"""',' you can 11)'. " Let me ,..... You ha>-e '-'. r... siooo before they becamo bia?" y"" can ..... down tbe;,.;_ ti.ol phrMina of Ibi. opener if you . . in • ""'"' ",laxed ven"". In I coffee oIoop I'd say. - Hey. I'm jUII <Wi ........ .., )'OU from Argen-

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"";ont to thit opcnhow ofT hi. noo".,.." You can .-ld: "And I've t-n pncticinlla linle bil in fro,u of the mim>r m)""lf.M Or.ce the joke il ""'" and I b . . . - op....r plays itodf $" """' ... (which 1CdInic;:aIly -.uld _ be an """' .... now). 0< tbc fc" ..1e opin .... roI.line dcsr;ribcd Iborlly, Runnin& """,CIS 0< roWnct in..... IIiaI onIcr is call..:! ""*,,,iOIl " Another bw op,,,u you can .... if; "'....... &ill accida,,1y toochel you in I CfOVoUcd bw .• >-.0)' """"""" occurrmce. Say. " E>:. ...... me. t>u1 you louchcd my bocloo.ah for. spli' ~)'OU - . I her 10 think you.., -,us..,ru you cnck I lIiafU smilk. 'Nhcn I _ fil'll Jlud)ling \he game I had do..,... of opcnen orpnized in a .."..adohecc. Bill i, made "I'J'f"Khin& '" compl•• thai I octually ~ leu. I would oit Ih= and stare at I girl """",",. ing which opener wu bell (Of 1hc particular Iituat..... A. I JaUlI I ","OOIdn., do "}1hina- AI thi. point )'OU have two defa.ull op""," . !hOI won:: ....,11 in _ cues. 1hc _Mil> of the .....u_.... oUoI opeoer !hOI leu you be opal . .ywhuc you brove ....ique 1IioIIeht or opinion. and • handful of fun bw opa...... Tbol·. oil Y"" o>ea!! II'. bell to keep;' "mple beca ..... too many options lead to paraIyoiJ.

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, Once you IUr'C t.oIkina 10 her .•...,.id .... QOorl\m(II"I mimes: 100 much .."iling when lOmtIhi~ funny""'''''' ' ..Ki. 100 m..:h tw.~na ov..,. when if o no. loud. ond too many fa .. move",,,,," d"" 10 beiIIjl """""" ond """i,,>(I. 1hellB'1 have. \(Jt " ' ....~ ODd i. overly MwY 10 be talking 10 her. If you fond )'OUr1 110 le)mUta do ....,,"""i,..? Do you II'" in her w.o.)' or do you make • Uoolum ""'" otan ..... king bor1 (I . . in her w.oy and pllyfuJly """"" I...- '" aoi"i down !he ........., tide "'!he 1IIUs.) Or bow about i f you ..... IAid, • arouP of girl. _ !he one you don'l like is ~ you "' .... ~ Do you ...... i"l ... oaIkina....-ith boo- in !be bopeo f iNM .....ina yGUrlelf;""!he arouP or do you IIh'" bot .......... ew1y and "",,-e yow (I tdIo. .., bet rot 110'-" IhoII , mi&-

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type. whethc< it be three minlllcs or thfec monm. into lhe inIenoc:tion. You know what quaJjl)' II and you f...-l you 1: ! ''''. 10 111,. ~ in your life.. A prt is I..,ky you .. Iected J.... 10 luna ..... "'ilh you boaUJC you will si~. IoeI' die best of "'NI your p'" ... wity ..,.;I experiences ha"" 10 off... Whil. it' s ""ay 10 ha"" M in !he be< and u.lk to .~crag. ai.1Jl for flO1 and practice.)'O\I commit \JOe bulk of your t""" .,1 .....gy to ai.ls ",1>0 are wonh it. Sclcctin& for q ... lily di .. pLoys thai you..., quality. A f..w d 10 be .. leai~. with girl. they choale 10 opend Ii.... wido. Thi . at1ilude """'ife•• i, ..lf in ~ when to. says thinll' to jIlrl. lik •. -You're pretty wei"" ~ or. -You'", 100 old fa- .....~ without OOIIJCious .O'... on his ~. It;'" , .. '". .... .od .... will be ....,.., into him .. "' ,_ I....... of ~)'OO a h... dt:d diff....... lines. ~'I man: .O''''''i~e '0 tad> you the rroi>-', , IhM ptndo"'"" titan. <Joncc you. ha.~ mastemJ thi. mindset. bolkin, to airl. will be euier. _ more of them will be intoremd in you.

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lO .. y ofIer \be "~,,,*,h. 1111, i. I n!al ",otok", b«:auIoe. prolonged iii_ I... than thiny minutes intO the eom'efUlion i. limo. CCf" Ulinly deaIIt. 1 know if 1 p" .... for koII&er than len ~ durina lI>oeo ",itill doilty min...,., Iho pic/u, .... won't foellho need to work cItroott:h .. _hald oilcnoe. SO ..... , . - &iris believe thM;r two pwpIe ...... inowo: c:hemillry. Iltoen! i. no , . j 10 "'" .... of thinp to .. y riJlrt aflcr ......unS. To her. both of)'\l'U should be tripping OV'JIeno:e thM «00 ..... "'" of)'OUt .......... 10 be I bloc-fly boo"'" on tho & "" ibeir ned<s.., aeaint larger and ~ Thrd you c.. _. Simply point OIl! a coupl. and My. - Wh .. do you think .boIA thelL tw(>. Do you think they .... friends. or """"" Aller 010. alvet you h... opiruon. al'" youn with iH1Come i. curren, •• t•• You male fun o"","".ion. or ]!Ole im...... ilIg qllCSiionJ about !he en"';ronmem you bth are =,Iy""-ing. If you _ ... Nt.~. ~T ...ally lik. bow !hi. loud Nt 1IWIk.. it so ellS)' for .. to C<Jnnoey weft lOUChina 00>d p;rodin& on each other. II """ in......,u,g. " 0.-. "I ...... . """'~Iy 01 thi. bar in Vort. I'uJns 1)'1,.."ia, ...1.... lleamed 10 TWIlJy .......... illle die ooenc..., ha"" here." 11tat I wenl inlo tbe ooenc ... inI trr.. "llw!lh" .....iM' me ordle I ..... [ ...... io Anodta" trr.k.a1litulllono. Ask • what ..._ oho -..Jd aurit...e I the fall of the R....... Empire. IIddinl! ~Well ~ toW movie(;l~ .... ~ Aok."WhIt tftitlkperiod

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